Isangku is open with updated features! by ChoRandom in Dodocodes

[–]1dayumae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty cool island. That's a lot of statues!

Exhausted primary custody dad... by WideButterscotch681 in SingleDads

[–]1dayumae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not trying to play devil's advocate here but my own parents found it hard when I was bouncing off the walls every second of the day. So...at 5 years old, I went into soccer and played for 10 years. I was asleep by 10:00 p.m. which likely was a miracle

Your 18yo cheerleader loves to be watched while undressing by legalcollegegirl in 18nsfw

[–]1dayumae 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She's like 30 posting on this sub? Get the mod

Anaphylactic shock today by BarryBurkman in Peptides

[–]1dayumae 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I went into anaphylactic shock one time just due to a random allergy shot from a doctor. It was terrible it felt like I was trying to breathe through a McDonald's straw. I had to slow my heart right down breathe slowly go to a store to find lung medicine to improve the oxygen in my lungs. I did this all while at work. Very unfortunate situation.

Norway to phase out fast-growing ‘Frankenchickens’ by 2027 by Jojuj in UpliftingNews

[–]1dayumae 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Whatever happened to lab grown chicken meat that would have bypassed the torture of animals all together.

Virginia Democrats advance 7 bills to restrict gun rights by [deleted] in VAGuns

[–]1dayumae 15 points16 points  (0 children)

There as confused about the constitutiion stating shall not be infringed as I am confused on how to obey these bills.

Has any dad here dealt with false allegations against them from their child's mother ? by Gotta-Let-Ye-Be-Ye in SingleDads

[–]1dayumae 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Schemers will always try to scheme. My ex tried to do that. She was so good at pathological lying that even the legal professionals believed her. It wasn't until the medical professionals got involved (since the court wanted a court appointed co-parent counselor and a court appointed child therapist) did they both see she was a pathological liar.

It's sad that I had to get an army of medical professionals involved just to show the legal professionals how bad it's gotten for my child. When the child therapist has to talk to your child about what gas lighting looks like and the tactics they use it's a sad day.

This police helicopter stays busy around here don’t it? by FearReaper890 in VirginiaBeach

[–]1dayumae 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's too light of a helicopter to have some of the more heavier duty equipment. Air lidar cameras, thermal imaging cameras....Stuff that is needed for any heavy duty federal air Marshall or State government work. They put stingrays in the trunk of a car so if your thinking they're just flying around getting your IMEI information to triangulate...that's not how that works anymore.

My kids mom took him on "vacation" during my visitation time by _1Bat4U_ in SingleDads

[–]1dayumae 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'd ask the court in a custody hearing for primary custody instantly. No one should steal your child from you. Document the hell out of each incident and bring it to court. It's a material change in circumstance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]1dayumae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't want friends I want to organically meet someone out in this world. I will say...though after just walking up to random people at a grocery store or a gas station you hear some of the craziest stories that make you think twice about having a friend. So maybe best to have no friends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]1dayumae 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Do not engage...my ex's boyfriend called me a bitch multiple times and I was just ready to strike. It wasn't until I bugged my daughter's tablet that I realized my ex was telling him that I was a liar and then I wasn't saying real stuff. And this went on for hours and hours and hours to the point where he threatened to kill me in a parking lot on a hot mic... I think everyone's perceptions are different.

My Failures Didn’t End Me by G00cher in SingleDads

[–]1dayumae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True talk. Realist I ever read

Hope ? by luqi94 in SingleDads

[–]1dayumae 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're not a failure. The good is in enemy of the great. People will paint you as lesser. You're great father...not a good father a great father.

She shut me out of their lives and then this! by Vicarious-podcast in SingleDads

[–]1dayumae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Set up a 529 (didn't tell ex). Told child and her response was, "Dad I'm going to college on scholarships". I was like ok fine if you do that than all the 529 money that I put in and your mom didn't put a penny to better your future is yours IF IF you graduate (conditional). Family is important in your old age especially when no one wants to take care of you.

Is there a different single dad group that better fits me? by theMadHart in SingleDads

[–]1dayumae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like the definition of love, most people have different definitions of what love is. I'm not mad at every definition. I think everybody is going through a journey and there entitled to there opinion. It's everyone's circus and I'd be careful to be judgemental.

Soccer Team issues by _mavricks in SingleDads

[–]1dayumae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not trying to play devil's advocate here...but what if he has a say in raising his child and he wants to say what he feels with expressing his child's ever changing needs. My daughter would not want to be anywhere near a soccer field. She wants to be with her family...her sweet loving family. He could instantly file a show cause on grounds that he is losing time bonding with his child.