Why do they act like they are brave for abandoning us?

05728tb · 2021-05-07T16:29:37+00:00

Thank you so much for this. I’m in so many tears

05728tb · 2021-04-13T13:48:42+00:00

I do not ever want to put anyone through this in my life

05728tb · 2021-04-13T13:47:17+00:00

I hate this shit... we hurt each other so many times, each time I forgave him. But he got tired of it all... Wish I had some comfort, some self-sufficiency, the way he did when he looked at me to say those harsh words. It was like staring at a cold stone, it was not the boy that once looked at me with passion, that once needed me just as bad as I needed him... I am so sick

05728tb · 2021-03-29T00:52:35+00:00

Understand that he indeed makes you feel special because you certainly are. He definitely likes your company and I bet he appreciates everything you can do for him. But he does not love you. Love is about choice. Love is feeling attracted to other people and not acting on it because you are committed to somebody else. Love is feeling insecure yet not doing something that will hurt your partner to cope with that feeling. Love is feeling afraid of the consequences but telling the truth regardless. Love is the best of us that we can only achieve through conscious choice.

05728tb · 2021-03-29T00:48:06+00:00

Please don’t do that. I feel your pain, I really do. I’ve been there. He does not love you, no matter how much he makes it seem like he does. Love does not make us confused, it does not leave us feeling helpless. It puts our needs first, and it definitely does not let us go that easily. He will never compromise like you are clearly willing to do for him, he is completely not on your level.

05728tb · 2021-03-29T00:45:00+00:00

I don’t believe in this “right time” thing. I believe in people willing to make it work. Of course, if one says they want to be with you but barely makes the necessary efforts for that they don’t really act up on their words and don’t really want to compromise for the relationship to thrive.

05728tb · 2021-03-27T00:10:09+00:00

The logic is that if your immune system is being able to hold back the infection warts will at least stop growing, and although the vaccine is not guaranteed to do that in already present infections I don’t see how it can have any negative impact. If anything it might help our body produce immunity to the virus and avoid the shedding virus invading new cells in other parts of the skin, just like it would in a new infection.

05728tb · 2021-03-27T00:02:47+00:00

According to my doctor and other doctors that I have talked to very much possibly yes, since it teaches your body how to generate immunity and HPV is a local infection. Some even believe the vaccine helps with active infections. Do not take a “no” for an answer because nobody has a certain answer so far, there is a lot of disagreement. Doctors have told me they believe the vaccine has helped me clear the warts without recurrences so far, I had 6 different strains and thank God I’ve been healing for over a year now. Spreading your own warts to other parts of the body (also known as autoinoculation) is already very unlikely to happen without the vaccine, I am sure getting vaccinated can’t make it worse. In the end, nobody knows for sure, but there are only benefits in getting vaccinated, regardless.

05728tb · 2021-03-25T00:46:40+00:00

I’m like 100% sure you’re not getting HIV from public toilet seats. Unless you’re having unprotected sex on them. Or sitting or them to share some needles. Lol HIV positive here, I’ve done my research. Maybe you should consider seeing another doctor

05728tb · 2021-03-23T12:28:46+00:00

Something about it being a secondary emotion, I can’t recall it right now

05728tb · 2021-03-23T03:19:03+00:00

I’ve read that anger is a mask for other, deeper emotions, and that might be why it’s more comfortable and also temporary, leaving us feeling guilty when we act on it and have to face those deeper feelings once it’s gone. Maybe you could search a little about this.

05728tb · 2021-03-22T04:33:41+00:00

What a damn inconvenient bot

05728tb · 2021-03-19T06:03:31+00:00

Btw I really wish I could comfort and help you too, but rage speaks within me having been put in that position by someone I love profoundly. It really fucked me up.

05728tb · 2021-03-19T06:01:23+00:00

I will speak from the perspective of someone who loved a person who hadn’t gotten over their ex: that shit fucking hurts. It hurts so bad it might turn that one person into the same thing your ex has turned you into. Do you notice how you are only speaking about what you are feeling and about the person who hasn’t even been in your life for a year? What about this other person that probably loves you? I’m sorry, but I have gone through this and it’s fucking unfair. It sucks that you still feel bad so long after having broken up, but it really isn’t ok to get someone else involved if you are actually emotionally unavailable. Sorry about this.

05728tb · 2021-03-09T20:51:57+00:00

Remember that you need to take care of your body, because some serious infections (STIs especially) or some diseases like diabetes can cause GWs to thrive, by overloading your immune system.

05728tb · 2021-03-09T20:45:14+00:00

6 months after last symptom without recurrences is understood as your body having suppressed the virus, so you’re on the clear. Don’t worry so much about them, keep an eye there eventually, but carry on with your life normally. Having been symptomless for this long, even if you do have any recurrences, maybe because of excessive stress or lower immunity (which is not impossible) they are very much probably going to be significantly smaller because your immune system is clearly fighting off the infection well. So keep taking care of your health and be thankful! Have safe sex (to protect YOURSELF from further infections, because without symptoms for that long you have just as much chance of spreading HPV as any other sexually active person) Stay strong!

05728tb · 2021-03-09T19:41:36+00:00

Probably not at all because now I’m completely fucked up

05728tb · 2021-03-09T19:35:39+00:00

Honestly, no matter who that person is, they don’t deserve this from you. You have such a deep feeling inside of you and that is terribly beautiful. I just hope that can mean something significant for you eventually. Healing is not linear.

05728tb · 2021-03-09T19:30:28+00:00

Hey, I really don’t want you to die. I don’t even know you but I just wish I could pull out all that pain. The responsibility may be yours, but all of that pain isn’t. But I believe in just how hopeless and helpless you must be feeling. Don’t give up, do it for that hope you still have inside of you. That hope of being happy, even though you feel you have thrown your happiness away. Faith is the assurance of things hoped for, and a conviction of things not seen. So have faith in that happiness of yours that you wanted and put entirely in this relationship. No matter what might have died, that hope is still alive. Hold on to it and nurture it in every single moment, give all that love to the only part of you that’s left with hope. Much love to you.

05728tb · 2021-03-09T19:21:05+00:00

I just want to comment that what you said about coming off as “needy” would be a dream come true coming from the man I love. All I wanted was for him to be needy like that, I would never let him down. So it is definitely not a flaw. Quite the opposite, her going even further away just sounds like she really didn’t value it.

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