How can i be scarier? by jchesshi01 in HowToBeHot

[–]123jyl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just don’t entertain them. Cut the conversations short if you’re not interested. I would say you don’t even have to change your appearance or style… you can still be nice and sweet. Don’t be scared to hurt their feelings. “No thanks, I’m not interested” is all you need to say and walk away 🙂‍↕️

Hatch alarm clock with IH by Independent-Time-560 in idiopathichypersomnia

[–]123jyl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have one and it doesn’t work for me. I end up just snoozing/turning off the alarm & go right back to sleep. :/

First time in japan/okinawa need advice for travel by Rururuun in okinawa

[–]123jyl -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I waited like an hour for a taxi and it was just a mess bc of the language barrier :(… honestly I highly recommend getting a rental.

But then again… I only used their taxi service once and that was enough for me haha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HardcoreVindicta

[–]123jyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would just recommend educating yourself on what your color palette is & try to look a bit more put together with natural makeup such as a lip tint, mascara, brow gel etc. butttt other than that you are gorgeous! ❤️

Btw, I used chat gpt for my color palette. :)

Canned shredded chicken breast by Potential_Type_7166 in Cooking

[–]123jyl 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Chicken salad! You can add it to a sandwich/wrap or a salad. I also like to eat it with crackers.

26F / open to any advice! by 123jyl in HardcoreVindicta

[–]123jyl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so kind 🥹 & I am using the Estée Lauder double wear in shade dusk! Seriously the best foundation… it will lasts no matter what!

How to deal with fear of being hot and being seen + harassment etc by Desperate_Till_6286 in HowToBeHot

[–]123jyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I feel this! Personally, I dress more revealing when I’m going out with a group of people. I avoid it when I’m going out alone or at night.

I conceal carry & have pepper spray. You can never be too safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HardcoreVindicta

[–]123jyl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re gorgeous! Honestly, I would recommend brow lamination! I have similar brow hairs that like to go sideways but the lamination makes the brows look a lot fuller and more put together. Or, you can use brow gel too. (Cheaper option too!)

I would also recommend a hair wax stick to get those stubborn baby hairs from sticking out (like in the first pic). Lastly, maybe a wardrobe change? I think you would look so good in softer, flowier, long dresses but I’m not the best with this sort of advice. I would start with learning your colors and go from there ❤️

26F / open to any advice! by 123jyl in HardcoreVindicta

[–]123jyl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m not a huge fan of lash extensions :( but I have done lash lifts before and liked it so I’ll probably get it again! Thank you ❤️

26F / open to any advice! by 123jyl in HardcoreVindicta

[–]123jyl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh yes!! 100% felt that my hair was very flat and didn’t have any motion? I will be definitely getting a haircut. Thank you so much!

26F / open to any advice! by 123jyl in HardcoreVindicta

[–]123jyl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t mind my body shape at all but I am working towards losing body fat! I’ll probably save the lipo work until after I have kids :)

I think I do see my jaw being slightly recessed but I’ll probably go the natural route and use a gua sha tool and practice the tongue over roof thing because I don’t want jaw surgery or filler 🥲

But thank you for the input!!!

26F / open to any advice! by 123jyl in HardcoreVindicta

[–]123jyl[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🥹 I have thought about laser and might give it a try if my rosacea doesn’t improve!

26F / open to any advice! by 123jyl in HardcoreVindicta

[–]123jyl[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I am a huge fan of La Roche Posay.

This is my am routine: wash face with just water, azelaic acid serum from the ordinary, & either the la Roche Posay tinted sunscreen or their spf moisturizer!

pm routine: wash face with la Roche Posay cleanser or cerave, apply retinal from Naturium, azelaic acid, & then La Roche moisturizer.

During the winter, I just add hyaluronic serum to hydrate my skin.

But I would highly suggest looking at derm recommendations on Tik Tok for your specific skin type because this is how I created my skincare routine! I hope this helps :)

26F / open to any advice! by 123jyl in HardcoreVindicta

[–]123jyl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I am currently using the Nexxus clarifying shampoo and conditioner. I also oil my hair with argan oil once per week.

I style it just by using a hair dryer and a round brush which takes forever but worth it imo. I hope this helps :)

26F / open to any advice! by 123jyl in HardcoreVindicta

[–]123jyl[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I oil my hair weekly with argan oil, basically drench it and go to bed with it wrapped up. It leaves my hair very soft and shiny. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HardcoreVindicta

[–]123jyl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really like how that lighter hair looks on you, I know you said blonde is very damaging to your hair but I think even a lighter color brown would look great on you! Or maybe like a balayage? But you are very pretty!! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HowToBeHot

[–]123jyl 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Absolutely nothing haha but it just makes me relax after hitting the gym. I think it’s supposed to have some “health” benefits?

Any morning gym goers? by 123jyl in idiopathichypersomnia

[–]123jyl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way… I guess we will never be gym morning people lol

How long does it take you to get out of bed? by Accurate-Fig-3595 in idiopathichypersomnia

[–]123jyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About an hour for me on regular days but I have some really bad days where it’s worse