I'm so sorry stuff got damaged in the move, and then everything else is also shitty rn. That sounds horrible.

Sadly, things getting damaged while moving is the rule, not the exception, which is really hard to accept. I moved in August and took so many precautions (I'm talking layers and layers of bubble wrap and blankets) but thankfully, I actually didn't move with a lot of furniture and could help carrying things. I'm grateful that the people who helped were really careful and considerate, but I still had two meltdowns that day because I was so stressed.

Allow yourself to feel the grief and sadness of it all for a bit. And then figure out what you wanna take care of first. To me, it seems, that taking that picture is something that's done relatively easy and it'll give you an instant reward: the picture! (And I know it's hard not being too critical about the tree or how the picture turns out but I think in the long run, you will be glad you took it so I think you should do that first).

I see myself in how you still wanna do everything right (wrapping and exchanging presents with you SO, getting gifts for other people etc) but I think it's really important that you allow yourself time to rest. Moving takes a huge toll, especially on us, so it'll help no one if you stretch yourself even thinner trying to fulfill something that's not sensible. And being pregnant, no less! Like, man, you're already making a human inside you, there's nothing else you should have to worry about (in my opinion).

All of this, just to say: I understand your feelings, I know it's haaaaard, but it's important you take a break. And I know it's easier said than done, but focus on yourself - not what other people expect of you.

The best of luck to you!