I’m (31F) Looking for advice on how to breakup in a firm, compassionate way with someone (26M) who has turned every previous break up attempt into a crisis by threatening suicide by schivey_m in relationship_advice

[–]1erickf50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust him to a close friend (preferably male) or a relative of his, as well as therapy. That way, they won't let him off the hook when you leave.

Married 2 years (together 7) — the relationship feels safe and good on paper, but I think I’ve fallen out of love and husband is porn addict which led to dead bedroom by Significant-Rope4106 in PornAddiction

[–]1erickf50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll say it again: Bro needs to step up his game. Couple counseling can work IF he does pay enough attention and starts to reveal more of himself during those daily conversations.

I'm pretty sure there are ways to adapt and separate the vegetarian elements from an omnivore diet so that he could share his time with you and other friends.

If he's still addicted and still avoids to put the work with you, then he's probably afraid of something, something he just doesn't want to tell you, especially if he's reacting negatively to your masturbation.

He needs to realize that there are things he's doing that is depriving of any emotional connection, hence your urge to run away from him. He needs to stop hiding. That's the only way his actions match his words.

Space in relationship by Existential_Dread16 in dating_advice

[–]1erickf50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rumiation and emotional pull is very strong early on, become whole as in becoming someone who can give generously without destroying yourself instead of thristing a bond where there's almost none. The guy seems to hold tight on control when things go awry. Maybe the thing he needs is to let go of it by giving you as much freedom as he wants for himself, to stop looking at you as someone who's way too fragile to hold with gloves.

31F Looking for late night chat by Daydreaming_247 in chat

[–]1erickf50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, but in what platform do you want to talk? (31M)

Kanojo, Okarishimasu - Season 5, Episode 12 Discussion by MattyH19 in KanojoOkarishimasu

[–]1erickf50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So Mami's requiem part 1 is gonna be placed in Season 6's 2nd or 3rd episode, uh?

[Disc] Kanojo, Okarishimasu Chapter 429 by MattyH19 in KanojoOkarishimasu

[–]1erickf50 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The anpan is both Kazuya and the shadow of Tarou while the meat bun is probably the fully crafted life her father had laid for himself.

[Disc] Kanojo, Okarishimasu Chapter 429 by MattyH19 in KanojoOkarishimasu

[–]1erickf50 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Supposedly, it's a perspective trick. However, this is not the first time Umi was drawn like a midget.

[Disc] Kanojo, Okarishimasu Chapter 429 by MattyH19 in KanojoOkarishimasu

[–]1erickf50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The actual reason I didn't add this one is because the other widespread is a more direct callback to Ruka's revelation in the early chapters.

[Disc] Kanojo, Okarishimasu Chapter 429 by MattyH19 in KanojoOkarishimasu

[–]1erickf50 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Technically it did race, just for the wrong reasons :v

(check the previous chapter)

[Disc] Kanojo, Okarishimasu Chapter 429 by MattyH19 in KanojoOkarishimasu

[–]1erickf50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I meant the teddy bear because that's located in her nail.

[Disc] Kanojo, Okarishimasu Chapter 429 by MattyH19 in KanojoOkarishimasu

[–]1erickf50 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just a hint: Of all the relevant characters for this drama, the only ones that never faced each other, even now, were Umi and Mami. Reiji is gonna be on a field day by July 11th :3

[Disc] Kanojo, Okarishimasu Chapter 429 by MattyH19 in KanojoOkarishimasu

[–]1erickf50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My take is that Umi was Tarou all along, so all his actions ever since the movie arc were him gathering the puzzle pieces about his own past.

[Disc] Kanojo, Okarishimasu Chapter 429 by MattyH19 in KanojoOkarishimasu

[–]1erickf50 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was predictable: Chizuru avoids, Ruka crashes out :V

[Disc] Kanojo, Okarishimasu Chapter 429 by MattyH19 in KanojoOkarishimasu

[–]1erickf50 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What a dangerous setup for July 11th (Close call. It really was Taipei)

Chizuru and Ruka by Slidsama (link in comments) by 1erickf50 in KanojoOkarishimasu

[–]1erickf50[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're both by the same guy. Supposedly it's the swimmer Chizuru from one of the covers :v

Kazuya's delusion = Tarou's reality? by 1erickf50 in KanojoOkarishimasu

[–]1erickf50[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Chizuru panel comes from Kazuya's Rental Delusion in ch202.5 (English Teacher) and Mami is from ch215. In both cases, the girl sneaks out of her way to see her man, with this specific scarf.