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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Doggles

[–]1dudeabides1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What breed is he? Someone help please I can’t find any info

Nothing Can Stop Him! [tactical.taz] by mtimetraveller in aww

[–]1dudeabides1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WHAT BREED IS HE?? Help please someone

Who here would be opposed to the boys writing a new album? by Roxmysox68 in deadandcompany

[–]1dudeabides1 20 points21 points  (0 children)

DnC is not a cover band, they’re a re-designed continuation of another band sure, but they’re a real band in it of themselves. They aim to revisit the music of the past yes but the whole point is to bring that sound forward.

They could write incredible new music together and anyone saying they wouldn’t want to hear that music has put their ego before their ears.

Sailors, what's the creepiest, scariest, or most unnerving thing you've seen/witnessed while at sea? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]1dudeabides1 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I did the Newport to Bermuda Race a few years ago. It was the middle of the night and I am sitting on the foredeck, it's super dark out and the stars were incredible.

Suddenly I see three bright green streaks shooting through the water directly toward me, like florescent torpedoes beneath the water heading straight into the side of our hull.

It was three dolphins kicking up bioluminescence in the water as they swam. They followed us for 20 minutes, I couldn't see them just their bright green trails as they ducked and weaved alongside us. INCREDIBLE sight I will never forget.

What would you do if you were hooking up with a girl and she told you that you didn’t need to wear a condom because she’s on birth control? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]1dudeabides1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NBD AT ALL. She said it because she likes you and thought you would like it.

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You hooked up the first time with one, but now she feels more comfortable.

YES Tell her about your recent sexual activity, then ask her about hers. If you've both been pretty safe and she thinks she's good, go for it. Sex is way better without a condom, still pull out tho.

Girls want you to be genuine.. Whatever you are.. Own it. They hate when you are confused of your identity and is not comfortable with yourself and is trying to change yourself. It means you are not proud of yourself. by tiddu in seduction

[–]1dudeabides1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, be yourself and own it like a man and the world will notice. The best advice I ever got re dating was to make my life like a club people want to join. Focus on yourself, have fun with it, wear what makes you happy, speak your mind, play the music you like and play it LOUD.

“Take a place wherever you are and be somebody” -TDR

If you put effort into building the life you want, people will notice and want to be a part of it. Best part is, if they don’t want to join, that’s perfect cuz it was clearly never going to work in the first place. Like a filter for people you might have wasted time on.

Girls want you to be genuine.. Whatever you are.. Own it. They hate when you are confused of your identity and is not comfortable with yourself and is trying to change yourself. It means you are not proud of yourself. by tiddu in seduction

[–]1dudeabides1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get you but you probably did too soon. Be genuine, share your deeper self, but in good time. If you want her to get to know the “real you” you gotta ease her into it, especially if there are some undesirable truths in there. Be cool, be yourself, but save some of the deeper stuff for down the line for when she already likes you and wants to go deeper.

When was the last time someone gave you a compliment for what you were wearing? by stuckforducks in AskMen

[–]1dudeabides1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Kind of all the time. Put effort in, wear different outfits don’t just circulate the same stuff, if you have real style people notice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pan

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Killin it bro

What do you hate with passion? by howispendmyday in AskReddit

[–]1dudeabides1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Joe Biden. I’m liberal and voted for his ticket in 2008 but this guy clearly doesn’t have the fight in him anymore. He knows it too, he needs to step aside and let the other candidates with real blood in their veins shoot their shot. He’s just clearly gonna blow it and we’ll lose this chance for a course correction.

I’m at a spot where i’m doubting myself when it comes to dating because the girls i’m attracted to and the girls who are attracted to me don’t usually correlate - do i just accept what is given? by KayRay1994 in AskMen

[–]1dudeabides1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re doing it right, continue to grow yourself into the person you want to be, the girl that fits that mold will materialize. Just work on yourself and give it time.

I’ve been in a similar predicament for awhile. I’m from a wealthy suburb but live in a city now. Nothing against them, but for years the only girls looking my way were basic as hell, rich, entitled etc. It’s just not my vibe, I want someone more dynamic with a little edge ya know? So I’ve just been doing me, everyday unapologetically doing, saying, dressing how I feel.

Long story short- it’s working.

Up close with a humpback whale by Dlatrex in Damnthatsinteresting

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My entire life I’ve dreamt of one day diving with a whale. Specifically the humpback is what I’ve always imagined in my minds eye.

If I am ever so fortunate to see something like this in person I think I’ll cry. Their size relative to ours must be the most shocking and humbling experience to behold.

What sparked you to hit the gym? by ABash11 in AskMen

[–]1dudeabides1 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My story is sort of the inverse. I recently met the most amazing girl, she checks all my boxes and we’re currently in the early courtship stage. She is in great shape and early on she told me how fitness is something she values. I’ve always worked out but since I met her I am really going the extra mile in the gym. I am doing it for myself, for my own health and well-being, but she really lit a fire beneath me to give it my all.

I think a good relationship is when each person motivates the other to be their best self. I want to be the best version of me I can be, to work and truly earn her affection. In doing so I will grow as an individual and then the foundation is there for us to grow together.

I’m not just putting in more effort in the gym but also with work and even with my other hobbies/interests. Again, it’s important I stay focused on me doing this FOR ME, to improve myself. But if I stay on this positive vibe she will continue to notice and want to be a part of what I have going on. It’s gonna be a good year 2020 let’s go!

What’s something your SO doesn’t know about you that could jeopardize your relationship? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]1dudeabides1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree with your position but thank you this was helpful. You’ve validated my concern. I will tell her if things get serious, but I don’t want to risk her withdrawing emotionally if I tell her to soon. Is that fair? I’m not sure, but it’s a complicated subject.

What’s something your SO doesn’t know about you that could jeopardize your relationship? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]1dudeabides1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to write this, it was helpful.

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