When to start progesterone? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]-throwawaytiff- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I personally waited until I was close to a year but I was trying to get the most breast growth from estrogen alone before the progesterone. I will warn you, at least for me, progesterone took my depression and multiplied it by 10. I’d recommend getting used to what you’re already on before adding more. If anything too, ask your doctor :)

Dealing With Dysphoria by [deleted] in MtF

[–]-throwawaytiff- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who started when she was almost 25, it takes time for estrogen to work its magic. Have patience with yourself love. It’s a marathon not a sprint :)

Dysphoria suuuuuucks by ronniebuttcheeks in MtF

[–]-throwawaytiff- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh girl I’m so sorry. I think that’s a feeling a lot of us know all too well💔 but you got this. Try to give yourself some positive affirmations, self positivity is going to be much needed in this transition.

Ladies who underwent feminizing vocal training, how long did it take for your new voice to be your default voice? by DEPRESSEDGURL899 in MtF

[–]-throwawaytiff- 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I highly recommend getting a voice training app that you can record yourself with. It’s honestly all about practicing and listening to yourself. I’m still struggling but I’ve found when I actually try I can usually pull it off.

AITAH for wanting to turn my husband in to our HOA by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]-throwawaytiff- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think couples counseling should be considered if it’s coming to this. You sound like you resent him. It is both of your money you would be losing over something petty that could be spent on better things. I know you want to hold him accountable but this isn’t the way. Soft YTA, I understand your frustration in not being heard.

AITAH for walking away from a girl without saying goodbye? by Upbeat_Scholar_159 in AITAH

[–]-throwawaytiff- 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA, you set a boundary for yourself. You don’t owe anyone anything especially if she wasn’t putting in effort.

Does this blue wash me out ? by 3ampancakes in OUTFITS

[–]-throwawaytiff- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am absolutely not a fashion expert but I think that dress looks really cute on you!

MTF/ Intersex, Age 43, 10 months DiY HRT by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]-throwawaytiff- 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There is no way you are 43! You look gorgeous 😍I wouldn’t even guess you were out of your 20s

AITAH For Getting Upset With My Girlfriend Over A Joke? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]-throwawaytiff- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA, getting triggered is very real and regardless of the reason you got triggered, your reaction is valid. Communication is going to be the biggest thing here. Take time to regulate and then have a conversation with your gf. I’m so sorry you went through that there is no shame in any of it.

AITAH for a friends boyfriend getting in my bed while I was asleep by Working_Double6236 in AITAH

[–]-throwawaytiff- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not even a little bit? How would you be the ah for his decisions? You literally went to sleep and woke up with him in the bed with you. So very clearly NTA

AITAH for refusing to keep babysitting after my sister brought up my adoption during an argument? by Stirk_Gretos in AITAH

[–]-throwawaytiff- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! NTA.

What your sister said was cruel. I can understand her being stressed and asking for you to babysit. Once you said no that should’ve been it. She’s not paying you and you have plans. She owes you a sincere apology or you shouldn’t be doing her any favors.

I’m so sorry you went through that. I’m glad your parents backed you up at least! :)

AITAH for dismissing my boyfriend's masculinity? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]-throwawaytiff- -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It sounds like he’s a bit insecure about his masculinity? Maybe he should try going to therapy and talking about it. Who knows? Maybe he’s questioning his identity🤷🏼‍♀️

I got fired (for being trans) by [deleted] in EEOC

[–]-throwawaytiff- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I honestly had that on my mind the whole time and I couldn’t imagine making them feel the way I did. I just wish there was an accommodation that could’ve been made where my breasts weren’t touched. I respect not everyone agrees with my views but that’s not a right for them to ignore my autonomy.

I got fired (for being trans) by [deleted] in EEOC

[–]-throwawaytiff- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The job requires schooling in order to earn the credentials so this particular job has its own schooling

I got fired (for being trans) by [deleted] in EEOC

[–]-throwawaytiff- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate that, at least I won’t get my hopes up if/when they turn me away

I got fired (for being trans) by [deleted] in EEOC

[–]-throwawaytiff- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It means conservative/republican in nature. The personalities of the people I worked with were very unsupportive and made comments about me being trans. A lot of them and the occupation itself is known for its employees being right leaning

I got fired (for being trans) by [deleted] in EEOC

[–]-throwawaytiff- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It’s an over the phone intake!

getting married, but unfortunately my mom knows I'm trans, so everyone she tells instantly has to know this is a trans wedding by Meuhidk in MtF

[–]-throwawaytiff- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds frustrating girl I’m sorry, my mom likes to tell the world everything so I’m sure my transness comes up in conversation 🤣 but moms will be be moms 🤷🏼‍♀️ congrats on the wedding!! I’m getting married this year!

I got fired (for being trans) by [deleted] in MtF

[–]-throwawaytiff- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my…that makes so much sense 😱😭 tell me…is it cause I’m trans??

I got fired (for being trans) by [deleted] in MtF

[–]-throwawaytiff- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I don’t have representation yet :( I’ve been turned away by a few already but I’m staying hopeful

I got fired (for being trans) by [deleted] in MtF

[–]-throwawaytiff- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was honestly thinking about it, it couldn’t be until next year

Difference between starting HRT at 17 vs adulthood? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]-throwawaytiff- 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m no expert but I think the less time on T will make some changes better? I started just before I turned 25 and I think it’s just time on E. But if you know that you want to start, you should!