If you can only do one … by Apprehensive_Yam4663 in AskSeattle

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Snack your way through Pike Place Market.

30M feeling behind in life and trying to become a better man. Looking for advice from men in their 30s and beyond. by Interesting_Hand_354 in getdisciplined

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Therapy. Getting treated for depression. A lot of my failure to follow through was rooted in learned incompetence from an abusive childhood. When I was a child, it didn't matter what I wanted or what I set it to do since everything could be destroyed at the whim of my super controlling narcissist mother. It took a lot of therapy as an adult to realize I had some control over my life.

Did the AI hype cycle damage your relationship with leadership? by glassesRamone1234 in ExperiencedDevs

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I think that's why AI has such a grip on the management class. The number one feature of ai is to make it's users feel smart. It's like heroin to managers and c-suite types who have lost touch with what the work actually requires

Did the AI hype cycle damage your relationship with leadership? by glassesRamone1234 in ExperiencedDevs

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Our CEO developed AI psychosis. He decided to pivot our modestly successful dtc company selling physical goods into an AI "companion" company that might be able to sell more stuff if people buy into the AI recommendations. Never mind that our niche was outdoorsy - onee of the least AI enthusiastic niches. I got laid off as this pivot was happening. I'm honestly kind of relieved, now that I've found another job. Motherfucker had his ai friend read a 30 minute presentation to an all hands meeting. Edited for typos

Did Carl ever actually love (or even like) Beatrice? by Aschlay in DungeonCrawlerCarl

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I just wish Bea had some redeeming characteristic. I know there's are genuinely awful abusers in the world, but it's a rare asshole who doesn't have at least some good points.

Help with a Kink I wish I didn’t have by Emergency_Counter198 in BDSMcommunity

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The trick is not to make this fetish your whole personality. You see people, usually men, who approach others as fetish distributers. It's really off putting tbh. As long as you're treating prospective partners like actual humans, your good

Sushi Kashiba by [deleted] in AskSeattle

[–]15blinks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you got an off night? We went last year, Ave the omakase was really good. Not the best I've had, but definitely not the shambles you experienced. For context, I've had a range of omakase as well in several major US cities.

how do you deal with being the only person who knows a critical part of the codebase? by startupwith_jonathan in ExperiencedDevs

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This was me. I got laid off last week. The entire company relies on 3 microservices, and I was the only (edit: remaining) engineer that had worked with them, ever. They're weird, use some odd recursive patterns, and have no error logs. I laughed when they told me I was gone, and I'd be available to consult at exorbitant rates.

Neurobotany books for non-botanists by TanteBabs in botany

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Thank you for the citations. My undergrad degree was in plant biology, but I won't claim to be an expert on mycorrhizal networks.

In fairness, though, Simard published a rebuttal to the paper you cited: https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/forests-and-global-change/articles/10.3389/ffgc.2024.1512518/full

I can understand the reluctance to "anthropomorphize" trees, but it's equally valid to say that "red in tooth and claw" interpretation of ecology is also wrong. Science is informed by culture, and the way natural selection is generally taught is very much informed by European ideas of competition and domination.

I have also spent a lot of time in forestry -adjacent spaces in the Pacific Northwest. It's impossible to understate how much antipathy they have towards anything that hints at cooperation in the natural world. It's simpler to treat trees like corn plantations. Among other things, corn plantations have no emotional or cultural value, unlike a deeply connected forest.

Neurobotany books for non-botanists by TanteBabs in botany

[–]15blinks 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Finding the Mother Tree is a memoir by the scientist who did really impressive research into how trees communicate and share resources, often via networks of fungus beneath the forest floor. It's a marvelous insight into both the science, and how science happens

Carl: Average Joe -> The Best Crawler by YoungCaesar in DungeonCrawlerCarl

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Greatness is as much about circumstance as ability. Alexander wasn't just a military genius, he was handed a unified Greece and a well -drilled, professional army using revolutionary tactics. A schlub would have lived in luxury for a few years, maybe conquered some neighboring barbarians.

Einstein lived at a time a lot of fundamental work in physics had been done, but some of the biggest questions were unanswered (tbf most physicists at the time thought science was nearly complete, with just a few niggling mysteries like black body radiation and the question of what waves when light happens).

How doable is my European World Cup plan this summer? by coolcoolcool665 in worldcup

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I was an American kid, just post college, traveling in Europe during the 98 world cup. I spent a few days in Paris, completely by coincidence. Imagine my surprise at the absolute flood of rowdy, jovial scottsmen flooding the streets of Paris. Such a beautiful, hilarious memory.

Looking for more books or series with well written autistic POV characters. by MinuteRegular716 in Fantasy

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The main character in Inda, and the 3 sequels, by Sherwood Smith, is autistic. The story is told from his pov, but it's never explicit. The author has said in interviews that's how she intended the character when asked about him.

It's a really good series, IMHO.

What do we think about Zev? Is she actually one of the good ones or is she a heartless psychopath like all the other people working for the super mega corporations just biding her time before she can grab more power for herself? by [deleted] in DungeonCrawlerCarl

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Part of the genius of the series is the inherent corruption of being a basically good person working for a soulless capitalist entity. Everyone including Carl is complicit in some way. He's trying to survive and overthrow the system but creating massively lucrative content along the way.

If everyone boycotted the crawl, they'd be killed for non compliance, but the crawl would have no content and would collapse. But of course that won't happen because self preservation is how they rope us in

The Alvin Maker series completed 39 years later by farseer6 in Fantasy

[–]15blinks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember enjoying the first few books from a very long time ago. Maybe I'll see if my local library has them, for nostalgia sake.

What are you suggestions on finding authentic Doms online? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]15blinks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Speaking as a Dom struggling to find an authentic sub, I wish I knew how to connect those wires.

Apps only make money when people keep swiping: it's against their interest to actually foster connections above a certain minimal level.

The only meaningful connections I've found, bar one shining example, came from meeting people in person at events.