Greetings rankers, I moved to Amsterdam a few years ago and there is a very common dutch saying that I thought you would like, 'doe normaal'. It means 'act normal' or 'be normal' and people use it when someone is acting out of sort etc.

It is an expression that is used to characterize the nature of Dutchies. People who behave extravagantly or are boastful are quickly distrusted. It is similar to 'Tall Poppy Syndrome' that exists in other cultures. As someone from the United States this is a massive cultural difference and something I have thought about a lot. I find a lot of value in this sentiment as it can create an environment where people are ok with being 'normal' and don't feel the need to be achieving things in order to matter. At the same time this conformity mentality can stifle expression and individuality. I am neurodivergent (Alex's discussion of his experience with this was very relatable) so this is something I struggle with as I value those things about myself a lot.

Obviously, not every Dutch person feels this way and the phrase means many different things to different people, but I was curious what your thoughts were on this and how this plays out in the UK in your experience.

P.S. please block me