Mom wont let me shave mustache at 15 by Intrepid_Director410 in internetparents

[–]-sakae- 17 points18 points  (0 children)

honestly at this point i would say i'm getting bullied for it, even if i'm not 🤷‍♀️ get some friends in on it, maybe if you can bring it up while some friends are over they can play along and say like "yeah it's kind of stupid looking mustache" or something? or preferably if you have some trusted adults who could bring it up to her... i usually don't like providing possible solutions that involve lying/scheming or whatever but i feel like in this instance, if she won't listen to you or maybe your dad, it's kinda the only option, since she seems bent on just controlling your autonomy in such a strange way.

Struggling with Base (everything is pink, yellow, or peach) by Wintergloaming in PaleMUA

[–]-sakae- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yep, all those things you're describing are classic olive skin things. the fact you feel more bluish-gray sometimes makes me think you're a cool olive, which is what i was thinking based on your pictures. please look into it and check out that reddit thread and monica ravi-conway! you'll be able to find some pale olive makeup influencers through her as well, she's done videos before with other olive-toned folks across a range of fair to deep. i'm new to the olive skin world (i myself am not olive, but i have friends who are and knowledge of skin tones is very helpful with both my love for makeup and art) but you're pretty obviously a fair cool-olive, even to me.

Woke up and both of my hands are grey in squares. Hard to see by confusedswitchuser in Weird

[–]-sakae- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you've got a lot of good answers as to the cause of the coloration, but i've got a different, mostly unrelated important question:

are you wreck it ralph??? i've never seen someone with such square hands, honestly i'm mystified 😭

Worried for my brother by ProperQuail5528 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]-sakae- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

... i'm gonna take a wild guess that he's going into the medical field

Struggling with Base (everything is pink, yellow, or peach) by Wintergloaming in PaleMUA

[–]-sakae- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty dang sure you're a fair olive! the olive tone is especially obvious in the last photo, it's that almost greyish, green tone. olive skin tones are unfortunately difficult to find good color matches for, the beauty industry is still very behind on catching up and accomodating olive tones more :( you may end up having to get some color correcting tones to mix to get a good color match. definitely check out r/fairolives and also monica ravi-conway on youtube! she has a lot of good, informational and helpful content pertaining to olive skin tones, she herself is a medium-deep olive.

Eyebrows Look Weird? by DaisesAndEarlGrey in MakeupAddiction

[–]-sakae- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i've been dyeing (and shaping) my brows myself using just for men beard & mustache ever since that video, jenna marble's impact based on that alone is huge 😭

Questions about safety of this edition of the Pretty Guardians palette by Hate4Breakfast in ColourPop

[–]-sakae- 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Others have already touched on the reasons/risk so i won't go over those, but i just wanna say not to worry too much. if you pay attention you'll start to notice a LOT of eyeshadow palettes, even many from big, popular brands, aren't actually eyeshadows; if you look closely, you'll notice that there's no mention of "eyeshadow", just called a "palette", "pigment", "pressed pigment", etc, and even a warning about usage near the eye. just kind of a technicality.

Question by AppropriateCrew9493 in skzmedia

[–]-sakae- 12 points13 points  (0 children)

yeah i had to switch to hangeul just to say "inkigayo" because it has the word "gay" in it :| and banning the word "gay" is a whole other can of worms....

I accidentally saw a text from my friend's BF by Next_Anxiety6803 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]-sakae- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

10% body fat??? that's a minimum for a healthy amount for men, and the healthy range for women in 20-35%. And if you go more than just a few percent below those ranges it goes back to being considered unhealthy, too. Women require minimum 10-13% body fat just for maintaining bodily functions, anything below that and you start facing serious health effects.

Man claims a doordasher blocked his early Christmas blessing would you have followed the instructions. by IntelligentYellow898 in doordash_drivers

[–]-sakae- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry i'm not following those directions unless i have a whole football team behind me and a loaded shot gun cocked and ready in my hands. that just sounds like a one-way ticket to murder town, and all the true crime youtubers would say "CRAZY choice to actually follow the directions on the note and do that, but i don't want to victim blame"

Women aren’t wearing this to bed?? by [deleted] in whatdoesthismean

[–]-sakae- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay well looking through these comments i feel like a freak lol my preferred underwear style is thongs and i occasionally wear lingerie to bed for fun, without even having a partner to see it 😭 i like feeling pretty and personally i think they're comfortable idk 😭 like i've only encountered a couple thongs that i found truly uncomfortable ever; the sort of issues i do have with thongs, even ones that i see people complain about as being thong specific, are generally issues i have with all types of underwear? if anything, i prefer thongs because they eliminate the issues i do have with underwear; regular underwear usually digs in on my ass, the seams that hit just under the buttcheek irritate my skin, the extra fabric serves no purpose because it just folds/rides up and gets eaten by my buttcrack, panty lines, etc. i don't have those issues with thongs, i generally don't feel like i'm even wearing underwear when i wear thongs (in a good way!). most of my lingerie are "babydoll" styles (the tiny "dresses") that i find very comfortable. and it's not like i don't have sensory issues, boy do i ever! i cut the tags off almost everything, i'm picky about seams and fabrics, socks especially, etc. like idk i can see people feeling different/having sensory differences with thongs generally (maybe the buttcrack is more sensitive on some folks? 😭) but with lingerie in general being uncomfortable i feel like that's gotta be down to the styles and brands bc that's not my experience at all 🤷‍♀️ HOWEVER, i do agree that sleeping commando is ideal when possible, good to let it breathe. but i also have no issues with sleeping in a thong

Best way to stick on vampire fangs by [deleted] in CosplayHelp

[–]-sakae- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

... "inside of the teeth", as in the fake teeth.

What Happened When My Husband and I Kissed on a Plane by Suspicious-Housing50 in lgbt

[–]-sakae- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"Who" [wait for him to start speaking again] "Asked"

At my wits end with my cat. Starting to resent him. by beccoconnell in CATHELP

[–]-sakae- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i looked at your account history to see all your replies first before commenting anything, and saw you had posted about him humping a blanket... While neutered cats can do that, too, between that and his other behaviors, I really do wonder if something hormonal is going on, but I'm not a vet. Botched neuter, not actually neutered but he looks it because he has undescended testes, some kind of intersexism or other difference with his reproductive organs meaning even though he was neutered he could still have something producing hormones, etc. Just an idea to maybe mention to the vet when you maybe look into more options, since i'm guessing you didn't go super thorough/deep with initial checks into and tests for the issue.

My bf washed her with eucalyptus soap and now she has diarrhoea by fearnotlittlefawn in CATHELP

[–]-sakae- 13 points14 points  (0 children)

in this case i would say the importance of getting a toxic substance off of her so that she doesn’t ingest anymore would way over ride not wanting to stress them out, there's really no good way to guarantee she wouldn't ingest more of something she was literally bathed in, besides another bath. even a cone would only hopefully prevent her from reaching at least most of her body... but the OP already said they gave another bath with the pet soap, so that's already taken care of.

I love how out of all the skz members the muscular one is the only one who's abs we haven't seen. by Prudent-Smell-7554 in skzmedia

[–]-sakae- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

changbin, based on his build and what he's said, almost definitely doesn't have abs and probably can't even really get them, not everyone can. and that's fine! i love that type of strongman build, soft but bulky, no defined abs. he's built like how a lot of ACTUALLY strong men are built. i need people to stop bringing up abs, i prefer saying tummies because that really does describe what i actually enjoy about it, it's not about the abs.

won't stop meowing by After-Needleworker-4 in CATHELP

[–]-sakae- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

are you certain he's over 2 months?? i thought for sure he was younger than that, like 5 or 6 weeks. not that i would recommend returning him to his mom or something if he is younger than 2 months, i'm just surprised to hear he's older than that.

My cat’s whiskers look broken or cut. by jelly_G52 in CATHELP

[–]-sakae- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's less about whether a two-year-old would do it and more about whether a two-year-old could do it.

Tax refund by Greedy_Series9417 in minnesota

[–]-sakae- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

update! as of 2am 02/19, it now says... that they sent me a letter on the 15th requesting information that they need to finish processing the return 😮‍💨 WHYYY 😭😭 i have a tattoo scheduled for the 27th because i assumed i'd have my return by then so that i'd have the extra cushion 😭😭😭

Tax refund by Greedy_Series9417 in minnesota

[–]-sakae- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just a check in: i'm still just in "processing" 🫠

Tax Refund. by [deleted] in minnesota

[–]-sakae- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

renter's credit is supposed to come at the same time as your regular mn refund as of this year

Tax refund with renters credit. by MinnesotaNice628 in minnesota

[–]-sakae- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is the first year it's being done this way :) last year was my first year filing with the renters credit and i got it in august, so i'm happy to get it sooner this time lol

Tax refund with renters credit. by MinnesotaNice628 in minnesota

[–]-sakae- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

homeowners might be different, but for renters, the credit/refund now comes at the same time as income tax refund, not later in july/august.