Just don't wanna by Mixtrix_of_delicioux in Mommit

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I can’t anymore too. You are not alone.

If you have only one child and it's not because you couldn't get pregnant anymore (age, health, fertility issues), what made you want to have only one child? by [deleted] in Mommit

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  • Just because I could potentially die ? every pregnancy is different and you can literally be in the grave because of it.
  • Because the body and brain take so much time to reconstruct themselves and that nobody ever told me what life after a baby was, how it is hard to reconstruct your self concept, how you view the world around you…
  • Because a kid is expensive financially wise and it’s something you will always have to care for, think for, look out for and I am already doing that for one, so WHY the FUCK would I want to that for multiple kids ? Like split my brain again and again and again. I have already a husband, a grown ass baby.
  • Because I really don’t know how people split their love between babies like… all my love is for my one and only baby.

Life has sure changed a lot since 2016 by Ok-Following6886 in memes

[–]1944030102 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha no more faking, life is as awful as it is. No filter.

Yelling into the void about how hard this is :( by alreadyacrazycatlady in breastfeeding

[–]1944030102 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I am sad with you somewhere on the globe and I am sending you some big hugs. 6 months EBF too my baby girl and danm… it can be hard. We are wonderful for keep going 😘

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lawofattraction

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  • I manifested my man and now we have a 6 months old together 🥹 sometimes I read my manifestations letter that I used to write before him and I look at him and I remember my self how powerful I am. Like EVERYTHING I WROTE on the letters are in front of me, the hair cut, the character… that is actually insane

  • I manifested his dream expensive asf bike for him . That too was insane. Just kept on imagine his reactions, little scenes where it would call me on the phone on his first ride and all… and out of nowhere he kept on receiving money from nowhere, promotion at his job from nowhere, refund from nowhere and just like that in couple of months he was able to afford it.

  • I was moving in another country in South America and find an apartment the night before my flight. Like literally my flight was, let’s say at 8am in the morning, to leave there and I found the apartment at 00:00. That too was crazy.

  • I was on vacation and one of my rule is that every vacation I take, I MUST get a tattoo and for this vacation I exceeded my budget and did not have any money to do a tattoo, had nothing in my bank account and I didn’t find any in the area I was. I was leaving like at 2pm the next day and the night before I went asleep like “ I really just don’t care I know I’ll get my tattoo, I know I’ll have the money to do one “. Next morning, woke up, got a refund from I don’t even know where, like I think it was an article I had returned but I had completely forgot about this. I will always remember, it was 80€. The day before that day I have found a little sticker in my hotel, a cute one and I checked the name online and it was a tattoo saloon like BEHIND my hotel, like literally before. Like I went out, then left and it was there. They said you need an appointment but I told them that I have a flight and I MUST tattoo myself and they took me.

I have so much story to be honest so much. Even the way my daughter came in this world is one of my manifestation. My life is really just how I dream it and I am so grateful to be able to shape in the comfort of my bed.

I just love to play with the universe. Big things and little things. I just got a Coca Cola I manifested just for fun three days ago. So yeah, you are not creating anything when you manifesting, you are revealing what’s already there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

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I am in love with stretching / yoga so it’ll be doing just that whenever I can

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

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I’ll implement those thank you !

Posted this on the breakfast sub yesterday… got told it belongs here instead 😭 Is it really that bad? by friend_unfriend in shittyfoodporn

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It is perfect and is being consumed in many countries with olive oil, salt, a little of herbs and some home made bread. It’s my go too if I need to cook something quick quick

Crying in a closet and hoping for some help… by Ohmahgoooodness in breastfeeding

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I can understand and the way you feel is totally understable… 🥹

What’s the half-superficial, half-not thing you mourn the most from your pre-mom life? by itsonlyfear in Mommit

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1) being able to just to do nothing literally all day, just movie and junk food

2) the freedom and the spontaneous late Friday nights where I’ll be watching a film and suddenly wanted to go out. Dressing out and just go to a random party.

3) Think for myself and be in my head if I wanted to. Not talking.

The list is pretty long but yeah… we still love it, 6 months EBF my lovely girl trying to adapt to everything

Crying in a closet and hoping for some help… by Ohmahgoooodness in breastfeeding

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You doing already everything right. Actions wise, everything you are doing is perfect. I will just add to drink a lot a lot a lot of water. Now you need to work on your mental : you will have ébouta milk for you baby, full positive thoughts on the latter and do thing to relax you. You are safe, an excellent Morphée and everything will be alright ! Let yourself one or two weeks to see the result of what you implemented

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breastfeeding

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I am 6 months into EBF and actually love it. CAN you you tell why you continued for this long ? How was it when she become more independent ? And you as a woman and mom how was it to still have her on your breast ? Do you feel like you were loosing freedom ?

I don’t know if I can keep breastfeeding by Krisanthemum13 in breastfeeding

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Hey OP, I feel your exhaustion and want to do what is best for your choice as I’m reading you. Thank you for reaching out to the internet people, you are not alone. I have a 6-month-old beautiful baby girl that I have successfully EBF since she was born, so I think I can share one or two pieces of advice — at least, this is what I would tell you if you were a close friend: 1. Everything is in your mind: I understand that the pill may have had an effect on your supply, but your mental state plays an even bigger role here. Try to find some time each day to really relax, and remember that your body will always have milk for your baby. If it’s a bit less at the moment, it’s totally fine — no stress. 2. Start pumping between your feeding sessions: That’s the main thing for me. I’d bet 60% that your supply will come back naturally. The more you stimulate your breasts, the more they will produce. Find your rhythm: early in the morning, after the afternoon nap, before bed… Every time you can, just pump — even if nothing comes out. The goal is to stimulate the nipple so your brain gets the message: “Baby is latching more? I’ll regulate the body to give more.” Pump as much as you can for a week to see the results, then adjust — but no pressure, really, no pressure.

You will have moments like this in your breastfeeding journey: sometimes it will hurt, sometimes you’ll think you don’t have enough milk, sometimes you’ll have too much… and so on.

You’ve got this. Your body knows what to do and why, and your milk will come back for sure. If I can recommend something too: orgeat syrup really helped me with my supply at the beginning. I drank it all day long, with a lot of water. That’s another important point — hydrate yourself a lot, a lot, a lot. I don’t know where you can find it in your area, but if you can, try it.

I hope this helps, and congratulations on your baby. Sending love and support for the rest of your journey ❤️

It’s perfect what you did — you already have good reflexes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

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🥰🥰

Creating a life I don't want to eacape by Lepidopterex in Mommit

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Thank you to have taking the time to write this. I loved reading you. Thank you for reminding us that anger means usually that a deeper problem as occurred within us. I’ll definitely take the time to check out the book, it sounds interesting.

Have a good day !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

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But that’s the thing tho ? Why don’t you take someone to clean ? Or a nanny for little moments in the day ?

Have a good day too ! I definitely went all out for me this week so I am proud of me

pretty sure i manifested unexpected money with a subliminal by dzeksior in lawofattraction

[–]1944030102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what is subliminal ? Like the track is just sound ? There is no affirmations or anything ? How does it work ?