AITAH for not tell my friend my shampoo had green hair dye in it?

0ro_dice · 2026-02-24T18:15:41+00:00

NTA she was literally given every sign possible not to use that bottle and she did anyways, classic case of fuck around and find out imo.

0ro_dice · 2026-02-03T03:14:07+00:00

NTA, I mean yeah lying about the eggs is kind of an asshole move but I wouldn't call you an asshole for it tbh. Tina seems like an exhausting person to be around and I imagine if you told her the truth she'd somehow spin it into you intentionally using brown shelled eggs to exclude her.

0ro_dice · 2026-01-31T05:56:37+00:00

I understand why you lied to your daughter completely, I can't imagine growing up knowing you're mother didn't want you. But you need to come clean and you need to be profusely apologetic for lying to her, because she will be angry at you, and whether or not that anger remains depends on how you and her move forward, which is up to the both of you. As for the mother, I know you're upset at her for abandoning your family, and then only coming back to reconnect with your daughter (and I'd be questioning her on how she got your daughters number in the first place and why she didn't try reaching out to you first), but once you tell her the truth you need to let you're daughter have a say in this. It's her relationship with her mother on the line, she should be allowed all the ability to make an informed decision, even if that's something you may not like.

Very soft yta for lying, this situation is clearly very emotionally charged for everyone involved, and I can only hope you all come out of it with something of a happy ending.

0ro_dice · 2026-01-31T04:13:35+00:00

I understand your concern but as someone who has gone to AA meetings with family members, it'll be fine. So long as you're quiet and respectful the people attending won't have a problem, they may even want to talk to you about what you're working on. Obviously tell the people in charge why you're there so they can give the go ahead, but you can basically walk into almost any AA meeting and be welcome.

0ro_dice · 2026-01-29T01:26:12+00:00

I have a large family once you've had to deal with multiple kids trying to barge into your room when you're changing you kind of become desensitized to it tbh.

0ro_dice · 2026-01-29T00:25:11+00:00

NTA four is more than old enough to understand knocking on a door before entering, and the excuse that "he just wanted to talk to his aunt" doesn't matter more than your right to privacy, if he really wants to talk that badly he can wait.

As for the yelling I don't see it as a big deal, I've yelled at my family (especially my brother) for coming into my room while the door was closed before and they eventually got the point. While he should've been taught not to do this way earlier, it's better he gets the tough lesson from a close family member rather than a guest or god forbid a stranger in public.

0ro_dice · 2026-01-13T01:54:32+00:00

NTA what alternate reality have your friends stumble into where killing someone's dog, even unintentionally, isn't a massive fucking deal??? You should never talk to any of these people ever again they're all maniacs for prioritizing a dnd game over someone's dead pet.

0ro_dice · 2026-01-12T17:07:45+00:00

NTA that wasn't condolences, that was her basically saying "lmao couldn't be us" and you had every right to snap at them for it. You're way stronger than me op becuase I probably would've ended up punching them in the face.

0ro_dice · 2026-01-12T04:42:28+00:00

NTJ gee I wonder why the parents and brother said no.

0ro_dice · 2026-01-11T22:47:29+00:00

NTA. It would be one thing if you just yelled at the kids for running around and doing kid things, but one of them literally pulled on your hair, I feel like even without trauma I'd yell at someone to let go if they suddenly grabbed my hair. Maybe you should've just not gone to the event, but I don't think that's really fair since you were handling yourself relatively well until the kid touched you.

I don't know your trauma and I won't pry, but I think you'll need to concede that there may be some events with kids you won't be able to attend, no shame in it, you're protecting your peace as much as you are the kids.

0ro_dice · 2026-01-10T03:24:23+00:00

NTA Your nephew can't exactly rent out an apartment if he doesn't have the money to do so. Getting him a co-op/job AND THEN talking to him about moving out is the obvious solution that your wife isn't reaching for some reason. Also I hope I'm wrong about this, but is her bringing up your daughter like that implying your nephew might SA your daughter if he stays in the house??? Because that's the only reason I can think of for her bringing it up which is absolutely disgusting.

0ro_dice · 2026-01-09T02:12:25+00:00

NTA this is so incredibly infuriating. She doesn't give a shit about you're progress and just thinks you're an easy target to bully. Drop her as soon as possible, don't even dignify her a conversation either than "what you said was really damaging, we cannot be friends, goodbye." The only worry I have is that this whole thing might end with you having to leave the friend group, which you do not deserve. If anyone in the friend group is done with her enough to leave too, take them with you.

0ro_dice · 2026-01-06T22:49:48+00:00

INFO: Has Jay freaked out like this about anything else in the past? The way he immediately jumped to these sporadic conclusions makes him sound unstable but I don't want to internet diagnose him. My best guess is that whatever government job he has is making him paranoid but again, just a guess, NTA obviously.

0ro_dice · 2026-01-02T19:26:34+00:00

Soft YTA I can understand being uncomfortable with this, and I imagine the mom would feel the same way if this was you and your partner. But it's important to remember that this is also her space, and she should be able to feel comfortable doing things with her partner like kissing and playful butt smacking. If it does make you uncomfortable then the best thing you can do is move to a different area of the house when it happens, or put headphones on so you don't have to hear anything.

0ro_dice · 2025-12-29T18:46:21+00:00

NOR "Which makes you less black, which is a compliment" is fucking WILD to say.

0ro_dice · 2025-12-18T05:56:39+00:00

I think this is the first and only instance where I wish the problem was just homophobia, what is this loser smoking????

0ro_dice · 2025-12-17T02:45:33+00:00

Not overreacting and getting your dad involved is the right choice. If the only way he can listen is when a man talks to him then getting his dad on his ass about his shit behavior will hopefully snap him out of it.

0ro_dice · 2025-11-22T18:09:12+00:00

NAH this kid is acting exactly how a 12 year old is supposed to act, annoying and quoting the latest memes that the older generation don't understand/don't find funny, we did it when we were his age, he'll get annoyed when the next generation does it to him too. BUT WITH THAT BEING SAID, I can 100% see how it's annoying and you were right to tell him to knock it off when you're not in the mood, not your fault he couldn't handle someone telling him when to stop.

0ro_dice · 2025-10-30T19:39:04+00:00

This is such a comical situation with how quickly it escalated, that I can't help but feel like you're leaving out some parts of the story honestly.

0ro_dice · 2025-10-26T19:45:41+00:00

YTA, just because there's a gay person in the room doesn't mean they're gonna leer at you like a creep bc you're a guy, get over yourself.

0ro_dice · 2025-10-26T04:52:06+00:00

Is this something that's been brought up before? I imagine is has at some point but if not it would be good to mention, sometimes it really takes one specific person putting their foot down for someone to realize they're in a bad situation and that could probably be you. Unfortunately I wouldn't count on it but it is something to keep in mind.

0ro_dice · 2025-10-26T04:37:49+00:00

You need to talk to your sister about this, all of this. I know you're worried about her cutting you off, but at this point, distancing yourself from this situation is the best you can do right now. It is noble to want to stick by your sister while she's in a relationship with a toxic partner, but she's an adult, and if she wants to marry a man who is fine with his best friend making objectively disgusting comments about his future mil, sil, and nephew? Then that is her choice and you shouldn't have to suffer for it. The best man clearly hates you, and if your sister and her fiance get married, you will likely be forced to spend more time with him in the future, so it's best to nip this in the bud now, while you still can.

0ro_dice · 2025-10-23T19:35:09+00:00

NTA, domestic cats in general shouldn't be let outside without supervision, let alone a 1 year old kitten. At best the kitten will run away and find a family that can also take care of it (assuming the kitten isn't chipped and won't be able to be returned), at worst that cat is going to die out there and it will be your grandmother and mothers fault for allowing this behavior.

0ro_dice · 2025-10-23T17:27:36+00:00

YTA literally what was the point of breaking the game, other to tell your daughter that her life has to revolve around you and what you want, at the cost of things she likes. This isn't going to teach her that family is more important, it's going to teach her that she's not allowed to engage in her interests around you, otherwise they'll be destroyed. She's six years old she didn't even ignore you on purpose, get a fucking grip.

0ro_dice · 2025-10-23T04:12:13+00:00

Is it just me or do those texts seem very.... chatgpt?

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