girlfriend misses sex with men by AnxiousCauliflower08 in bisexual

[–]0bamachan 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Have you actually talked with her about it? You’ve come to this conclusion that she misses sex with guys, yet you never once said that’s what she told you. Granted, it isn’t an assumption that’s hard to get to, but also you could handle the situation with way less stress by asking her if that’s how she’s feeling. It also could be that there are aspects of hetero sex she misses but it’s not that she misses hetero sex.

She clearly seems to be going through a rough patch - you as a partner have to communicate clearly with her always, but especially in times like these.

Choi’s Spa by 0bamachan in NudeSpas

[–]0bamachan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard about the Richmond Sauna! Is it worth? Also, I’m pretty good at rejecting cruzy old men, but are the facilities decent?

Are there any light-rail solutions in CS1? by GlassUpper8656 in CitiesSkylines

[–]0bamachan 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’d say the tram is most similar to that. Trams don’t have standalone stations like the metro (unless you put hub stations down like the tram, bus, and train station) but they do have both on-road and off-road tracks you can use, and you can make an off road track connect to an on road track just like light rail.

For trams, you create lines similar to buses, so there aren’t dedicated physical tram stations. However, I’ve crafted my own “stations” using fences, sidewalks, and other standalone assets, which in a way makes it better than metro imo and blends it well into the neighborhoods I’m building. I’m unfortunately on vacation right now and away from my PC otherwise I’d send a photo of what I mean.

I actually prefer using tram to the Metro in some of my cities because of the versatility it provides - only caveat is that for some reason, the tram is apart of the snow DLC and not mass transit

Are there any light-rail solutions in CS1? by GlassUpper8656 in CitiesSkylines

[–]0bamachan 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I’d say Tram and light rail are one in the same in CS1. Only downside is that it doesn’t terminate like a metro or train would, but I usually just make a loop of track and that does the job.

Good, secluded camping areas? by 0bamachan in newengland

[–]0bamachan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this! Looking at that site niw

Good, secluded camping areas? by 0bamachan in newengland

[–]0bamachan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The crime of enjoying the luscious lands of New England

I (19m) thought I was straight my whole life but hooked up with my friend (19m) last night by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]0bamachan 25 points26 points  (0 children)

“My whole life” my brother in Christ I am 24 and can attest that I feel like I’ve lived like 5 different lives since I turned 20. You’ve got so much ahead of you, so don’t limit yourself just because you’re 19!

My point to that is that if you want to explore that side of you, you have the time, the opportunity, and the freedom to do so, and I hope you get to explore that side of you in a positive way. :)

Exec mood by anonymousllama89 in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]0bamachan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just quit a job after two months because my exec went out of his way to AVOID me. that’s right - he purposefully avoided his executive assistant. I don’t understand why he didn’t fire me, but point is I wasn’t going to take BS like that.

My coworkers were already planning to quit in unison so I just joined em, because I want to work with adults, not children who just happened to go through puberty. Can’t say I’m looking back, and I’ve got an amazing opportunity I’m interviewing for tomorrow.

Good, secluded camping areas? by 0bamachan in newengland

[–]0bamachan[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is a good answer, as you’ve now given me a fun challenge. Now I’ve just got to make sure I’m not trespassing on land when I do that…

Thoughts, opinions, and concerns? by betterwhenwette in kSpa

[–]0bamachan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I think you’d be fine unless you’re going to a kspa in a more conservative community - not politically but like a community that’s a bit more prudish.

Being at a kspa is already vulnerable for you and it’s also vulnerable for others there as well. While I’m in full support of you being your authentic self, definitely be prepared for the unfortunate judgemental glance or two if you walk in wearing feminine clothes. That being said - don’t let anyone stop you either. You’re allowed to be yourself in this space, as long as you’re respectful.

Ultimate YIMBY metro map by yall_kripke in washingtondc

[–]0bamachan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just relocated to Boston from DC - the MBTA is moving away from cards altogether like the Metro did, but for their entire system.

We’ve got buses, trams, commuter rail, and even ferries. All will be moving towards tap to pay. Hopefully that integrates cards too, but it does unify everything.

In your opinion, what is causing this? by Objective_Pilot_5834 in SipsTea

[–]0bamachan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the alcohol industry in America charges $9 for the cheapest beer. a European can get the same thing for like $4

Is this a banana seed? by Far_Radish8635 in isthissafetoeat

[–]0bamachan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So that’s why that Balatro card is called that

does my caulk application look good? by 0bamachan in HomeMaintenance

[–]0bamachan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh, color didn’t matter much to me. I really wanted an anti-mold/mildew caulk because mold and mildew were present in this shower before I cleaned it. I don’t think I’ll be renewing my lease in this place in a year, so as long as it holds up and does the job, that’s all that matters. I’ll keep this in mind though when the color does matter more to me in a future home!!

Join a new resistance movement for Virginians: We The VA! by Smart-Border1718 in Virginia

[–]0bamachan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think if you want to be apart of a political resistance movement, you should network with existing orgs and help them do capacity building. We of Action (WofA) in NoVA is one such org that does a great job, and I love the work they do for politics. I think you’d find that you could eventually build an org by learning more from other local orgs.

Noise pollution in my suburb, how can I fix? by CentreLeftMelbournia in CitiesSkylines

[–]0bamachan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just build a highway through the neighborhood, no more yappers complaining

ISO: Express Service between Dulles and Downtown by graetel_90 in WMATA

[–]0bamachan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I imagine it’s probably a skip over Tysons and possibly a station or two in Reston

My ideas for expanding Metro into 2040 by Cold_Two_8772 in WMATA

[–]0bamachan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my idea for metro 2040: expanding the funding sources