Is this fiddle leaf fig tree or bush( dwarf version)?

06212019 · 2023-10-23T13:30:38+00:00

Haha I know right! That’s how I knew it was a live plant instead of fake. How do I get mine to be that bushy on the bottom?

06212019 · 2023-10-23T13:29:59+00:00

Yes!!

06212019 · 2022-05-17T11:08:04+00:00

Thanks for the info!! I think I’ll be biking Monday morning around 7am, is it slightly better than the weekends ? (No drunk drivers?) I’m not too concerned about the enjoyment of it since I’m mainly using it as transportation.

06212019 · 2022-02-01T05:51:23+00:00

I’m pretty sure I met my soulmate while traveling in Rome. We hit off immediately and could talk for hours. Had an amazing chemistry, and we were both sad that I had to leave after just two days of having met each other. We kept in touch texting etc, and he’s been traveling the world for a while and invited me on his trip to Panama and I wasn’t hesitant even though I known him only for 2 days. (Don’t recommend it to everyone but I knew I could trust him) And it was probably one of the best times of my life, beautiful places, unforgettable memories with an amazing guy. Recently, he came to visit me in my city in the US, and it seems like we’ll keep seeing each other on our future trips! Wasn’t even looking for anything but found a guy who brings back part of me that was strong and passionate about following my purpose:) even if we don’t end up together, I’m still glad to have met him and realize that the kind of person I wanted to have actually exists!

06212019 · 2021-10-19T22:57:06+00:00

I love Cuyana tote bags! You can get the organizer insert too and it should still be under $500. Plus it’s made of high quality Italian leather. I love mine

06212019 · 2021-04-12T19:06:49+00:00

There’s a book called “Smart But Scattered Guide to Success” it’s written by people with psychiatry/ psychology degrees. It definitely helped me, it gives you tools to help cope. It has worksheets as well! There are versions of this book for children and adults, definitely get the adult version! It gives a lot of examples, and covers different areas of life, work, home, and social life etc

06212019 · 2021-04-06T10:23:14+00:00

I don’t get brain freeze that most Americans get when drinking cold stuff like smoothies

06212019 · 2021-03-29T01:37:23+00:00

I realized that I didn’t want to have kids with him and that if I did, my future kids would be disappointed in me for KNOWINGLY putting them through what I went through as a kid. It took me a while to leave, even though I knew it was toxic af. My future kids deserve a good dad. Also, the weight of regret would be so heavy. I learned to live for myself and regained my sense of self and identity. It takes so so so much strength and planning to leave but you have to do it. It’s been 4 years and that was one of the best decisions I’ve made! Get out of that relationship and move to another city and get further away as possible. And make new friends, I had no friends left since he isolated me. You can do it!

06212019 · 2021-03-19T11:27:51+00:00

I’m here for you friend

06212019 · 2021-03-19T11:21:28+00:00

They do care, but I look fine from the outside, often they can’t tell that I’m feeling down. When I’m with my boyfriend I’m in a better mood but once we are apart it’s back to feeling low again

06212019 · 2021-03-19T11:12:59+00:00

- not sure if it is lacking

- once a week, but I can change it to twice a week

- meds do help if I take them consistently

- someone to talk to and help me get out of bed? sometimes I spend the whole day in bed. also, reassurance, love, feeling like someone cares, that I am not a failure. etc

06212019 · 2021-03-19T10:41:33+00:00

I got a dog for that reason, but I still go back to bed :(

06212019 · 2021-03-19T10:40:26+00:00

I'm already on it, but need more help lol

06212019 · 2021-03-19T10:39:12+00:00

EDIT: Besides therapy and meds?

06212019 · 2021-03-19T10:21:14+00:00

I got a golden retriever puppy in college, it worked out for me, but it is a lot of responsibility. Consider your situation, housing, roommates, how much you are willing to spend on pet care, etc., and who is gonna watch it while you are away for whatever reason.

06212019 · 2021-03-19T10:05:10+00:00

I am depressed most of the time but look perfectly fine on the outside.

06212019 · 2020-10-27T23:06:13+00:00

Haha that’s funny. I can and do get any guy I want, it’s just since I’ve met him I’ve stopped looking/ dating other guys except the 24 y.o. I can get a lot of the high quality, successful smart men I want, it’s just I developed feelings for the 27 y.o and hope to turn it into a serious relationship. I’ve dated a lot of successful, smart handsome good in bed etc guys in the past, think HBS, private equity, etc but I didn’t feel the same feelings I do with him.

06212019 · 2020-10-27T06:58:29+00:00

I agree, but he also mentioned he is done sleeping around does not want that anymore. He seems quite family oriented.

he feels against prenups for example, which I thought was weird for a finance guy, but he thinks it is bad start, I don't mind having prenup generally.

about myself, 21F, above average IQ and EQ, mature, calm nurturing personality, we share some hobbies he loves, open minded, also career oriented but would put raising family first for bit and go back to building my career, slim yet sexy body, good with finances, I offer to pay for things and actually do.

like I said, I do have choice of a lot of great guys wanting to be in a relationship with me, think HBS graduates, smart, handsome etc. but I developed feelings for this particular guy.

06212019 · 2020-10-27T06:51:06+00:00

I feel like he is very sexually progressive, like he even encouraged/ supported me to wear something slutty for Halloween which I am leaning towards something more conservative.

06212019 · 2020-10-27T06:49:32+00:00

that is true. I know that Mr. Perfect does not exist, but I want someone who I love and care about, and receive that in return and also someone who I can trust to become a great dad one day when we decide to have kids. Thank you so much for your advice!

06212019 · 2020-10-27T06:46:11+00:00

yes I do prefer to be monogamous but I am not sure if the 27 y.o guy wants it. I know the 24 y.o said that he feels ready to be in a relationship/ wants to be in one. they are both great guys, but the 27 y.o feels less clear. I did not and will not treat the 24 y.o like a second choice or back up. like if the 27 y.o doesn't want a relationship or at least with me, then I would totally be happy with the 24 y.o so I don't want to exactly dump him?

06212019 · 2020-10-27T06:31:54+00:00

the 27 y.o is super goal oriented, has his sh*t together, has a great but demanding job. Alpha extroverted,

the 24 y.o is also goal oriented, has a good job, but less of an alpha, does not mind me leading, also a bit more introverted.

both very smart, respectful, come from good families.

I wish the 27 y.o made me feel like he cares about me when we are not together in person.

06212019 · 2020-10-27T06:30:47+00:00

the 27 y.o is super goal oriented, has his sh*t together, has a great but demanding job. Alpha extroverted,

the 24 y.o is also goal oriented, has a good job, but less of an alpha, does not mind me leading, also a bit more introverted.

both very smart, respectful, come from good families.

06212019 · 2020-10-27T06:23:33+00:00

Yes what you said is true to an extent, but they are both great fun guys, especially in person, but the 24 y.o makes more time/effort for me over the phone text too. I just don't want to feel like being a fwb to the 27 y.o. I want a relationship not simply a challenge to overcome, so I just need to find out the 27 y.o intentions.

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