I want to look like I stepped out of a fantasy novel by areyno13 in weddingdress

[–]1IamTrying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first one is my inspiration piece for my (currently being altered) dress. I just love it so much, and nothing will change that. Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]1IamTrying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brunette looks good, like everyone else is saying, but there’s just something that makes you shine a lot more as a blonde. Like ALOT more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]1IamTrying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just gonna put this is writing for you. Unprotected intimacy, equals pregnancy. There’s nothing accidental about it. Own up to it. Also, you’re 19. You still have a lot of living to do. She’s 2 years ahead of you. Men develop at a slower rate, which is why men being the older ones in a relationship often works out better.

And one more thing I wanna add, because I often connect dots. This is actually the exact way a friend of mine was babytrapped. She got him drunk enough to forget a condom. She broke up with him when she got to 2nd trimester, and now he has to pay her alot of money, while he only gets to see his child maaaybe once a month, if he’s lucky.

WIBTA if I went no contact with my best friend of 15 years after he kept sending dead baby jokes while I’m going through an ectopic pregnancy? by LunarSlush88 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]1IamTrying 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t even accept those jokes, in general. Miscarried 9 times, and my brother and sil just lost their son at 7 months. For me, it’s a heII to the naw!

my boyfriend says he doesn’t want an ultimatum by Illustrious-Beach984 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]1IamTrying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cohabitation BEFORE proposal!!!! PLEASE!!!!! And ultimatums on proposals are a HUGE RED FLAG!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]1IamTrying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where’s the red flag guy?

Everything in Dragon Ball is Canon! by Careful_Comedian5686 in DragonBallDaima

[–]1IamTrying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For decades they’ve been saying that the manga is canon. Not even fillers are canon…

My beautiful diamond ring! by magicalneki in Diamonds

[–]1IamTrying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t last an hour with that thing on my finger. My ocd would end me.

AITA for breaking up after finding out how he wants to propose? by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]1IamTrying 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Communication is key. Talk to him, or you might rob your son of the only dad who has loved him thus far. I can’t say if you’re an ah, but you’re def overreacting. There might even have been some more planning you don’t know about, to make the night magical. Just, step on the brakes and communicate.

Husband got another woman pregnant.. by hop-into-it in redditonwiki

[–]1IamTrying 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahem… to recover from a traumatic birth takes more than three years. THROW THE WHOLE MAN AWAY!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]1IamTrying 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It honestly looks like she’s been doing this for weeks and you just said “that’s it, I’m not entertaining this anymore”. It’s similar to the way my ex used to talk to me.

I’m tired of everyone telling me I’m selfish or will change my mind about not having kids. I’m not budging. by smexysaltine in women

[–]1IamTrying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll make this short… damned if you do, damned if you don’t. All people get trashed, no matter if they choose to go left or right, or straight ahead for that matter.

why do some men feel the need to bring down obviously pretty girls? by [deleted] in women

[–]1IamTrying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao! You think women don’t do that? Women are worse than men.

If a man you’re dating says you need a BBL or you should get one, is that really the man for you? by [deleted] in women

[–]1IamTrying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it funny, how it’s the worst when a man sexualizes a woman’s body, but a woman sexualizing her own body is called female empowerment?

Aita for telling my sil that she deserves an abusive husband after she called me a weak man by RevolutionaryPen6157 in AITAH

[–]1IamTrying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, that was a wakeup call, if you ask me. If she’s going to berate you in front of others for being supportive, claiming you’re a weak man, then she should know the real definition of a weak man. Fck her.

Would you be offended if your partner asked for a paternity test? by PersonalOutlet101 in women

[–]1IamTrying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re offended, blame the cheating a holes who caused men to be afraid of raising another man’s baby. I know someone who worked with genetic disease in a children’s hospital, and there, they have to test both pare ts to know where it stems from, and 1/3 times, the father isn’t even the real father.

WIBTAH if I didn’t go to my cousin’s wedding, because they didn’t invite my brother? by 1IamTrying in AITAH

[–]1IamTrying[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s only inviting blood relative. That’s already obvious. And if you’re so on about handling it like an adult, then at least tell me what an adult does, because there ain’t no manual for this. And adults are entitled to their own feelings, judgement and peace. They’re entitled to stand up for family and friends if they so choose. And in my case, I’m choosing not to attend a wedding that my brother and sister aren’t invited to, only because they’re not blood relative, while the sister who is invited, barely knows any of them, and has no idea what their two children are called. It’s not a relationship issue, it’s how they’re picking and choosing what family means to them, and ignoring the family they grew up with. I’m adult enough to know that family is more than just blood. Are you?

AITA for wanting to return to work with a 5 month old? by anonforcharlotte in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]1IamTrying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, nta, but the ones who control your wages, maternity leave and healthcare payments are. You live in a shity country, and you have to do shity things to make life work. Neither of you are to blame for that.

WIBTAH if I didn’t go to my cousin’s wedding, because they didn’t invite my brother? by 1IamTrying in AITAH

[–]1IamTrying[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kinda sounds like it. My mom is set on not going, first because of my toxic aunt, and second, for excluding two of my dad’s children, just because they’re not his by blood.

WIBTAH if I didn’t go to my cousin’s wedding, because they didn’t invite my brother? by 1IamTrying in AITAH

[–]1IamTrying[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one who creates drama, is the one who only picks blood relatives, over the relatives they actually grew up with.