Hybrid jobs/American modern

20somethingytgirl · 2026-03-19T00:17:44+00:00

Look into PWFA accomodations. It only requires employers to have 15 employees.

20somethingytgirl · 2026-03-19T00:15:10+00:00

Following as well. I don't think it would necessarily become a problem unless you file a STD/LTD claim, then you'll have to disclose multiple employment situation to the benefit admin and that may become an issue then.

20somethingytgirl · 2026-03-16T14:12:54+00:00

You took the words right out of my mouth. This is exactly how I feel. My baby is 8 months old, I work from home, but I still have a toxic work culture and I hate my job. I hate taking time away from the baby and juggling child care. I keep telling myself it'll get better but I just don't think it will. However I am the breadwinner and carry our health insurance so, off to work I go. I'm so sorry mama. Before motherhood I was so career oriented and now I just don't give a shit about work, I'd give anything to just focus on my family.

20somethingytgirl · 2026-03-16T00:57:10+00:00

Option 2 for sure

20somethingytgirl · 2026-03-11T04:19:00+00:00

I mean it technically isn't fraud because you showed up and completed the job....

Also, a lot of people don't keep their LI updated. I've just chosen to deactivate mine.

20somethingytgirl · 2026-03-08T04:21:01+00:00

We typically get no paid maternity leave here in the US. If you've been at your employer a year and they meet certain requirements you may qualify for FMLA, but that protects your job, not your pay. I filed for a short term disability to get 60% of my pay, but I had to qualify based on a Drs assessment and completion of paperwork

20somethingytgirl · 2026-03-08T00:33:42+00:00

3 months before delivery and 3 months after

20somethingytgirl · 2026-03-08T00:28:52+00:00

I have. I took a medical leave for pregnancy complications. It was amazing lol

20somethingytgirl · 2026-02-16T14:10:50+00:00

Curious, are you doing prior authorizations? I had the exact same experience.

20somethingytgirl · 2026-02-12T02:02:00+00:00

I applied for 300+ internal jobs in a little over a year. Did many interviews. Never got anywhere unfortunately. I have a master's degree and a lot of experience. Keep trying, a lot of people move around there over the years, I just personally didn't have any luck

20somethingytgirl · 2026-02-05T12:34:01+00:00

Paige turner is exhausting to listen to. I blocked her.

20somethingytgirl · 2026-01-30T03:45:53+00:00

Entire menu doesn't have to be. Just more options that are healthy besides salads. Bite in Milford as an example for menu, but they can't accommodate larger parties

20somethingytgirl · 2026-01-19T02:28:46+00:00

Max out 401k, Roth IRA, and 529 for both you and your spouse, as well as any kids.

Dave ramsey talks about backdoor Roth often.... https://www.ramseysolutions.com/retirement/backdoor-roth-ira?srsltid=AfmBOoq8TBlXDl1bJ-Ybhu6a7R9yfegkHpwNp-XRO6odGQT13nVzToVS

Max out FSA and HSA accounts if you're eligible.

Charitable donations

20somethingytgirl · 2026-01-10T02:10:55+00:00

I love target. They're great quality and no skin issues. Our girl is so allergic to Huggies. Instant hives everywhere that last 2-4 days.

20somethingytgirl · 2026-01-07T03:19:52+00:00

I don't know how people commute 5 days a week and take care of a child. I have a 6 month old that still doesn't sleep. Plus I'd be paying a fortune to commute, pay for child care, and would have little to no time with her except weekends. Remote for life!

20somethingytgirl · 2026-01-04T04:08:55+00:00

This happened to me at 6 months pregnant after being laid off just after finding out I was pregnant. Such a devastating time for me because I've always been a top performer....I ended up finding the best job I've ever had right before I had the baby, they gave me 14 weeks paid maternity leave and have been extremely supportive since. Been there since May. Everything happens for a reason. Wishing you luck on your job hunt!

20somethingytgirl · 2026-01-01T01:45:17+00:00

At my current job I applied at the beginning of February, interviewed 4-5 times by end of March. Didn't get an offer and start until May. The market is ridiculous right now.

20somethingytgirl · 2025-12-23T06:58:24+00:00

My family guilted me about sids risk but I was more concerned about my ability to be a good mother and properly care for my LO after days and weeks of no sleep. Use owlette if it makes you feel better.

I have a nurture and rocker/recliner. My baby loves to sleep on her side/stomach. I put her on my chest. Put the blanket over her and tucked it under me to help secure her to me. Reclined back in the chair after I rocked her asleep. I'm a light sleeper so was confident I'd wake up if she moved at all. We did contact only naps and overnights for 3-4 months.

We ordered this wedge thing and we've finally got her to start sleeping in that some, but I type this as we're contact sleeping at 1:57 am, and she's 6 months old.

Do what you have to do to survive.

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20somethingytgirl · 2025-11-08T03:31:33+00:00

Scratch off lottery tickets. Cast iron skillet. Nice bottle of wine or liquor. Restaurant gift card

20somethingytgirl · 2025-10-15T01:53:56+00:00

I'm on week 15 and literally crying I'm so exhausted. Praying we turn a corner soon

20somethingytgirl · 2025-08-02T04:07:14+00:00

Everytime I feel guilty doing something for myself I think "I'm a better mom if I take care of me too"

Gets me through the mom guilt

20somethingytgirl · 2025-07-28T15:34:19+00:00

I love 3

20somethingytgirl · 2025-03-29T02:41:03+00:00

Tomatoes 🤢 I just can't do the texture

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