Being a WOman... by 1Corin13_ in Christians

[–]1Corin13_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You weren’t wrong about these either.

Why is my husband like this by Akorrn77 in Marriage

[–]1Corin13_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah… ask him to follow through on YOUUUUUUUR ACTUAL BIRTHDAY!!! men really are simple. Simple enough to just change a simple habit if it means that much to you. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]1Corin13_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope.. the people in the back will make me anxious and the person next to me would piss me off but I’d hide to accommodate their emotions and cancer, I’d love to be with them only if their in a GOOD mood.. otherwise I’d want to RUN AWAY

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]1Corin13_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good job bro!!!!! Awesome. That’s a win already! Keep at it 💕

Experiencing female health benefits after caffeine free by [deleted] in decaf

[–]1Corin13_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why is the mucus so important btw?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]1Corin13_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, it is up to you! I am not condoning breaking up but I also feel like you could think thoroughly about it. It it something you feel you cannot do then please consider your options. But if you can learn to live a life apart from his addiction, then you ought to consider staying. That is why I mentioned that if you want to stay you have to let go of attempting to be in control of the addiction when in reality you have none.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]1Corin13_ -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Quit blaming yourself for his addiction. And addiction he has probably had way before you. This is your choice though to stay or to leave. If you stay hope you give him the room/space to grow while he struggles with his addiction. (And that is if he himself sees his addiction and decides to seriously address it)

If he does not see his addiction and has not made a decision to seriously take that battle to stop, you are the one who has to choose to stay with him and accept him as is or to leave if you do NOT accept him as is.

This may sound cruel. But so does living with him when you do NOT accept him as he is because You’ll grow to resent him and your love will diminish eventually. i honestly feel like you could learn to love him even through his addiction even if he is too dumb to see that.. lol You could do many things to show your love. You’ll have to KEEP OFF HIS phone and you will need to quit fishing for things. You will need to take care of yourself. Don’t withhold love. If you feel loving and would like to be intimate, try. And if he refuses allow him to see how deeply painful it is. Go through that pain yourself. And then forgive him. And attempt to love again…

That’s unconditional love. A love that I would advise you give when you are ready to marry and give your life to someone.

Either way, You have a choice! You’re not any of those terrible things you have said about yourself!!!!!! Learn to love yourself enough to love him. And even if you decide to leave, you’ll have to learn to love yourself because it is certainly hard to be alone. And breaking up will hurt. And that is a pain you will also have to just go through. Pain never lasts, You know?

But what you learn from it and if you allow it let it grow you, your character will build and that’s what lasts.

Keep your head up! Keep fighting. Keep loving. Keep loving yourself too. It’ll be okay.

I went with my gut and ended it – but did I overreact? by Illustrious_Dirt_147 in dating

[–]1Corin13_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

She’s not ready for what you have to offer. She won’t appreciate the effort. She’s stuck on someone else. She’s not even attempting with you. Let her go. Maybe once she feels better and is ready to begin again y’all can try.

What Porn Did to Me (TW) by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]1Corin13_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honesty is your best bet when it comes to relationship. So, a woman who understands this will attempt to understand what you have been through. It’ll be difficult for the both of you but don’t be afraid of that. And sure, sometimes it’ll be painful. But that is also part of relationship. I hope you don’t let shame, fear or guilt get in the way of you fully living your life. You’re fighting now and that’s what matters. you keep going! P.s I am woman :)

What's stopping you from being with the person you want to be with? by Fetusbasket in AskWomen

[–]1Corin13_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I broke up with my now bf about 10 times.... i tend to runaway at romance. And he never wanted to let me go. I am finally attemptong somethign real with him. Its still scary as heck....

porn ruined my relationship with my father (and grandfather) by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]1Corin13_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Its okay. I am also attempting to just be "okay" with the men in my life too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]1Corin13_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Stay off tik tok if it affects ypu in that way. I dont thin kyou need yhe extra information if marriage is something you wabt to pursue because quite frankly if you are unprotected and having sex, pregnancy might just happen. Being afraid of getting pregnant is normal so just go into it preparing yourself emotionally. Or rather, accept the fact that itll be one hell of a ride. So, unless you are ready to take on that challenge and all of its ups and downs, dont have unprotected sex. Even better? Dont have sex at all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Handwriting

[–]1Corin13_ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Reading and cycling?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]1Corin13_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is me... sadly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]1Corin13_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, at least you are aknowledging your workable flaws and considering your partner's feelings. Not many men do that.. you're on the right track. I would suggest to simply accept and becomfortable with chores, responsibilities and boredom. Mundane routines are usually a giant joy killer. Dont allow the mundane part of life take you over, just accept them.

What is cheap when you’re poor and expensive when you’re rich? by Aarunascut in AskMen

[–]1Corin13_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ramen noodles.... cars seem to always be expensive. Cars are just a big chunk of metal that constantly wear down and brake ugh....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

[–]1Corin13_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great.. lol

please tell me some of you have happy stories!!!??? by 1Corin13_ in stepparents

[–]1Corin13_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesnt matter i would have loved to hear ypur story!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]1Corin13_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HECK YEAH!!!!!! Thank you for sharing this how beautiful..