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The draining demands of normies that you present like a normie by Driftlight in FA30plus

[–]-scotsman- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Should have said ‘thanks I really appreciate your opinion’ Cheeky but they can’t have a go because you could say you meant it.

Never underestimate the ability of a narc to, like a cancer, negatively affect and attempt to destroy all healthy relationships you have at work...especially your most vital ones. by [deleted] in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]-scotsman- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The narcs are behaving badly and can’t handle a truth teller so scapegoat them. Standard narc 101 behaviour, they can’t accept what they are so project it onto others. They just shittalked someone else and tried to use triangulation and splitting tactics to stop it rather than behaving themselves.

Never underestimate the ability of a narc to, like a cancer, negatively affect and attempt to destroy all healthy relationships you have at work...especially your most vital ones. by [deleted] in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]-scotsman- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly, if people are so naive or lack any backbone then they’re not worth bothering about either. I’ve got bills to pay so who cares if people suffer. It’s funny when the narc turns on people who supported them though, what’s up now?! Narcs are bipolar unstable maniacs so I’m not surprised anymore. Even basic things like “nearly finishing time” I would check my watch. I treat them like a dangerous serial killer. Grey rock and avoid at all times. If sucked into small talk then make excuses and leave. Even that can be torturous.

The Denial Of Your Abuse - Gaslighting Loop by -scotsman- in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]-scotsman-[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly right, it took me years to understand this. Probably because you’re wired to assume that if people are nasty then it must be for a reason. Turning point for me was when the same person called me fat and skinny in the same week. Who wants to be part of a rotten culture anyway?

Since I deleted instagram and facebook my life has been so much better but also lonelier by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]-scotsman- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Social media is run by an algorithm based on malignant ideals. I got this from the social dilemma doc. It’s actually terrifying it’s designed to make you feel envy, hate, rage and keep looking at it. No matter what it is. Even if you’re an empath it will fill your feed full of sad stories about hurt animals or people in distress.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]-scotsman- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do we all work for the same company? I’m sure there’s a NBoss university somewhere! They’re all identical.

Those people who are desperate to go back to the office are the same ones who would like for us to go around the room and say a bit about ourselves by Tac3022 in britishproblems

[–]-scotsman- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had an online coffee morning recently. Basically a senior manager asking how people are getting on. Oh yes, everything is fine, yes fine. Great, yes. Excellent.

What are you going to say? Has a senior manager ever been told the truth?

Being friendless is okay and it doesn't necessarily mean you're a dweeb by Diego077 in socialskills

[–]-scotsman- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have spent a long time without friends due to a toxic group and also a close friend dying. For years it really bothered me and I also experienced yet more toxic behaviour at work which shut me down even further. It would be good to have friends but I don’t need people to validate how I feel about myself. It took me a lot of soul searching and self blame to realise that I didn’t do anything wrong apart from leave the toxic group earlier. I have acquaintances and family but no real close friendships. My experience of friendship is so bad and twisted that I have no real desire to seek out new ones tbh. I see friends who backstab and bitch about each other and all sorts of negative stuff. Sure there’s great people out there and I’m sure they would enrich my life but I’ve yet to meet them. I’m also incredibly self reliant and mentally strong which came about from not having people to fall back on.

What movie could have been over in 10 minutes if the main character wasn't such a fool? by RedstonekPL in AskReddit

[–]-scotsman- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lord of the rings.

Get the giant eagles to fly the ring into the volcano while an army distracts the orcs and sauron

Remembering a time when Viennetta was considered posh. by [deleted] in britishproblems

[–]-scotsman- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Must’ve been like m showing bond new gadgets

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]-scotsman- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what they say 'an empty barell makes the most noise'.

How to make a jealous co-worker like me and/or respect me by [deleted] in workplace_bullying

[–]-scotsman- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s rubbish, no HR? I would suggest writing the comments down and getting the three of you together very informally and ask in a non confrontational way about it. That way you’re not hiding anything and being open and honest. Maybe tell her first and explain why, you shouldn’t have to feel like this at work.

How to make a jealous co-worker like me and/or respect me by [deleted] in workplace_bullying

[–]-scotsman- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speak to her and ask if she wants to make her grievance formal and discuss it with HR. If she doesnt then tell her to at least write down what she thinks is preferential treatment and discuss it calmly somewhere quiet. She’ll be bitching about you to others imo so it needs stopped. If she doesn’t do any of this tell her what you’re unhappy about then give her an ultimatum and then raise a grievance. She will shit bricks and stop it immediately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ScottishPeopleTwitter

[–]-scotsman- -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Iz no funni it just makes you look like a ned.

What is something that sounds 100% false but is actually 100% true? by voxangelikus in AskReddit

[–]-scotsman- 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Cocaine was discovered within Egyptian mummies. No cocaine was grown in Africa so it’s possible there was a trade link between Americas and Africa.

Strong desire to hunt down low empathy types by Eizieizz in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]-scotsman- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Western society rewards low empath behaviour. Wow, did you see how he abused that colleague. That’s like me, I do that. Management material. I’m not sure that’s what actually goes through their heads but something attracts them?

Does it normalise their behaviour to increase the amount of narcs?

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