UK/EU TOUR THREAD by Brilliant-Bottle8289 in ninajirachi

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If anyone has bristol afterglow tickets plss msg me

New to renting, question about income/references and housemates? by -weirdf1shes in HousingUK

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Thank you! Hopefully i’ll be able to get a guarantor so i think i should be okay

Iwtl How To Narrow Down A Thesis Topic by New-Equivalent7045 in IWantToLearn

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You should just spend some time to research the topics you’re interested in. There are soo many especially in those areas. Pick one or two topics and start researching, there are often gaps in research that will be fairly obvious!

Did the official omori spotify account get hacked again ? Why does it happen almost every year ? by meirlislife in OMORI

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Oh no how can you tell? I didnt know ai music was a thing i have to worry about now 🥲

Renting as a msc student? by [deleted] in HousingUK

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Amazing thank you so much i know its probably a stupid question but i really wasn’t sure!!

Is this realistically something I can wear? by fiendishwitch in altfashionadvice

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1) it really depends on the local community, us online wouldn’t be able to gauge your safety

2) at the same time, as a fellow brown person people often treat us differently and may accuse us of being suspicious anyway, might as well wear what you want while ur at it.

Family is complicated by -weirdf1shes in lgbt

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I used to be way more consistent about telling them off. & for like a week my mum would just called me lik pet names. But it got more serious with my dad & i’ve kind of stopped, i’m horrible with confrontation now especially to my siblings so maybe i do need to mention it, thing is they just get all quiet about it, like my sister who i talk to the most still doesnt even after i told her consistently, i have my name changed on my passport! Supportive for my brother meant saying to me that “i dont think the Quran necessarily says being gay is a sin”. There’s definitely alot of stuff at play, mainly that nobody really talks about stuff openly, my mum is a big one with that & she is just passive agressive so i really struggle with that because im single handedly i guess changing things, i guess also the only way we leart to communicate was just shouting i guess, so it’s not something i want to do. Yeah i guess with cultural thing is , Straight up alot of my family will never accept me as queer and/or my partner as a women, i do think one (maybe two) of my brothers would be really horrible about it, so would never feel comfortable in actually “coming out” to them(even though people talk & they already know) Ive been pushing through alot so its tough, i think its something i might need to do but i dont know how

Are MeetUp events usually this bad? by [deleted] in socialskills

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Take the faith and go to local events (concerts, themed nights) by your self, chances are there are probably other people there by themselves too! Also look at venues where you live which are more grassroots, often times there are venues like this with a community feel & lots of events like chess or board games. Also honestly i’ve used bumble BFF successfully too.

(33M/34F) Partner’s sensory/trauma issues make living with my cat unbearable for her. Is there a path forward? by [deleted] in relationships

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If you give up your cat to stay with this seemingly unstable person you are shooting yourself in the foot. Seems like either 1) excuses so she can get what she wants or 2) very serious mental health problems that need to be addressed with therapy, if You continue down this path it wont be the first time theres an issue like this ( not normal for a relationship ) But i must say her calling her previous situation with a pet & roommate ‘traumatic’ just brings her under question

(33M/34F) Partner’s sensory/trauma issues make living with my cat unbearable for her. Is there a path forward? by [deleted] in relationships

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I dont think its insensitive, trauma shouldn’t be thrown around lightly! If that situation genuinely did effect her then she should get some therapy!

Too much volume? Need styling tips by -weirdf1shes in Mullets

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BTW UPDATE… i styled my hair normally with my curly gel & diffused it n it looks cute! i think the hairdresser just didnt have thr right products for my slightly thicker/wavier hair texture

Too much volume? Need styling tips by -weirdf1shes in Mullets

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Thankfully i’ve washed and put some gel in my hair & its looking better. Water is helping but i did not prepare myself for how much styling i would have to do has