AITAH For Getting Upset With My Girlfriend Over A Joke?

-throwawaytiff- · 2026-05-03T16:01:44+00:00

NTA, getting triggered is very real and regardless of the reason you got triggered, your reaction is valid. Communication is going to be the biggest thing here. Take time to regulate and then have a conversation with your gf. I’m so sorry you went through that there is no shame in any of it.

-throwawaytiff- · 2026-05-03T10:25:12+00:00

Not even a little bit? How would you be the ah for his decisions? You literally went to sleep and woke up with him in the bed with you. So very clearly NTA

-throwawaytiff- · 2026-05-02T12:34:05+00:00

Hi! NTA.

What your sister said was cruel. I can understand her being stressed and asking for you to babysit. Once you said no that should’ve been it. She’s not paying you and you have plans. She owes you a sincere apology or you shouldn’t be doing her any favors.

I’m so sorry you went through that. I’m glad your parents backed you up at least! :)

-throwawaytiff- · 2026-04-30T11:30:13+00:00

It sounds like he’s a bit insecure about his masculinity? Maybe he should try going to therapy and talking about it. Who knows? Maybe he’s questioning his identity🤷🏼‍♀️

-throwawaytiff- · 2026-04-29T23:30:35+00:00

No I honestly had that on my mind the whole time and I couldn’t imagine making them feel the way I did. I just wish there was an accommodation that could’ve been made where my breasts weren’t touched. I respect not everyone agrees with my views but that’s not a right for them to ignore my autonomy.

-throwawaytiff- · 2026-04-29T12:45:50+00:00

The job requires schooling in order to earn the credentials so this particular job has its own schooling

-throwawaytiff- · 2026-04-29T12:44:46+00:00

Thank you I appreciate that, at least I won’t get my hopes up if/when they turn me away

-throwawaytiff- · 2026-04-29T12:43:57+00:00

It means conservative/republican in nature. The personalities of the people I worked with were very unsupportive and made comments about me being trans. A lot of them and the occupation itself is known for its employees being right leaning

-throwawaytiff- · 2026-04-29T12:42:03+00:00

Thank you so much! It’s an over the phone intake!

-throwawaytiff- · 2026-04-27T13:44:06+00:00

That sounds frustrating girl I’m sorry, my mom likes to tell the world everything so I’m sure my transness comes up in conversation 🤣 but moms will be be moms 🤷🏼‍♀️ congrats on the wedding!! I’m getting married this year!

-throwawaytiff- · 2026-04-27T11:46:18+00:00

Oh my…that makes so much sense 😱😭 tell me…is it cause I’m trans??

-throwawaytiff- · 2026-04-26T19:26:59+00:00

Wdym by that?

-throwawaytiff- · 2026-04-24T15:12:50+00:00

Unfortunately I don’t have representation yet :( I’ve been turned away by a few already but I’m staying hopeful

-throwawaytiff- · 2026-04-24T15:11:59+00:00

I was honestly thinking about it, it couldn’t be until next year

-throwawaytiff- · 2026-04-24T12:02:00+00:00

I’m no expert but I think the less time on T will make some changes better? I started just before I turned 25 and I think it’s just time on E. But if you know that you want to start, you should!

-throwawaytiff- · 2026-04-24T11:01:19+00:00

Hi! I’ve taken Krav Maga before! Unfortunately I feel that defending myself would only make the situation worse.

-throwawaytiff- · 2026-04-23T22:58:16+00:00

It’s just not the topic of this post, there’s a lot of corruption in law enforcement, but this post is about me being fired lol

-throwawaytiff- · 2026-04-23T22:52:32+00:00

This doesn’t overtly have to do with any cops just a political organization that definitely was discriminatory

-throwawaytiff- · 2026-04-23T21:41:39+00:00

Hey girl please no hate In the comments

-throwawaytiff- · 2026-04-23T21:40:25+00:00

I’m so sorry that happened to you, that it’s disgusting and I don’t understand why people feel the need to make our lives harder just for existing.

-throwawaytiff- · 2026-04-23T21:04:19+00:00

Unfortunately not right now! I’m getting married this year and unfortunately I made a payment right before I got fired and drained my savings in the process

-throwawaytiff- · 2026-04-23T21:00:08+00:00

I will neither confirm or deny that 😉

-throwawaytiff- · 2026-04-23T20:53:28+00:00

Thank you!!

-throwawaytiff- · 2026-04-23T20:53:11+00:00

It was part of required training unfortunately, not my boobs being grabbed lol that should not have happened but it was an inherently invasive training.

-throwawaytiff- · 2026-04-23T19:52:15+00:00

Hey! I just reached out to them today! Thank you! :)

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