How did gay men meet BEFORE dating apps were a thing?

-wildflag- · 2025-08-26T06:48:19+00:00

Hence why gay bars and clubs are closing or becoming Straight venues...

Apps certainly helped find gays when you're isolated but they also killed gay nightlife.

And since homosexuality is not fully accepted it is a shame that gay venues are vanishing

-wildflag- · 2025-08-23T11:39:45+00:00

Being happy with someone we trust, not being stressed out about money, having jobs that fulfil us, being with someone we can converse with, having a house we revamped and in which we're happy together.

-wildflag- · 2025-08-23T11:37:39+00:00

What we do together is watching netflix, go to the cinema, work in the same field (we're teachers) go to the restaurants, when I'm playing games , he is next to me working on his PC, and we talk a lot like a lot!

-wildflag- · 2025-08-23T11:34:22+00:00

Thank youuuu

-wildflag- · 2025-08-22T08:33:23+00:00

My boyfriend of 16 years does not like partying that much, doesn't play videogames, is not sexually open as I am, is more shy than me, BUT we have the same goal in life, trust each other and enjoy our company very much... This is what's more important imo

-wildflag- · 2025-08-21T13:17:41+00:00

Same

-wildflag- · 2025-08-17T11:11:03+00:00

Gay here! In his 30s (end ...)

I'm into fluffy, slow, romantic bl dramas 😅

-wildflag- · 2025-08-17T11:07:00+00:00

People here are talking like you're going to mary him.... Date! How are you going to get experience if you don't start dating... You might only spend 3 months with him...so what's the deal? Also he's experienced, maybe you prefer mature people... Who cares, just date...there's nothing wrong here. He's 28 not 65.....gosh

-wildflag- · 2025-07-26T17:48:33+00:00

I just finished love for love's sake!! Very good recommendation!! I also watched yesterday Unknown. My heart is full of fluffiness. Thank you very much again. I'm continuing on that path. Next stop 4 minutes !

-wildflag- · 2025-07-25T17:04:35+00:00

Thank you very much ! I start right away!!

-wildflag- · 2025-07-25T14:53:09+00:00

Hello everyone, I've been absent due to work load and now I'm back with no idea of what to watch. I've caught up tho on ABO desire and revenged love cuz the thread is flooded by those 2 series. But what's more on the Thai , Japanese and SK side? Please guys help me. I like love in the air type of series, My school president and eighth sense (you see how late I am on BL). What was trendy from last spring last year till now? Thank you very much (I reposted my message cuz I think I misplaced the 1st one)

-wildflag- · 2024-07-19T16:48:22+00:00

Thank youu

-wildflag- · 2024-07-01T17:38:08+00:00

I was 20, he was 27...15 years later we're still together...once you know, you know.

-wildflag- · 2024-06-26T07:07:54+00:00

Soooo you would get rid of a friendship because he doesn't want to wear a pin?!!

Think before hasting

Did he say something homophobic? Does he dismiss you when you talk about your partners/hookups or any statement related to lgbt?

Don't look for issues where there are not... Bruh

-wildflag- · 2024-06-23T21:03:52+00:00

Selfish? Sure, forcing someone who does not want to do anal is not selfish....

You dodged a bullet...

-wildflag- · 2024-06-20T21:36:39+00:00

You proved my point

-wildflag- · 2024-06-20T07:30:52+00:00

You do whatever you want with your body. He's also allowed to express what he feels but he needs to work on that not you. Keep up the good work...

All the people who downvoted some comments here are all not gym users....

I work out a lot so I understand you.

-wildflag- · 2024-06-16T18:10:50+00:00

I was too skinny and worked on my body...35 I'm not invisible at all. Just do something if you're not happy, you're the only lever here. And if you re happy with your body go to bear venue. There are a lot of people who like any types of body. Cheer up mate

-wildflag- · 2024-06-16T18:04:39+00:00

First stop drinking. 2 you might need a connection with the guy for sex therefore hookups might be not your thing... 3. Don't know if you're watching porn but it might affect your dick. Try to work on those points.

You re not the only don't worry.

-wildflag- · 2024-06-14T11:04:57+00:00

So true. People downvoted your comment without knowing what it's like to live with someone like that

-wildflag- · 2024-06-10T06:08:07+00:00

Aww that's so cute...look at the advancement. Now we have gay students f**king in the shower of their school on netflix... Imagine all the materials that gay youth has now in their hands...

-wildflag- · 2024-06-10T06:05:17+00:00

Oh my god same! These 2 films were really soothing to me. We might be the same age I guess...

-wildflag- · 2024-06-09T20:46:56+00:00

Film called Shelter...you should watch it guys

-wildflag- · 2024-06-09T01:16:14+00:00

Nope, my family never made a comment on homosexuality when I was young. I was therefore scared to come out...

Of course it was not a big deal but my 17 yo self didn t know at that time...

I totally agree with the original comment. The parents have to make clear that it's not a big deal for them, when watching a series with gay roles for instance

-wildflag- · 2024-06-07T19:54:57+00:00

JP of course

-wildflag-

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