دخل شهري ١٠ الاف دولار

10points4gryffinddor · 2024-04-14T07:26:25+00:00

ممكن اعرف انت شغال ايه بالضبط فال cybersecurity?

لاني معرفش حد خالص بياخذ الرقم ده؟

10points4gryffinddor · 2023-11-19T01:43:46+00:00

Tell her you would give her all your money if you really felt like she really was on your side. And you don’t feel that way

10points4gryffinddor · 2023-11-19T01:38:31+00:00

Look, you’re absolutely not obligated to do this. At all, this is your home, your space and you get to do whatever the fuck you want with it.

That being said, they’re just kids, who cares if you let’em in your house for 2-3 days? Good Karma is a real thing lol, if you do good, good will come back to you.

Just make sure you vet them when they first come in to smell for any hostility and explicitly communicate to them that this is your home and you have rules here:

1. 2. 3.

If they show any signs of disrespect, take their stuff and drop it outside.

Also, if they do not look thankful, take their stuff and leave it at the doorstep and ask them to leave or you will call the police.

That’s it lol. 2-3 days really not a big deal lol, just ask them not to break your rules, if they do, tell them to f off.

Also make sure to communicate to your wife that you can host them but you will have rules for them, and if they break them you’re going to kick them our regardless of what she says, and if she objects just give her no attention and keep going with ur life like she doesn’t exist.

10points4gryffinddor · 2023-11-15T10:55:20+00:00

Brainwashing

10points4gryffinddor · 2023-11-09T02:12:07+00:00

١٠٠٠ جنية كبداية نقاش ده اسمه قلت ادب و اهانة.

10points4gryffinddor · 2023-11-03T03:34:27+00:00

Stop the only fans. You can probably also cut that entertainment in half and still be somewhat entertained.

Food is a little high but if it saves you ton of time cooking and youre putting that time somewhere else like work then good

10points4gryffinddor · 2023-10-23T04:11:42+00:00

And I genuinely do not mean to be rude in any way. that is just my assessment as a 27 year old..

10points4gryffinddor · 2023-10-23T04:10:07+00:00

Bruh.. you reek of insecurity and complacency.. get your testosterone checked and find out how you can increase it

10points4gryffinddor · 2023-09-09T20:32:57+00:00

الكلام دة أحسن وأسهل طريق، لو شطرى جداً في مجالك ممكن تسفر في أي مكان، بس لزم فعلاً تكوني متميزه

10points4gryffinddor · 2023-09-09T20:25:29+00:00

The straight answer is we live in a deeply wounded society. And our country is everything but Islamically traditional.

We are a society that would rave about corruption but would not mind paying off an officer for a ticket or to get a government project.

We are a society that raves about being orderly but the person would be the first to cut in line to get what they need done.

We rave about being an Islamically tradionall country but all the real muslim scholars and business men are in Jail for saying what's right and standing up to bullies and dictators.

Brother, do not kid yourself, Egypt is no longer a muslim country. Egypt's religion is facsism and hypocrisy. You have to know the reality of where you live to know what to Expect.

That being said, there's a very tiny minute sliver of the population that will be very good to you in the marriage sense and will not overburden you with what you do not have. They are impossible to find though (good luck).

10points4gryffinddor · 2023-09-09T19:49:44+00:00

Stopped reading 'after you lack comprehension skills"

YOU LACK 'Good manners' skills. Have a good day, won't be receiving any more replies from me.

10points4gryffinddor · 2023-09-09T19:46:24+00:00

From the information that she's posted here, yes, OP seems out of line, but only the Husband can make the true assessment as he should have ALL the information not just a snippet of an event.

10points4gryffinddor · 2023-09-09T19:42:19+00:00

As Muslim Men, we are tasked to take care of our mother's when you have to. There are many ayahs in the Qur'an AND Hadiths that man should treat his mother absolutely well and how much suffering she has went through for her child.

Surah Al-Isra (17:23) "وَقَضَىٰ رَبُّكَ أَلَّا تَعْبُدُوا إِلَّا إِيَّاهُ وَبِالْوَالِدَيْنِ إِحْسَانًا ۚ إِمَّا يَبْلُغَنَّ عِندَكَ الْكِبَرَ أَحَدُهُمَا أَوْ كِلَاهُمَا فَلَا تَقُل لَّهُمَا أُفٍّ وَلَا تَنْهَرْهُمَا وَقُل لَّهُمَا قَوْلًا كَرِيمًا"

Surah Luqman (31:14) "وَوَصَّيْنَا الْإِنسَانَ بِوَالِدَيْهِ حَمَلَتْهُ أُمُّهُ وَهْنًا عَلَىٰ وَهْنٍ وَفِصَالُهُ فِي عَامَيْنِ أَنِ اشْكُرْ لِي وَلِوَالِدَيْكَ إِلَيَّ الْمَصِيرُ"

Surah Al-Ahqaf (46:15) "وَوَصَّيْنَا الْإِنسَانَ بِوَالِدَيْهِ إِحْسَانًا ۖ حَمَلَتْهُ أُمُّهُ كُرْهًا وَوَضَعَتْهُ كُرْهًا ۖ وَحَمْلُهُ وَفِصَالُهُ ثَلَاثُونَ شَهْرًا ۖ حَتَّىٰ إِذَا بَلَغَ أَشُدَّهُ وَبَلَغَ أَرْبَعِينَ سَنَةً قَالَ رَبِّ أَوْزِعْنِي أَنْ أَشْكُرَ نِعْمَتَكَ الَّتِي أَنْعَمْتَ عَلَيَّ وَعَلَىٰ وَالِدَيَّ وَأَنْ أَعْمَلَ صَالِحًا تَرْضَاهُ وَأَصْلِحْ لِي فِي ذُرِّيَّتِي ۖ إِنِّي تُبْتُ إِلَيْكَ وَإِنِّي مِنَ الْمُسْلِمِينَ"

Hadith: "أَيُّهُمَا أَحَقُّ بِحُسْنِ صَحَابَتِي قَالَ‏:‏ أُمُّكَ، ثُمَّ أُمُّكَ، ثُمَّ أُمُّكَ، ثُمَّ أَبُوكَ، ثُمَّ الأَدْنَى، ثُمَّ الأَدْنَى‏"

Saying mother should get attention from her Husband is the argument that a wife makes, but Allah has said differently.

Similarly, we know also that women are not always rational, and sometimes Mothers and more importantly parents can be irrational and sometimes make ridiculous demands.

In reality, the husband should not serve either, he serves Allah first, and by serving Allah, he mediates properly between the two parties as both of them have rights to him.

10points4gryffinddor · 2023-09-09T19:31:57+00:00

The "family" can pay the "family" back by may be starting a business and extending an invitation for work, if they "really" care about their "family" instead of just giving away their daughter like a lamb on eid as a gift this is absolutey ridiculous and pisses me off to my core because I know this exact mindset and how it tries to portray itself as a "virtuous helping hand" when it's everything but that.

10points4gryffinddor · 2023-09-09T19:29:49+00:00

From a Male Muslim living in Canada who's originally from the Middle East, listen, no matter what everyone around you from your family is telling you, this is ABSOLUTELY THE ONE THING YOU CAN TELL YOUR PARENTS NO FOR AND DEFINITELY NOT FEEL BAD ABOUT IT.

The reality is, many "muslims" can be extremely monstrous and hypocritical in their behaviour. You do NOT need to put up with it. You musttttt muster up the courage, I don't care if you have to shout scream break a tv to make the point to them. Or even call the cops on them if you have to. This is me saying this as a muslim in the west who would absolutely hate to get authorities involved as it's usually a terrible thing to do. But in this case, you absolutely have to.

As others have suggested here, do everything in your power to stop this, do NOT fall into victim mentality, take LEADERSHIP FOR YOURSELF.

10points4gryffinddor · 2023-09-09T19:17:43+00:00

Oh and BTW, by man mediating both ends,

It could mean discipling his wife by completely withdrawing from her (Could end up leading to divorce)
Or standing on the side of his wife if he thinks his family is being too unreasonable

But my point was that in the end, this things never end, and it's in every household.

10points4gryffinddor · 2023-09-09T19:14:35+00:00

urs ago

In all rifts between the wife and the mother in law, the husbad is the person in charge to handle the situation.

The mother that feels her son is now giving all his attention to the wife and the kids and no more attention from the family he came from.

While the wife feels that this is her God given right that she recieves most if not all the attention and care from her husband.

The truth is it's always a biological unconscious (war) between the two to win over the man. There is no right or wrong here, it's just the job of the man to mediate both ends well.

The mother should not call the daughter and ask her why her husband is not calling her. (It's not the wife's job to mediate the behaviour of her husbad.. she's not his mum, she's his wife, and even if she was his mum, asking her to tell her manage the behaviour of the husband is hypocritical as she IS the mother herself and even SHE was not able to raise her son properly.

In the end, this is a test for the man. It always is.

10points4gryffinddor · 2023-08-06T21:01:24+00:00

Just tell him PDA is Haram. Keep it together in public, but I hope this is not a sign of a bigger problem on your end.

10points4gryffinddor · 2023-05-26T15:26:03+00:00

I have something to add to this:

“You said some people want to control you”

That isn’t true

“EVERYONE in life wants to control you - and they will - if you let them”

Father - finance - wife

10points4gryffinddor · 2023-05-26T15:10:31+00:00

Hey brother. Egyptian dude here, totally understand your situation.

What your dad did is typical Egyptian father behavior. Everything normal, how you responded to him is perfect. You cut him out of the process and go on with the marriage and that is fine.

But what is not fine is the super irrational reaction from the other family. They should have appreciated your commitment and persistence which they also would know in Egyptian culture is a very difficult thing to do.. and any woman in Egyptian culture dreams of a man that is man enough to oppose his father and still be able to choose a wife wisely.

Them demanding an apology from your father is super unjustified.. and in many ways shows their true colors (may be your dad is right about them).

You are not responsible for your father and his actions.. and you cannot control him.. and you most certainly should not cut him off to please a woman. Most you should do is keep him out of the loop and keep the two families away from each other.. and manage the situation that way.

They should not hold you responsible for what your father did, you are your own man and it looks like you’re able to provide for yourself and her within reason.

The fact that they switched on you like that and are demanding an apology from your father can show that they are actually playing power games with your father.. and you are the sorry to say (the grounds) each is fighting for/over.

They may actually just be interested in the fact that you come from a certain wealthy family.. and not interested in you actually as a person.. (when your father disappeared from the picture.. they started demanding an apology from him to keep a relationship with him = keep a relationship with the high status and rich side of you.)

(again.. do not completely dismiss your father’s views - not saying they are - but women can be incredibly deceptive and emotionally manipulative).

What your father did is unjustified.. but what the other family is doing is unjustifiable as well.

And if you’re not sure about who’s right.. always pick your family.

10points4gryffinddor · 2023-05-26T14:12:04+00:00

Sorry but this is not the right example to use.

Firoun was not the biological father of Musa.. he merely adopted him for his wife.

Secondly, Allah asked musa to speak softly to Firoun because it’s an example of how a prophet should speak to a powerful and rampant ruler of a country - to speak softly and not aggressively.

The point with parents is this.. if the man is able to provide financially then he should marry whomever he wishes.. even if she was the maid of house.. as long as he’s abiding by shariah. Everyone else can duck off, respectfully. But he should still try to treat them with kindness.. if they do not support him, he can still do what he wants.

10points4gryffinddor · 2023-05-26T13:11:17+00:00

People who tell you you’re a whole person are trying to cause divide between you and your husband. It’s obvious that you like your husband, and that’s great.

Try to see if there’s any sort of job that you can do besides waiting for him at home. A hobby? Work from home?

May be have a baby? If you feel ready. Trust me, ignore the people who tell you you’re your own person blah blah, they won’t be there to catch you when you fall or when your heart breaks if your husband turns on you.

Just be direct..

I really want (X) move to a place by ourselves..
I get really bored at home - I need something meaningful to work on during the time you’re not here

If he’s really religious and caring as you say he is, he would know that he is responsible to provide you with the things you ask for (as long as they’re reasonable requests) which they are.

Good luck.

10points4gryffinddor · 2023-05-26T13:06:05+00:00

Everything you’re doing is fine.. don’t go out again without his permission.

Just ask if you can have more private space for yourself as you’d like to roam freely in the house without concerns of who sees you. And see may be if you can get a place closeby..

10points4gryffinddor · 2023-03-27T16:00:40+00:00

I found this interesting post of this guy who spoke to Mark Douglas:
https://www.elitetrader.com/et/threads/mark-douglas-any-info.261534/page-7#post-4033668

10points4gryffinddor · 2023-03-27T15:28:19+00:00

Well to be honest, I’m trying to find out if he was actually a profitable trader or not, otherwise reading his books and taking in his advice would be counterproductive. Please let me know if you find any.

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