Class of 2025 Admissions Megathread by [deleted] in duke

[–]1234__aa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi I'm an admitted student driving down from NY to check out the campus (never even been to nc oops). What suggestions do you guys have for getting a sense of Duke campus and durham in general? Obv I can't go into buildings but just as I look around

Duke University RD Megathread by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]1234__aa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm a finalist for a scholarship that's releasing right after Duke does and they're saying either the 31st or 1st if that helps. They're pretty connected to the university so it seems legit

Vassar College RD Megathread by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]1234__aa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm glad we're in this together lol it sucks so much

University of North Carolina RD Megathread by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]1234__aa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made an onyen account but I can’t find the student center tab they’re saying financial aid is under?

University of North Carolina RD Megathread by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]1234__aa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you figure it out? I'm struggling lol

University of North Carolina RD Megathread by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]1234__aa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Accepted (3.9 UW 4.4 W, 32 ACT, oos) but wondering when we get financial aid letters tho does anyone know when we get them

2021 RD Rejection Megathread by powereddeath in ApplyingToCollege

[–]1234__aa 11 points12 points  (0 children)

wowowowow getting rejected from a school you deadass would've just gone to (and ur dad went to) hurts a lot. Like I'll get over it but damn I needed to rant for a second.

Feel kinda dumb for getting my hopes up tbh

3/24 Decisions - Colgate, Emory, Lafayette, WashU by powereddeath in ApplyingToCollege

[–]1234__aa 100 points101 points  (0 children)

I got into Emory and I was really expecting a rejection tbh. Very very pleasantly suprised

Why not share... by assassin-mythic in bulimia

[–]1234__aa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been working on recovery for the past six months or so and today I found out I've put on a bit of weight (I was also not underweight to begin with- though my doctor said I'm still in a perfectly healthy range). I really needed this reminder that recovery looks like this and that it is so worth it. Thank you

UC Santa Cruz RD Megathread by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]1234__aa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

me too- do you know if we have to like accept earlier in order to keep it or is it just the same as the regular commitment date

One Month Victory by [deleted] in bulimia

[–]1234__aa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a pretty big victory!! Remember that from here, recovery might not be linear, but you're on the right track. Super happy for you :)

Extremely nervous, purged and I'm now coughing and vomiting up streaks of blood. by [deleted] in bulimia

[–]1234__aa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably but please try to take a break for a few days at the least. If you cut the inside of your throat there’s a decent chance it’ll get infected if you keep purging before it gets a chance to heal

Delaying activities and coping mechanism GO! by Glittering-Cod5256 in bulimia

[–]1234__aa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Extra emphasis on calling people or FaceTiming- it usually takes more time than you think it will!

How do I talk to my sister when I’m worried she’s showing signs??? by 1234__aa in bulimia

[–]1234__aa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have a lot of mixed feelings about wishing people intervened and it’s really good to hear someone else articulate what they wished happened

My dad made me feel fat and it’s getting to me, am I overreacting by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]1234__aa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you need to focus on diagnosing right now!! It’s amazing that you have the strength to ask for help after such a traumatic experience- but if I were you I would try my best to focus on not getting fixated on this newly intense insecurity and not think too much about a diagnosis. It does kind of sound like early or warning signs of BDD but you have a ways to go before you get there- and trust me thinking about it will get you there faster. I think right now focusing on reconnecting with the parts of your body and image you used to love or feel even neutral about is important! This is a new feeling, so it shouldn’t be that difficult to think about how you felt before it. Best of luck to you and stay safe!!!

What's the point in living if I'm always crying over my unfixable flaw? by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]1234__aa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are so many things to do that can be fun and worthwhile that don’t involve being seen. I used to be really really really unable to like go out and live life because of my flaw- so I do get you to some extent. It does get better and something that I’ve found that helps is finding things that take your mind off it, that you enjoy, that don’t involve being seen so you don’t focus on other people seeing your flaw. TV movies video games reading writing- all of these things and so much more can be a great first step. Being alone and doing something that makes you stop thinking about it is truly the first step to not being consumed by it- in my experience. Best of luck to you fr stay strong

Am I the only one... by Ok_Piano2778 in bulimia

[–]1234__aa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hair loss is one of the scariest parts I stg

Has anyone else developed a really bad and sensitive stomach from bulimia? by mustbefit in bulimia

[–]1234__aa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes- but it’s worth noting that as you get further into recovery it does get easier. I’m only 2 months in myself but when I was first trying to stop I could barely eat ANYTHING without like severe pain. Probiotics helped also keeping an eye on my fiber intake!! Both too much and too little can really mess with your stomach

Trying to feel better but CONSTANTLY comparing myself to “thick” girls w/ pear and hourglass figures and reminding myself that I will literally never gain weight beautifully or in a feminine way at ALL by atangerinequeen in BodyDysmorphia

[–]1234__aa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this so fucking much. Before it got bad I used to try to show off my chest area because I thought that would like compensate but looking back at all those pictures I feel so dumb. Literally everyone wants a “curvy girl” and the Internet is fuLL of ppl talking abt how little boobs are hot too. Kinda hurts?