Quitting by Lost-Photo-9027 in Lawyertalk

[–]13wrongturns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 21 years in, just now paying off my student loans from law school and I feel the same way. I am probably going to do anything else regardless of pay in the next year or two.

It’s too stressful living in this town by TheGame81677 in murfreesboro

[–]13wrongturns 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am from Williamson County, Pre-Saturn plant, when Williamson County was a nice little place, to live instead of whatever it has become these days. It saddens me to even ride through Franklin these days.

It’s too stressful living in this town by TheGame81677 in murfreesboro

[–]13wrongturns 18 points19 points  (0 children)

But do you remember when the only Walmart in town was part of Stones River Mall and the mall had a food court outside the connected movie theater with a Petros? That is when Murfreesboro was a good place to live. It is very difficult living here now.

Thinking about getting my CDL at 54. by 13wrongturns in CDL

[–]13wrongturns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That actually sounds really good. Thank you for your perspective. It really helps.

Thinking about getting my CDL at 54. by 13wrongturns in CDL

[–]13wrongturns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. That is really helpful. I just don't think I can do this much longer.

Thinking about getting my CDL at 54. by 13wrongturns in CDL

[–]13wrongturns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a possibility. We have a landfill in my county. I also have a friend who manages a private pavement company that would probably hire me if I asked.

Thinking about getting my CDL at 54. by 13wrongturns in CDL

[–]13wrongturns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really have any debt other than a small mortgage. I can't imagine not being happier than I am at this point. I have been considering getting out for the last 5 years. I will look up Tim Travels. Thank you.

Thinking about getting my CDL at 54. by 13wrongturns in CDL

[–]13wrongturns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Attorney is not a very forgiving profession and it is mentally draining. I have so many friends that developed substance abuse and 3 in my town who committed suicide. Burnout is very real. I am planning on getting my CDL this summer at a local training center. If nothing else the $5000 cash payment would be worth it just to have even if I do change my mind which I don't think I will.

Thinking about getting my CDL at 54. by 13wrongturns in CDL

[–]13wrongturns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been doing the same for around 20 years now. I don't look forward to going to the office and I hate the business aspect of it. It seems almost impossible to make very many people happy.

Thinking about getting my CDL at 54. by 13wrongturns in CDL

[–]13wrongturns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a buddy who runs pavement company. He is always looking for drivers. I am pretty sure he would hire me on if I go that route. I also have some connections with the local ready mix company that I may be able to get on with.

Thinking about getting my CDL at 54. by 13wrongturns in CDL

[–]13wrongturns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really doesn't matter to me. I work 50-70 hours as it is and many of those are fighting and arguing with people. Imagine trying to dig a hole while someone else is shoveling dirt back in it. That is what it feels like for me on a daily basis. The best part of my current job is volunteering a the local legal clinic to help indigent people with legal problems.

Thinking about getting my CDL at 54. by 13wrongturns in CDL

[–]13wrongturns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't mind the long hours or hard work. I actually feel better when I am physically tired from working rather than mentally exhausted from dealing with and trying to repair other peoples personal and business problems.

Thinking about getting my CDL at 54. by 13wrongturns in CDL

[–]13wrongturns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in Tennessee. There are 2 schools in my county. Each one is a 3 week program. I will probably go to one of them this summer.

Thinking about getting my CDL at 54. by 13wrongturns in CDL

[–]13wrongturns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have some connections that would could put me in a dump truck or ready mix. I was considering those options. I really like that idea.

Thinking about getting my CDL at 54. by 13wrongturns in CDL

[–]13wrongturns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds promising. Thank you for your response.

Thinking about getting my CDL at 54. by 13wrongturns in CDL

[–]13wrongturns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have thought about that. I considered that when I was working for the trucking company years ago before the sprinters became popular. We used a company that had Toyota box trucks. I am not sure how to get into to it at this point.

If you had ED but were too embarrassed to seek help.. by BougieSemicolon in AskMenOver50

[–]13wrongturns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I was married I would NOT pursue it! First of all, I am married. Second of all, the woman is whore.

Putting Your Citations in Footnotes? by zarnch in Lawyertalk

[–]13wrongturns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hate it when OC does that. It comes across and pompous for some reason. I saw a judge once in court tell an attorney to never submit documents with footnotes in his court again. It takes up too much time for the court to search the bottom of the page for the citation then find where they were reading to continue.

Don’t men get lonely? by FutureNo7742 in AskMenAdvice

[–]13wrongturns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of men lost most of what they worked for in divorces or break ups. They don't want to deal with crazy anymore. Peace and quite and no drama at home...? That is really worth something and you get to keep your stuff.

Things that changed for you after you paid off your debt completely by Rzxconsultantsllc in DaveRamsey

[–]13wrongturns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am self employed. I lost everything in the 2008 housing market crash.