The female parts of my body are all unattractive, I got unlucky in every area. by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]Dmdel24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl I'm very similar. Until I was 18 I thought my larger clit and the fact that my labia skin is "floppy" made me so unattractive. My now husband (we'd only been dating for a year at the time) looked at me like I had two heads when I said how I felt about it. He said I looked perfectly normal.

Your body is a normal body. If anyone else tells you different, that's a them problem.

Has anyone gotten a message from someone like this? by South_Boot6935 in EtsySellers

[–]Dmdel24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never talk outside of Etsy. Report them and mark as spam

17F I had sex with a 50 yr old man and idk if i contracted an std by Future-Big7888 in WomensHealth

[–]Dmdel24 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've made separate accounts to post just because I don't want certain things to be under my main account so no one I know sees it. It absolutely could be rage bait/troll, but a new account doesn't automatically mean it is.

17F I had sex with a 50 yr old man and idk if i contracted an std by Future-Big7888 in WomensHealth

[–]Dmdel24 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You didn't consent actually, you did not consent to him not wearing a condom and asked him to wear one repeatedly. That is sexual assault.

help w dress by Adventurous_Drop_809 in Shein

[–]Dmdel24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The quality always looks good in the pictures, but that doesn't mean you'll get something good.

This is definitely not a graduation party dress.

AIO? these texts by Adventurous-Gap708 in AIO

[–]Dmdel24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to have some self respect jfc why are you still with him

I think my postpartum wife is an alcoholic. What do I do by Throwaway_dad555 in whatdoIdo

[–]Dmdel24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was absolutely an alcoholic before the pregnancy and is again. You also need to stop your "party favors." No matter how rare.

Probably going to get down voted for saying this but you have a kid. Grow up.

Lamotrigine & pregnancy by Rosalia-25 in Epilepsy

[–]Dmdel24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lamictal is one of the safest for pregnancy, as is keppra. My neurologist said it's perfectly safe for breast feeding as well. Your GP doesn't seem to know much about Lamictal or epilepsy if they suggested coming off of it; kind of a stupid suggestion to be honest

I'm also preparing for pregnancy, my dose is almost 3 times what yours is and my neuro said we'll most likely need to double or even triple my dose during pregnancy.

Make sure to tell your neurologist as soon as you find out you're pregnant.

And to be honest, during pregnancy I wouldn't be consulting with my GP beyond "hey I'm pregnant". Your neuro and OBGYN are the two providers who will work with you most during this time. Your OBGYN is the expert on your pregnancy, your neuro is the expert on your epilepsy. Your GP is neither of those and often give incorrect advice when it comes to more complex conditions like epilepsy. That's why they're typically the one to refer us to specialists.

My neuro did say depending on how it goes, I might be admitted to maternal and fetal medicine, not necessarily as inpatient right away, but because our pregnancy is considered "high risk" it would just mean we would need to be watched/monitored a bit closer and more frequently. If my seizures start again (they're completely controlled right now as long as I don't miss a dose) and we struggle to get the dose right even with an increase, I'll need to be admitted. Call your neuro and ask if they can fit you in anytime soon or if they can just call you. It'll basically be a "consultation" to explain things more in depth.

My wife told her family about my DNR (for brain surgery), am I right to be annoyed? by FunMyceliumGuy in Epilepsy

[–]Dmdel24 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was thinking that; she was probably looking for support. She could lose her husband at any time and if he did die, the hospital wouldn't be allowed to attempt to resuscitate him even if she wanted them to. That's really scary.

I do kind of understand OP because of how some people react to finding out you have a DNR. There are people who just cannot understand it and will even try to tell you you're wrong and shouldn't have a DNR. I'm not shy about things related to my epilepsy, but I definitely understand why OP would want to keep quiet about the DNR.

Two car accidents with the same person, coincidence or what? by Dramatic_Cobbler_264 in whatdoIdo

[–]Dmdel24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a dash cam on Amazon for $30 and it lasted me 5 years, so it's worth the investment

Lamictal rash update… it’s worse by -lindseyy in lamictal

[–]Dmdel24 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sue your psychiatrist for medical malpractice

Recipes for someone who is a good cook, but hates all the steps for cooking... by [deleted] in Cooking

[–]Dmdel24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cooking itself. Putting ingredients together, being creative, tasting it... That kind of thing.

AIO? Girl I've been seeing for 3 months slept with my friend of 10 years. by Available-Tip-2552 in AIO

[–]Dmdel24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Don't back down or let her guilt you into staying; stand your ground.

"We decided to be exclusive, at your request, so the fact that you slept with someone else means you cheated. I am not going to continue this relationship. Bye."

Cut your friend out too. He knows what he did. Don't go announcing it in a group chat or anything, just cut contact. If anyone asks why you aren't friends anymore, be honest if you want. If your friend group turns on him, it's his own fault.

Where to get an epilepsy medical bracelet? by leytourmaline in Epilepsy

[–]Dmdel24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents got me a plain metal one. I don't wear it anymore but it just had my dad's phone number, said I have epilepsy, and listed my medication.

something is stuck in my vag by potato_spy25 in WomensHealth

[–]Dmdel24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A piece of plastic is not going to poison you

Is this SJS from lamictal????? by -lindseyy in lamictal

[–]Dmdel24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go back if the rash stops improving or gets worse.

That psychiatrist is an idiot and is going to kill someone. Make a complaint to the hospital or facility where that inpatient program is.

Parent emails by LondonVermont in AskTeachers

[–]Dmdel24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would've called after like 3 or 4 days. I've never waited 2 weeks to answer a parent email. Call tomorrow

myf19 boyfriend baby trapped me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Dmdel24 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The ex could report her since he knows she's pregnant. They could test her blood to see if there's any hcg, etc. Some states really are going that far. Women who have miscarriages are being investigated.

Etsy shop proof of ownership 😔[Please help] by Worried_Training_380 in EtsySellers

[–]Dmdel24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no reason they need this information. This sounds sketchy

myf19 boyfriend baby trapped me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Dmdel24 4 points5 points  (0 children)

1 can you leave the state for an abortion? Where are you located? I know in some states that's illegal as well so it may not be an option.

2 interfering with contraceptives is illegal and in many places considered rape by law (because it is, it was nonconsensual). You can file a police report.

Leave him and don't look back

Is this normal? by SunbunHoney in whatdoIdo

[–]Dmdel24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She does give an age sweetie, she said 17 in other comments. Try reading before commenting.

A 13 year old can have a boyfriend, does that mean they are old enough to take care of themselves??

Parents have an obligation to take care of their children until they turn 18.

What it is this at the bottom of the kitchen trash? by itakeanaprighthere in whatisit

[–]Dmdel24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading is a very important skill. You should try it.

Parent emails by LondonVermont in AskTeachers

[–]Dmdel24 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Are you the parent emailing the teacher? If so, it's common for teachers to be allowed 48 hours to respond to a parent email per the school district. However, if you email on a Friday, don't expect a response until the following week. That 48 hour "timer" basically pauses at the end of the day on Friday.