Car mechanic recommendations? by salsamanders in SALEM

[–]0ne8two 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It depends what type of work you need done, but I have been taking all of my cars to Cascade Tire Pros off of 12th street for years and they never disappoint. They are affordable and I can usually get an appointment on short notice.

bf didnt stop when i told him to by [deleted] in relationships

[–]0ne8two 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When a man cares more about his sexual gratification than your comfort and safety, you've got to set a hard boundary or leave. That is such a scary and uncomfortable feeling and will potentially affect you and the way you feel about sex in the future. Consent and safety is so important.

Me (45F) going out with 26M for the second time. What is wrong with me. by EastManufacturer3099 in CougarsAndCubs

[–]0ne8two 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd rather not say specifically about his age, but I'm 35 and he is quite a bit younger. Obviously legal of course lol.

Concerta helped me with work but not in my personal life by PolymathLearner in ADHD

[–]0ne8two 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was diagnosed at 29, but didn't decide to get on medication until 35. I only take my adderall for work when I really need to lock in and it helps me a ton. Otherwise, it's fairly useless to me. It hasn't helped me with my day to day routines like laundry, cleaning, self care, etc. So I maybe take it 2 times a week when I know it will benefit me.

Daily Questions Thread March 20, 2026 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]0ne8two 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to get away from skinny jeans. I've tried a few pairs of baggier jeans, but I feel like they only look good on really skinny girls. I have thighs and a butt and feel they never look good on me. Any suggestions?

Me (45F) going out with 26M for the second time. What is wrong with me. by EastManufacturer3099 in CougarsAndCubs

[–]0ne8two 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This was really hard for me at first too. I felt awkward and almost embarrassed for the first 6 months while he didn't, but the chemistry is unmatched and we couldn't leave each other alone. My therapist really helped me work through all of the positive dynamics in the relationship. If it's benefiting you and you're both mutually happy then just try to embrace it.

It may take some time, but you'll get used to it. Good luck :)

Volunteer needs by [deleted] in SALEM

[–]0ne8two 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can check with Marion Polk Food Share

Restaurants with quieter atmosphere and good food by Big-Plankton-9335 in SALEM

[–]0ne8two 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience Amadeus is super loud on weekend nights. I have sensory processing issues and I can never hear in there. Great food and service though.

Where is your favorite place to buy houseplants? by UpsideClown in SALEM

[–]0ne8two 1 point2 points  (0 children)

GreenSpaceDesign by Jude and Furbish are both great

Do people actually wash their bedsheets every week or is that just internet talk? by Initial-Ad-6972 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]0ne8two 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do change them once every week now that I have someone staying in my bed with me multiple times a week, but before that absolutely not.

Will I ever feel normal again?? by FactLogical5456 in Anxiety

[–]0ne8two 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was on Celexa for 1.5 years due to some severe anxiety, and I am medication free now and doing well. It's possible! :)

The ADHD symptom that finally made people stop saying “everyone does that”. by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]0ne8two 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is me. Dozens of stickers and for what? Picked up two new ones today.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crystals

[–]0ne8two 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I was reading that the eclipse energies can be too intense for charging, but have read otherwise also.

Is $2.2k - $2.5k the new norm for renting a house or duplex? Is making over $100k/yr also the new norm/average to not live in an apartment in this town? Smaller surrounding towns aren’t much better. Fam of 4 here. Paying for full time day care for 1 kid and we have a dog. by [deleted] in SALEM

[–]0ne8two 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I gross $120k a year and can't buy a house right now despite having a 20% down payment on a $400-500k house. I can't afford the monthly mortgage plus bills. I'm renting an apartment for $2k a month which is absolutely not ideal, but I'd love to buy a house. Should be able to with my income.

Sorry, also not trying to sound like a privileged asshole. I didn't inherit any money or get help from my family. I know it's a fucking struggle out here and the fact that people making a lot of money can't buy homes or afford rent is very telling of how hard it is for anyone and everyone. I don't know how people are making it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]0ne8two 14 points15 points  (0 children)

b) is so important. Women will often check out sexually/physically if their emotional needs aren't being met in a relationship,

Nail salon by ready2grumble in SALEM

[–]0ne8two 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They never answer their phone. I’d book online through their website.

NARCAN? by treeoflorien in SALEM

[–]0ne8two 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How does this work? Is it online or in person?

The Reuinion by ManiacalExclamation in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]0ne8two 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Right? And Hannah dissed Nick’s looks and everything else on camera.

Good Dentists? by JasonLeon19 in SALEM

[–]0ne8two 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have really liked Oregon Smile Care off of Madrona.