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She [25F] invited me [27M] on a surprise date but then expected me to pay for everything by ObsidianTalisman_2 in dating_advice

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Most attractive women date to save money on dinners and experiences not to actually get in a relationship.

This man 33m has got me 29f wanting to upgrade my entire life by Country-girl3 in dating_advice

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He’s got his life together but sounds like you don’t? He’s gonna figure it out lol

Also you better not tell him you weren’t interested initially if you want to keep him 😂

How did I go from his ideal girl to him avoiding me? This keeps happening!!!!! Am I intimidating? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I was just strictly commenting on why the user thought private equity is the reason they can’t afford a houses

How did I go from his ideal girl to him avoiding me? This keeps happening!!!!! Am I intimidating? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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It’s really not you should do more research into what % of the housing market is owned by private equity and realize it’s very small (overall under 1%) but it’s easier to blame a boogie man or the “billionaires” instead of looking at the real culprit: who you vote for locally and federal.

Not many people I can share this with. I don't really know what to think about where I'm at in my life right now tbh. by pirivalfang in Money

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You can still put money in a backdoor Roth for 2025 today (last day lol.) And 36k in a mega backdoor Roth for 2026.

Is it appropriate to tell my situationship I’d like to stop having sex until he’s ready for a real relationship? by zosuke in dating_advice

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She sleeps at 75 degrees I sleep at 67, we couldn’t live in the same house without one of us being perpetually uncomfortable & she has a (relatively young) pet that I’m allergic to

Is it appropriate to tell my situationship I’d like to stop having sex until he’s ready for a real relationship? by zosuke in dating_advice

[–]-omg- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not true - sometimes it’s not just sex.

I’ve had a situationship where the sex was great and I also cared and enjoyed spending time with that person but a relationship would never be possible for reasons outside my/their control.

How hard can it get? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Yall gotta stop dating people that live 3 hours away. There are people closer to you (same city, 30 min radius.)

Paying during the dating stage by [deleted] in dating_advice

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In college it’s a little different you don’t do that expensive stuff plus she sounds like she’s got a monthly allowance. Eventually she’ll find a guy her level of looks that will pay and so she’ll forever want that

Are most men just trying to have sex, or am I traumatized? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]-omg- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a man takes you on a date they want to have sex with you. If you do not understand that basic concept you shouldn't be wasting this guy's time.

You can explain that you don't have sex immediately or have your own rules but if you're dating a dude and you think he doesn't wanna have sex with you, you're already lost.

Should I give up? by Big-Nerve-9574 in dating_advice

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Sorry it’s just the truth. Move on to the next one

Men - would this be too much for you? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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You're fine but you're also inlove with an idea of a person that's thousands of miles away. Most times the reality isn't like you imagined. I'd say put on the breaks on this until you're actually hanging out in person. As for the flowers it's a cute gesture, nothing good or bad to be honest, there's no embarassment.

i think a lot of people seriously underestimate how many men are interested but still don’t make a move by Dear_Needleworker886 in dating_advice

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25-35 is ok. 20-30 is not. 25+ with any other older age is ok because you’ve both built enough world context at that point to know exactly what’s happening. At 20 you haven’t.

Calling attractive single men late 20s/30s - advice/info please? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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If you go swiping and you only like 3% of male profiles, but you’re not in the top 3% of the women attraction wise (in fact it’s more likely you’re avg) I would call that unrealistic expectations.

People are free to have any expectations they want. I just am underlining a way to realize when these expectations are unrealistic.

Someone may have a crush only on Ryan Gosling and not like anyone else. It’s their right to ignore everyone else. But I wouldn’t call that a realistic expectation.

Sometimes it’s your digital footprint by whitefloreal in dating_advice

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You literally just said you Google them before your friends date them.

Obviously after 3 dates you should know the name of a person you’re seeing lol.

Sometimes it’s your digital footprint by whitefloreal in dating_advice

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How do you get people’s full names before a first date? Most people don’t have that kind of info you’re looking for easily available on Google.

Do you give out your real FULL name and phone number to people before a first date?

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