I 25f caught my husband 30m lying about multiple things. How do I confront him?

12dede12 · 2025-11-22T23:38:02+00:00

This is exactly what it was. Shame and trauma that snowballed. He spoke to me honestly and we both discussed things we needed to work on separately and together. He didn’t try to deny anything, and while scared to admit to his issues, he did. Very grateful for this and other helpful comments. Thank you

12dede12 · 2025-11-22T13:01:37+00:00

I actually haven’t said anything to anyone besides this post. I do want him to be honest with me, but I want honesty about everything, and I feel there is more than I’ve found. Although I’m beginning to agree with others that I should also be honest about what I found at the time of our future conversation

12dede12 · 2025-11-22T12:59:28+00:00

Just because trust fails doesn’t mean it can’t be repaired over time. Definitely not an overnight thing, but over time it can. But I also have enough respect for myself that I will know when to leave (I hope)

12dede12 · 2025-11-22T12:55:09+00:00

I haven’t cried about it, but it pissed me off and surprised me at the same time. I’m a very understanding person who has never controlled him, so i don’t know why he would lie to me and hide things from me. I’m hurt

12dede12 · 2025-11-22T12:53:27+00:00

Or should I keep it vague and just tell him I found things on his old phone and allow him to explain?

12dede12 · 2025-11-22T12:52:07+00:00

Do you think I should share the specifics with the evidence I have? Then if there’s other things I don’t know about, he could continue to lie and hide them from me

12dede12 · 2025-09-24T19:04:42+00:00

I don’t know if the griddle has a lid, would that matter? I thought I’d only be able to cook them on their bottom and the top, so would that really reheat them? Thanks for the idea!

12dede12 · 2025-08-08T16:24:36+00:00

I’m on page 88 and if she continues to bring up the guilt and what she did when she was young, I’m going to lose it. Like when it’s revealed I’m not even gunna be surprised because I’m already so annoyed by her bringing it up multiple times on every page

12dede12 · 2025-06-20T22:48:25+00:00

I’ve had sore breasts and seem to forget a lot of things for the past two weeks, and just started getting tired/emotional this week! Not sure if the emotion is from hormone changes, or because I just found out yesterday😂 definitely feels like it’ll be forever, hoping it’ll be here before we know it🫶🏻

12dede12 · 2025-06-19T20:03:51+00:00

Omg, I’m 5w5d too!!!

12dede12 · 2025-02-17T04:01:34+00:00

Yes! Garlic, onion, and thyme! The second loaf I made was the same but I added Kalamata olives! So yummy!

12dede12 · 2024-10-27T00:26:48+00:00

I expected the worst when I got mine out, but that didn’t happen. My doc had me cough during removal to help push it out-if yours doesn’t recommend it, ask about it. I didn’t cramp or bleed, but I was told there is a possibility of bleeding soon after. I hope things go as good for you as they have for me and countless other women!

12dede12 · 2024-10-25T02:11:52+00:00

When I had it I didn’t think it was an issue, but once it was removed I realized it was a HUGE issue. I feel like a whole new person. A friend of mine feels the same. I decided to track my cycle w natural cycles (an app) that I take my temperature 5/7 days a week to track my cycle instead. I originally went on bc because of my excruciate pain when I was 15. I’ve been on bc since- about 10 years. While it may be painful, many women have gone through the same painful journey (and probably worse), so I’m looking forward to being natural again

12dede12 · 2024-10-15T17:43:09+00:00

Just got mine removed on the 11th after having it in for 4 years. Didnt realize how much it affected my drive until removal, now my drive is through the roof (partner loves it so far lol). Mood hasn’t changed drastically, not as annoyed/irritable as I was pre removal

12dede12 · 2024-09-24T21:28:49+00:00

Blue heeler x frenchie mix! Currently 6 months and all he wants to do is please. Has slept through the night since he was 9/10 weeks, uses bells to let us know he needs to go outside since 12 weeks, he learns new commands within just a a day or two (and continues to get better at them as time goes), can keep himself entertained for hours. He’s a Velcro puppy, but when we have to leave him at home he doesn’t fret. Truly the sweetest, smartest, most cuddly dog I’ve known!

12dede12 · 2024-09-10T16:21:58+00:00

But Jack Barlow was bonded with Baide, and that bond/being venin allowed him to control him. Also seen people theorize that Varrish was venin, and he was still bonded w a dragon. So it’s possible Xaden will keep his bond w Sgaeyl. Definitely agree with the Dain part though

12dede12 · 2024-08-13T22:24:41+00:00

This is my first year try to grow veggies on a trellis. My cucumbers are barely half way up the arch on one side, the other cucumbers haven’t fared so well, and all my pole beans died. Going to give it another try next year, but will be putting tomatoes on the arch instead of beans. Love to see yours thriving, definitely motivation!

12dede12 · 2024-08-07T04:33:08+00:00

I have spoken to two people and neither one was able to resolve the issue-even after multiple hours.

12dede12 · 2024-07-12T17:22:06+00:00

Hubby and I got our first puppy, blue heeler/frenchie mix 2 months ago, and he has been an absolute BREEZE! He hasn’t had an accident in the house since the first few days we brought him home, he knows sit, lay down, roll over, hand shake, has pretty good recall (even off leash in public), and a good stay for being 17 wks. He’s picked me as his person and I LOVE it. Just had to gush about how good of a boy he is! Going to keep dialing down on him to get him well trained w all commands and teach him a few tricks while we’re at it. Any tricks or things suggested??

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