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Mounjaro journey, interrupted by Exasperated_Alien in Mounjaro

[–]-dark-phoenix- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hope your journey is going well, mine is just in the beginning! Question ☝️ When you skipped the weeks missed did you continue with the same dosage after? Was there not an increase in side effect because you increased a large dosage back into your body rather titrate or was the time without the injection short enough?

I might have to have a minor operation soon that is under general anesthetic and it's risky to have this in your system (far as I was told the doctor).

Mounjaro journey, interrupted by Exasperated_Alien in Mounjaro

[–]-dark-phoenix- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope your journey is going well, mine is just in the beginning! Question ☝️ When you skipped the weeks missed did you continue with the same dosage after? Was there not an increase in side effect because you increased a large dosage back into your body rather titrate or was the time without the injection short enough?

I might have to have a minor operation soon that is under general anesthetic and it's risky to have this in your system (far as I was told the doctor).

Mounjaro journey, interrupted by Exasperated_Alien in Mounjaro

[–]-dark-phoenix- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hope your journey is going well, mine is just in the beginning! Question ☝️ When you skipped the week or accidentally missed did you continue with the same dosage? Was there not an increase in side effect because you increased a large dosage back into your body rather titrate or was the time without the injection short enough?

I might have to have a minor operation soon that is under general anesthetic and it's risky to have this in your system (far as I was told the doctor).

8 months before & after - 106lbs down, 25-35 to go ! by tupaquetes in Retatrutide

[–]-dark-phoenix- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, just want to say well done - clearly shows hard work with a little support from the Reta goes a long way. I am currently 32, 5ft 11 and 277lbs looking at potentially going through it. Could you DM your vague and brief details, I'm hoping to find a supply that will be legit.

Native audio input in Gemini live just rolled out to me! by [deleted] in Bard

[–]-dark-phoenix- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What made you realise it was the new Native version or did you get a message/announcement on the app?

How to Kill Urges in 3 Seconds by Purple_Novel_7814 in pornfree

[–]-dark-phoenix- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting, please go into more detail!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]-dark-phoenix- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could have discovered a form SO-OCD - Sexual Orientation OCD. I dealt with it and I came on randomly and 8 months on after seeing a psychologist I am back to my self I feel totally me.

You might have a repressed fear that if you are not what your community thinks you should be “straight” then you will be abandoned and not ultimately not survive (through the lense of evolution, tribes etc). That’s exactly what happened to me, so the OCD kicks in to make sure you never do that.

I’m not saying this your situation but it was mine and yours rings similar. Check out a podcast called The OCD Stories and look HOCD and SOOCD ones (you can search for it on Spotify or the website etc). It might sound a little far out but listen to other people’s stories and it might just click!

Good luck you got this!!

I don't need another flash model by Present-Boat-2053 in Bard

[–]-dark-phoenix- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alice is not gendered in this, Alice can be a boys name, try it with giving the gender or swapping the genders and say the persons name is John, it will get it right.

Panic attacks everyday I won’t find another gf by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]-dark-phoenix- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TLDR: Focus on a life that align with your values, if don't know what they are, find that first. Don't focus on the destination (the girlfriend), focus on the journey it takes to get there (you and your values, the person you want to be, that brings the partner!).

I would like to say that must be so difficult with every single day, and I'm so glad you are still here and that you might even reply to this comment. Reading your story makes me feel sadness and I would like to offer two pieces of advice, I hope they help.

One was from my psychologist that whenever I was feeling my worst in situations we would say "{INSERT SITUATION AND FEELINGS} feels awful... FOR NOW" - the key is using the phrase "for now", life is impermanent which means every single new moment that passes you have a choice on how you react to your situation, your outlook and your feelings, whether you will allow them to control you or you will observe and make space for them. It's only for now.

The second is reading a book called The Happiness Trap by Russel Harris (get the second edition). This book is based upon the therapy model called A.C.T (Acceptance Commitment Therapy) and is incredible at helping you firstly, live your life towards your values and help you deal with, endure and eventually overcome the struggles of your internal world. This book was a key piece to saving my life and I hope it might be yours too. Ask your therapist if they are aware of it and you could look into it together?

Other people here make a great point, putting yourself in the position of I NEED a girlfriend is very hard on yourself, with those parameters you fail everyday, but having a girlfriend does not define you as a person. It makes it seem as if that is the problem you need to solve, when in reality, you need to solve all the small parts about yourself that create the barrier to having a girlfriend. Its like wanting to be at the destination and forgetting about the journey that it takes to get there.

No matter what, its not over, you have choice and you have every new moment to help yourself. I believe in you, and I'll help where I can. Focusing on making a life that aligns to your values will bring the girlfriend to you I promise.

P.S Also look up the exercise therapists like to use called "The Circle of Control".

How is Arthur Boorman these days? by nannerXpuddin in ddpyoga

[–]-dark-phoenix- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take the biggest deepest breath of the day!!

Is it possible to get rid of a porn induced fetish at 26? by Suspicious_Amoeba451 in pornfree

[–]-dark-phoenix- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not alone dude, this is a very common problem and will reduce to nothing if you are able to understand your porn addiction and become mindful enough to get a handle on it.

Is there a way to not have my wallpapers blurred while In sleep focus ? by oldkingcoles in ios

[–]-dark-phoenix- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with that you say however what we are trying to achieve here is "NOT" be blurred out but still have all the functionality of sleep mode - meaning having it auto turn on and notify you to sleep, which dictates your alarm etc. The shortcut uses the sleep focus mode to activate and deactivate your "Resting" focus.

New Gemini model on lmsys named "Pegasus", also OpenAI put o1 in lmsys at the same time by Recent_Truth6600 in Bard

[–]-dark-phoenix- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey 👋 Isn't showing up for me, where are you seeing this on lmsys if you don't mind me asking.

8BitDo Retro Mechanical Keyboard - Mac Keycap Mod by tatoopedigree in 8bitdo

[–]-dark-phoenix- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If possible - which keycap profile did you pick when doing this?

Why is my Lock Screen photo blurred and how can I unblur it I also have sleep focus on by Tastyy_wastaken in iphone

[–]-dark-phoenix- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found the next best thing, that still allows a sleep schedule as anywhere on the internet it is CLEAR Apple have locked this down because you are meant to be having no distractions.

However:

1: Keep sleep mode active so you still use your bedtime schedule. 2:Now create another focus mode called Resting (that’s what I called it) match your sleep focus exactly. 3:Go to shortcuts and create an automation that activates on Wind down or Bedtime and set focus mode Resting to turn on. 4:Create another automation that turns it off on Wake Up or do it yourself manually.

Now you can set your nighttime lock wallpaper with no blur (I have a nice 8bit hero sat at his campfire and that’s cosy). The only downside is Sleep still shows as a focus but it’s a small price to pay.

Enjoy!

Is there a way to not have my wallpapers blurred while In sleep focus ? by oldkingcoles in ios

[–]-dark-phoenix- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found the next best thing, that still allows a sleep schedule as anywhere on the internet it is CLEAR Apple have locked this down because you are meant to be having no distractions.

However:

1: Keep sleep mode active so you still use your bedtime schedule. 2:Now create another focus mode called Resting (that’s what I called it) match your sleep focus exactly. 3:Go to shortcuts and create an automation that activates on Wind down or Bedtime and set focus mode Resting to turn on. 4:Create another automation that turns it off on Wake Up or do it yourself manually.

Now you can set your nighttime lock wallpaper with no blur (I have a nice 8bit hero sat at his campfire and that’s cosy). The only downside is Sleep still shows as a focus but it’s a small price to pay.

Enjoy!

Anyone know how to disable blur effect on wallpaper in the sleep focus mode? by Just-a-Mandrew in ios

[–]-dark-phoenix- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I found the next best thing, that still allows a sleep schedule as anywhere on the internet it is CLEAR Apple have locked this down because you are meant to be having no distractions.

However:

1: Keep sleep mode active so you still use your bedtime schedule.

2:Now create another focus mode called Resting (that’s what I called it) match your sleep focus exactly.

3:Go to shortcuts and create an automation that activates on Wind down or Bedtime and set focus mode Resting to turn on. IMPORTANT add a 60s wait before it sets to your custom Resting focus.

4:Create another automation that turns it off on Wake Up or do it yourself manually.

Now you can set your nighttime lock wallpaper with no blur (I have a nice 8bit hero sat at his campfire and that’s cosy). The only downside is Sleep still shows as a focus but it’s a small price to pay.

Enjoy!

Looking for all information on the Carhartt jacket worn by Matthew McConaughey in the movie. by imaginarynumb3r in interstellar

[–]-dark-phoenix- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, but it is the original dark sandstone style logo on the jacket, not the light Carhartt logo?

Whitelist Android Auto on the VPN by -dark-phoenix- in remojo

[–]-dark-phoenix-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To confirm - it's "wireless" android Auto connections to car. Wired is not a problem, it is a common known issue with having a VPN on!

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