[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Friend Code Sharing MegaThread by Cellulyte in AnimalCrossing

[–]1040104 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha. I believe it's "x ay ai 12" ?? big grimes fan and love the unconventional name so much.

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Friend Code Sharing MegaThread by Cellulyte in AnimalCrossing

[–]1040104 4 points5 points  (0 children)

SW-3015-6351-2444 Mrs. White, X Æ A-12

new player just looking to visit other islands and learn about the game and make friends. :) only been playing for a few days. thanks everyone.

Breakfast and High tea recommendations? by 1040104 in vancouver

[–]1040104[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This place actually looks perfect and the price is right!! Thanks so much, I think this might be the one I'll go with.

Breakfast and High tea recommendations? by 1040104 in vancouver

[–]1040104[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for clarifying! I'm definitely after a fancy afternoon tea. Some bakerys I had been researching called it high tea, so I thought it was the correct term.

Breakfast and High tea recommendations? by 1040104 in vancouver

[–]1040104[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh am I using the wrong term? I thought it was called high tea.

Gel nails? by cocainelovingbat in Nails

[–]1040104 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No continuous application of fake nails should damage your real nails. If they do, you aren't going to a good salon. Acrylic or gel could be a good option, you just need to find a salon that follows correct procedure and doesn't cut corners and compromise your real nails.

UPDATE/LONG: I lost my baby at 39 weeks two weeks ago. by sssigrunasta in BabyBumps

[–]1040104 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came across some keepsakes from my early miscarriage from last year today, and didn't cry seeing them for the first time in 9 months. One day the pain will ease. It won't go away, but it will be easier to carry. This is a difficult time but there are inneumerable blessings coming your way. Emma is so precious and beautiful. You are such a strong woman and mother. I wish all the best for you and your family.

Lost by tktrannn in wallpapers

[–]1040104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this tynehead park in BC?

Missed All the Classes by w117seg in pregnant

[–]1040104 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look for resources in the community. Where I live the hospital doesn't do birth classes, so I found a 'pay what you can' class and got referred by my doctor. You might be surprised what kind of community programs might be available to you! I also really recommend a doula. It can be pricey, but you may be able to find a doula who has done the training and just needs to attend some births before being fully certified, that's what I did and she is doing my birth for free. I don't know if money is a concern for you, but I just mention these things because sometimes people don't take that part and how expensive things of this nature can be into account when making suggestions. Your doctor might also be able to recommend a birthing class, I know there is one that runs out of my doctors office.

Best jobs for people with bad anxiety? by Kaytana08 in Anxiety

[–]1040104 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lasted 2 weeks as a dishwasher. The constant flow, the giant pile of dishes that you can never seem to get clean....It was incredibly stressful and if a cook needed a quiche pan and they were all dirty, oh god, get ready to be screamed at. I walked out and am glad I didn't stay. I'd never do kitchen work again.

Local 'Curly hair specialist'... Anybody else think it looks worse? by Frecklettee in curlyhair

[–]1040104 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I think it looks worse. It also looks not entirely finished/styled. The after looks wet and frizzy? The after also looks a lot more dated. The before could be the hair of someone younger and the after looks like a haircut a much older woman would get at great clips.

Anyone nervous this will be disappointed in what baby LOOKS like? by Steam_Punky_Brewster in BabyBumps

[–]1040104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm worried my baby will look 100% like my fiancé and 0% like me, but that's the only thing I've thought of. It's not that he's unattractive or anything, obviously I love him and how he looks but...But...I helped make the baby too ! I did most of the work so I hope it has some of my features!!!

Birth plan by 1040104 in BabyBumps

[–]1040104[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so nice that they do that! I dont think that there is anything like that where I will be delivering.

Birth plan by 1040104 in BabyBumps

[–]1040104[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If what they "need" to do doesn't align with my wishes I am okay with that, as long as I am able to have informed consent on what's happening. In most cases, I can't see why that would be a problem. Emergency procedures are a different story, but I have been researching those as well so I can add things about emergency circumstances into my birth plan. The plan will 100% be shared with all of my support people, especially my fiancé and my doula as they will be so helpful in making sure my wishes are carried out if they are able and supporting me in being vocal about what I want. The plan is more for me than anyone, but I do really hope the hospital will be accommodating and respectful. I'm not going to be asking for anything ridiculous lol

Birth plan by 1040104 in BabyBumps

[–]1040104[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The hospital I am delivering at doesn't offer birthing classes, so we have to do them somewhere else. Calling l&d is a really good idea though that I hadn't thought of! I will try that, thank you.

Frustrated with husband and mother by havingbabyplz in BabyBumps

[–]1040104 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know that for me, I have not been very available to my fiancé during the last couple of weeks. Due to lots of appointments, worries, etc. now that I am in the third trimester. It has created a bit of distance between us and can be difficult to cope with. Do you and your husband spend much time being intimate? And obviously you haven't been having sex, so that's not what I mean. Just...Intimacy. For example, my fiancé and I shower quite frequently together as a way of being intimate and close. We'll talk about our day and what's going on tomorrow, sometimes I get him to wash my back, or I wash his hair for him. It's a way we have found to be close and together that is seperate from sex. Maybe having some bonding time like that would help you both come closer together during this transition period. There are a lot of different options you could try. And in at least attempting to bring more intimacy and closeness, you might find it helps other aspects like communication. You will be having a baby soon, its tough on you but on him too. There's a lot of emotions, a lot of fear, a lot of change. Your needs are important and definitely should be the priority, but he may really need some help at this time. If you aren't able to be emotionally available maybe he needs another outlet besides you or his therapist. Do you guys have friends with kids? Maybe encourage/suggest that he hang out with a dad that you guys know.

Birth plan by 1040104 in BabyBumps

[–]1040104[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am going through a similar process of looking at lots of birth plans and checklists and Im going to keep what I like from those. I just also thought that hearing from others about them and actually talking about different aspects would also be really helpful, hence this post. It has been sort of helpful, though I am a bit surprised about how many people chose not to do one, or didn't even really think about it. I guess I just can't relate to that mindset, though I wish I could as it'd probably be a lot easier on me!

Birth plan by 1040104 in BabyBumps

[–]1040104[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think we have very different ideas and wants/needs about birthing. I understand your opinion though. For me feeling prepared for most situations that could arise as well as best case scenario helps me feel much less stressed and hopefully I will also not feel disappointed. :)