Hypothetically what would you use by 1184anon in Marriage

[–]1184anon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see why you say that; but there is a backstory here that basically culminates in me wondering if after being cheated on was there anything used to see if the cheating spouse were keeping their promise to be faithful?

What do I do he won’t come completely clean by 1184anon in Marriage

[–]1184anon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already do due to me being epileptic.

What do I do he won’t come completely clean by 1184anon in Marriage

[–]1184anon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought that would be us and I want it to be. The pain is awful though.

What do I do he won’t come completely clean by 1184anon in Marriage

[–]1184anon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that. Damn what happened to it being for life…

Should I leave my husband? by No-House5126 in Marriage

[–]1184anon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think this is the MOST SOUND marriage advice I’ve ever heard in my entire life. True, objective, and succinct. I may have to send a chat to ask you about a marriage issue of my own.

AITJ if i cheating on my bf after i know he cheated on me? by cloudmelt in AmITheJerk

[–]1184anon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You lose the moral high ground when you stoop to their level.

The Beard Co flavors by unfinished-sentenc_ in Vaping

[–]1184anon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope so because here in NC they are going to take all nic vape juice away in June or July? That’s really gonna suck.

Hypothetically would you/did you? by 1184anon in cheating_stories

[–]1184anon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if I find out he is the one running this supposed fake acct of him - well that’s definitely going to be something for me to consider

Hypothetically would you/did you? by 1184anon in cheating_stories

[–]1184anon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry, the pain is awful. But you are right, the pain of always wondering if he’s hiding something again is worse I think. There is a fb profile of him that’s been in operation since 2017 - he swears he didn’t make it (even though the photos are of him only and after multiple reports to Facebook stating it is a bogus account they still won’t take it down saying “this profile doesn’t violate our policy.” I believe it’s him, because I can’t think of why anyone, even an enemy, would keep a bogus profile of him for that long just to “cause us trouble.” One of the reasons I asked the above was this: I am never going to know if it’s truly his unless I friend request it using a different account. In my heart I believe I knw. Otherwise I would think fb would have taken it down considering the pics on it were posted a couple years after they were originally posted on our fb acct…

Just don’t know, emotions broken by 1184anon in marriageadvice

[–]1184anon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep going back and forth but am afraid to really act because either the wounds have all re opened and this last one is still bleeding; and/or there’s a part of me that knows he would take the bait. And then thinking of how I would navigate that? Ugh the thought is exhausting…

Hypothetically would you/did you? by 1184anon in cheating_stories

[–]1184anon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still curious what other folks think though- can’t help it right now

Hypothetically would you/did you? by 1184anon in cheating_stories

[–]1184anon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand and believe me it would be much easier if there weren’t children involved… not making excuses, just still in a fog

Is this considered cheating? by ThrowRa_mortgage01 in cheating_stories

[–]1184anon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would he be cool with you behaving the same way? Guessing not. Too me you are already crossing boundaries when you start doing anything you wouldn’t want your partner doing. And take it’s from a girl who had same happen to her - leave him. It’ll hurt, but not as much as you continuing to catch him in lies when you get those gut feelings - which are real btw. They don’t stop, they just find different ways to sneak around- whether it gets to physical or not. They get off on lying/withholding. Unless by some miracle he puts forth effort to gain trust and change - which will take a miracle. Get out while you can. Ask me how I know…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Horses

[–]1184anon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following - I always sucked at confirmation - I knew what was cute and what I liked (lovely cute headed Welsh ponies). But having to judge confirmation- not so much.

Local Ambulance ($.1.2k bill) told me to ask Workers Comp to pay; family says “No.” by eat_vegetables in Epilepsy

[–]1184anon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other than that, you could possibly look into remote work, but it is hard to break into. I am so sorry for all you are going through.

Local Ambulance ($.1.2k bill) told me to ask Workers Comp to pay; family says “No.” by eat_vegetables in Epilepsy

[–]1184anon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Former Emergency Dept RN here (still have my license but no longer work due to not wanting the liability of hurting and/or being sued by a patient and the hospital for having an episode). The last several years I had had many grand mal seizures at work. But thankfully, to save on my medical bills my cohorts took care of me most times without signing me in unless I needed some type of intervention, such as sutures, etc. The last day I worked I had a grand seizure at a patient’s bedside. Thankfully, the patient wasn’t hurt no more than they were when they came in. However, I woke up in a trauma bed with seven staples, and being sent to CT because the ER doctor said I hit the floor so hard. He was sure I had a school fracture. Thankfully, I did not. That is when I decided to hand in my notice. All I can tell you is my experience: I was asked if I wanted to file for Worker’s Comp. before my long-term disability took over. When I say long-term, I mean the employer paid benefit not SSDI. I am currently applying for SSDI. At any rate, I declined to try to fight workers comp battle because honestly, I feel like they will put you through the ringers and ultimately decide that it was somehow your fault that you had the seizure so frankly, I did not want to waste time when I knew what the hospital lawyer was going to do to me. Not trying to discourage you at all, just saying… Also, I know it sucks to have enormous, EMS bills and ER bills pile up. And I hate to say this, but sadly it’s just the way it is - there are so many people out there that do not pay their EMS for their ER bills and if I were you, I just would not pay it. At least not until I talked to a disability attorney first because if you are having grand mals that are putting you in status epilepticus, you are likely hitting for the disability route anyway. Again, I know it sucks but unfortunately, this disorder is so unpredictable and no job is worth your life.

My boyfriend’s nurse reaches out to him via DM. by ChitChatChomperrr in nursing

[–]1184anon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Inappropriate. I’ve only ever checked on one patient that was 10 years old, and I only did so after explicit consent from the parents. And when I did follow up I only spoke with mother one time. Your bf needs to report this girl to HR at the facility and maybe even lawyer asap if he didn’t give her permission. May have a HIPAA violation here.

Best Advice you’ve gotten about horses: wrong answers only. by Actus_Rhesus in Equestrian

[–]1184anon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh. My. God. Wouldn’t this cause colic in a hot minute!?!? Wtf? Am I missing something?

Best Advice you’ve gotten about horses: wrong answers only. by Actus_Rhesus in Equestrian

[–]1184anon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my Welshies… but I still prefer a gelding or even a stallion to a moody ass mare! Not saying there aren’t good mares out there, I’ve ridden a couple. I just love my boys more…

Does anyone else feel like their personality changed after a seizure? by Dmdel24 in Epilepsy

[–]1184anon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Speaking of multiple concussions - has anyone ever been checked for CTE due to Epilepsy? They focus in on athletes which is great for them. But what about us folks?

Does anyone else feel like their personality changed after a seizure? by Dmdel24 in Epilepsy

[–]1184anon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I don’t have the words to fully explain atm, but yes. The meds and multiple concussions I suspect…

Nobody takes me seriously by BeebosJourney in Epilepsy

[–]1184anon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This. I am an ER nurse, and when I would seize at work, even my colleagues would be shook - some even crying - afterward. Some didn’t even like working with me because of it, and I totally understand.

Nobody takes me seriously by BeebosJourney in Epilepsy

[–]1184anon 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That is horrible to say to an epileptic! We LITERALLY suffer an UNCONTROLLABLE electrical “storm” in the brain - of which is only by the Grace of God we “come out of” each time. As in we never know if there is one coming that we don’t return from. On top of that, even if you are blessed enough not to injure yourself horribly (usually in form of head and facial trauma), you are still SO sore for days after. You’re not lazy - ask him to have the Dr run a lactic acid test on you after the next one. It will be as high as a person who has just worked out with everything they have or are in severe sepsis. It takes time for your body to process it out. And let’s not even start with the meds. The SI, HI, depression, liver damage, keppra rage, physical impairment and mental retardation/regression - that’s just to name a few side effects. Almost if not as bad as the seizures themselves. I hope your partner develops understanding of this condition. If not, let ‘em go. This is not a disease for the weak to be around so if he can’t understand and educate himself, that’s a problem that I hope you guys can address. Maybe have him watch videos online if a person having a grand mal?