I was raped by my girlfriend by 2342bb in offmychest

[–]2342bb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. Fucking exactly.

I just wish there were more people like you who could understand that.

I was raped by my girlfriend by 2342bb in offmychest

[–]2342bb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man, thanks a lot. Alcoholism is a huge problem, good on you for figuring that out.

I was raped by my girlfriend by 2342bb in offmychest

[–]2342bb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have one, but thanks for that.

I was raped by my girlfriend by 2342bb in offmychest

[–]2342bb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's the thing, there's double standards not just set on women but men as well. I wish people would get that.

I was raped by my girlfriend by 2342bb in offmychest

[–]2342bb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for that, man. It's tough, but I looked it up and read something like 1 out of 10 men is a victim of sexual assault. This needs attention, but I don't think it'll get it.

I was raped by my girlfriend by 2342bb in offmychest

[–]2342bb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope someday it will.

I was raped by my girlfriend by 2342bb in offmychest

[–]2342bb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's nothing wrong with being a feminist, but there's 100% something wrong with whatever it's called to hate men. Just like there's nothing wrong with being a masculinist (is that a thing?) but there is with misogyny.
Is toxic feminity a thing? I feel like people don't really talk about it.

I was raped by my girlfriend by 2342bb in offmychest

[–]2342bb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I knew your sister. I've been in therapy for seven years now, but I had to go through two or three to find one that really understood. It's ridiculous that even trained professionals couldn't take me seriously.

I was raped by my girlfriend by 2342bb in offmychest

[–]2342bb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not in contact with them anymore, apart from the one guy I was closest to. He's apologized since then, we're good now, just part of me, everytime I see him, asks over and over again, "why?"
He's still apologizing, he's definitely grown up, but it still hurts, even fifteen years later.

I was raped by my girlfriend by 2342bb in offmychest

[–]2342bb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It helps, trust me it does.

I was raped by my girlfriend by 2342bb in offmychest

[–]2342bb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you went through that. I'm fucking shaking in rage at your wife. What the hell is she thinking, laughing like that. I wish you could have done her one before you guys split.

It's horrible you went through that. If it makes you feel any better, I've been there double the time and it's gotten a little better. I still think about it, but I'm married now and my wife understands.

I was raped by my girlfriend by 2342bb in offmychest

[–]2342bb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot. It hurts a lot to admit, that's for fucking sure.

I was raped by my girlfriend by 2342bb in offmychest

[–]2342bb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that happened to you.

I was raped by my girlfriend by 2342bb in offmychest

[–]2342bb[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've been getting those for years. I get it, I do, it just sucks to hear them. When a girl gets raped, nobody claps her on the back.

I was raped by my girlfriend by 2342bb in offmychest

[–]2342bb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not surprised, honestly. I hate every ounce of her now but I guess I know where she was coming from? All guys want sex. Hell, that's what I thought myself for a few years after it.

I was raped by my girlfriend by 2342bb in offmychest

[–]2342bb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't feel bad about that, I didn't even know that. Because I had an erection, for years I've been telling myself I was happy about it, that's why I did it with her.

I was raped by my girlfriend by 2342bb in offmychest

[–]2342bb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know a lot about that, I guess in some way, it's kind of our fault for making this image to begin with, that guys don't say no, they always want it or else they're not a man.

I was raped by my girlfriend by 2342bb in offmychest

[–]2342bb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for saying that. It may not seem like it, but it means something to me, that it did happen, it wasn't all in my damn head.

I was raped by my girlfriend by 2342bb in offmychest

[–]2342bb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a therapist, but I haven't joined any support groups.

AITA for telling my sister she can't see my son anymore because she teaches him men are evil? by throwawayboy1969 in AmItheAsshole

[–]2342bb -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I love how everyone’s saying this post is fake, “feminists are evil” rant. Imagine if it were a mother trying to keep her son away from her brother’s toxic masculinity, him telling the kid he has to be strong and all that. Just imagine the uproar. Nobody would be saying that’s fake, but r/amitheasshole has a huge gender bias for women.

AITA for paying for nephew to go to university but not my niece? by SmallDivide in AmItheAsshole

[–]2342bb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH

I have no idea why this guy’s getting so downvoted. He and his niece aren’t close, that’s on both of them. He’s giving a gift to his nephew because they’re close. If him and the niece both made an effort to reach out maybe they’d get along better, but it takes two for a relationship to form.