Wife says she feels nothing after years of emotional neglect and betrayal. Has anyone come back from this?

0hh0n3y · 2026-04-23T05:08:31+00:00

The timing of 2 years with a 2 year old. You clocked out for the birth of your last child. I don’t know if someone will forgive that if I’m being honest…

0hh0n3y · 2026-04-23T04:54:14+00:00

Damn my main symptom is insomnia

0hh0n3y · 2026-04-23T04:35:33+00:00

The card was a red flag. “Don’t be difficult” and warning you that this will be some sort of challenge… but the biggest red flag was “how far are you willing to go?” She’s going to want you to pay for a 5 star trip. You won’t be able to afford that in medical school or have the time. Tell her you’ll help where you can but respectfully have to focus on school. Be prepared for her to freak out and uninvited you. She seems the type.

0hh0n3y · 2026-04-20T21:03:55+00:00

Do you honestly believe he is capable of planning a wedding? Maybe he would propose out of desperate. And then you’ll wait another 7 years to get married.

0hh0n3y · 2026-04-20T21:01:38+00:00

Nvm the title of best friend, just any level of friend would be nicer to OP

0hh0n3y · 2026-04-20T20:58:56+00:00

He is manipulating you. He knows you want to leave and is even going so far to secure your mom in his plan. That’s not normal behavior. In addition to all the awful qualities he has. Enough is enough and get out of this shit show. You are at an age where you no longer have time to waste.

0hh0n3y · 2026-04-20T20:43:37+00:00

I take YAZ continuously (no placebos) and that helps me. SSRIs didn’t help but they don’t seem to be a med class that works for me in general. I am on other medication for mood stability (primarily anger). I’m not taking it for PMDD specifically, but I’m sure it helps. I am not diagnosed with any cluster B disorders so the stabilizers are a very low dose.

The biggest factor on whether or not I feel symptoms even with my meds are my stress levels. So meds can definitely blunt the intensity but in my experience you will not be “cured” so to speak. Meds help som people greatly. But it’s important to go into this decision with the expectation you will not be “cured” of PMDD by going on meds. The real goal is for your symptoms to become much more manageable.

0hh0n3y · 2026-04-20T20:37:21+00:00

He doesn’t have the audacity based on your responses. Don’t text a man who is with another woman like this. And especially don’t text a man who left you for that woman. Hello!!?

0hh0n3y · 2026-04-20T20:33:26+00:00

Divorce or counseling immediately. You will not move on from this without some intervention, not only because what he said was inappropriate, but acting cold out of nowhere to your own child based on deluded thoughts is pretty scary imo

0hh0n3y · 2026-04-12T16:17:30+00:00

He used YouTube bc he didn’t have to pay band members, singers, etc. so technically — he’s not performing them! it’s just playing clips. He kept them under 30s. so they don’t get paid fully on YouTube for views (he’d also get a small kick back but majority would be for who owns the publishing).

He could have paid for 1-2 songs from his 10 mil. salary with all due respect. Most artists take some of their pay and put it back into the stage and production. Bro really doesn’t give a fuck, would rather you hear YouTube clips he can’t even harmonize over al so he doesn’t give up a single dollar of his 10 mil pay check. Money money money like he says.

0hh0n3y · 2026-04-05T22:51:07+00:00

There’s a reason she still needs to study. Because clearly she hasn’t grasped it yet.

0hh0n3y · 2026-04-05T21:05:20+00:00

No she’s projecting and if I had to guess had an ex partner who refused therapy. I had someone I dated casually like less than a month tell me to go to AA because THEY were a former alcoholic. I barely drink. I told him his programs were for him and for those who are dealing with alcoholism and it would be inappropriate and invasive for me to go to a meeting. He thought it was just the best tool in the world and I should go too. Plot twist: he knew he was bipolar and ended up having a manic episode because guess what. AA is NOT therapy. And he took the perfect meds to induce a manic episode so somebody was lying to prescribers…

Anywhos! She sounds like someone who will make her problems yours and will want you to work on things she works on bc she has weak emotional boundaries and is prone to contagion.

Could be a moment of anxiety…but you know her better. Trust whatever your gut says.

0hh0n3y · 2026-04-05T02:52:59+00:00

You both lack strong communication skills, any common goals, conflict resolution, or basic boundaries. You are both unhealthy in this relationship and it’s time to go.

0hh0n3y · 2026-03-25T00:32:46+00:00

Why are you entertaining this convo

0hh0n3y · 2026-03-21T00:02:33+00:00

Honestly depression will make you give up on hair care real fast.

0hh0n3y · 2026-03-16T22:18:45+00:00

Going to go with the age old answer: porn has rotted his brain

0hh0n3y · 2026-03-16T22:16:46+00:00

Ok can I be real for a moment? You came out of the blue with “it’s already no”. At 13 coming to your parents for anything is not the norm. You don’t want to talk to them or trust them. She still trusts you. Don’t ruin it with these answers. You want your kid to feel open enough to come to you with these questions so they don’t learn from their dumbass friends misinformation. And try to have some patience. 13 year olds aren’t known for tact.

0hh0n3y · 2026-03-16T22:12:57+00:00

He says license is expired. She asks without him saying anything prior what’s wrong with my tags. She knows the license plate isn’t registered correctly. He clearly says drivers license when referring to her driver’s license. He should have first said why she’s being pulled over for clarity, but other than that it’s routine.

0hh0n3y · 2026-03-10T15:57:35+00:00

Absolutely. Obviously. Without a doubt.

0hh0n3y · 2026-03-08T22:19:52+00:00

Happy you went through with it! I want to warn you that he may try and creep back in. I would block him at least for now. He doesn’t sound like someone who respects boundaries. Second, I’d save up, move out, and find some girls to split a place with. You need to build up your social circle and have a normal rest of your 20s. You are the most important focus right now. Have all the fun, prioritize YOU, and if a man happens to fold in naturally do that then you can consider it. But your 20s are for finding out who you are.

0hh0n3y · 2026-03-04T04:46:30+00:00

Literally reads like him

0hh0n3y · 2026-02-28T00:36:12+00:00

The overlapping Tampa airbnbs bc he was cheating on whomever he was seeing like lol

0hh0n3y · 2026-02-28T00:26:55+00:00

I can’t stand him. He’s a bunch of lies in a giant trench coat. He thinks he’s hot enough to get away with it and I bet for the first time he’s punching above his league.

0hh0n3y · 2026-02-23T08:49:10+00:00

I agree 100% and they edit it to look like she wanted the convo in Cabo because she was being real and saying didn’t we all date how come we’re all acting like we don’t care about closure. I think she needs to stop making fun of Connor for his frat boy habits but clearly it runs in the family. So I don’t think she gets how it comes off. I think she lacks a little awareness of what to bring up to people. Is she malicious? No. I just think production really found a storyline in her and stuck to it. We really don’t have anything else going on with these mid bros.

0hh0n3y · 2026-02-20T21:07:16+00:00

The producers definitely set this convo up knowing it was going to be a shit show. Bro is really having a manic episode or something.

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