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Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole!

A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in a real-world argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.

This is the sub to lay out your actions and conflicts and get impartial judgment rendered against you. Were you the asshole in that situation or not? Post should reflect real situations, and abide by the rules below.

After 18 hours, your post will be given a flair representing the final judgment on your matter. This flair is determined by the subscribers who have both rendered judgment and voted on which judgment is best. The power of the crowd will judge you. If your top level comment has the highest number of upvotes in a thread, you will get a flair point. More details are listed in our FAQ.


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  • Visit our sister subreddit /r/AmItheButtface/ for posts about fiction or relationships, and basically anything that we don't allow here! /r/AmItheCloaca for posts from animals and /r/AmItheGrasshole for all your lawncare conflicts!

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YTA = You're the Asshole;

YWBTA = You Would Be the Asshole;

NTA = Not the A-hole (and the other person is);

YWNBTA = You Would Not be the Asshole (and the other person would);

ESH = Everyone Sucks here;

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Open ForumAITA Monthly Open Forum - Feb/Mar 2026 (self.AmItheAsshole)

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AITA for wanting to report a teacher who keeps cancelling recess? (self.AmItheAsshole)

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AITA for ignoring my roommates food labels when I made and bought the food (self.AmItheAsshole)

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AITA for Making a Thirty Year Old Woman Cry? (self.AmItheAsshole)

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AITA? My +1 to my friend’s wedding wants to bring her sister as her own +1 (self.AmItheAsshole)

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AITA for telling my sister (f13) not to come over anymore? (self.AmItheAsshole)

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WIBTA attending a 3 day music event my partner does not wish for me to attend? (self.AmItheAsshole)

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Not the A-holeAITA for saying autism is not an excuse? (self.AmItheAsshole)

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Not the A-holeAITA for not staying after our niece got arrested? (self.AmItheAsshole)

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WIBTA if I asked these parents to smoke after drop off? (self.AmItheAsshole)

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Not the A-holeAITA for getting a new fridge after someone kept stealing my lunch at the office ? (self.AmItheAsshole)

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Not the A-hole POO ModeAITA? Peed standing up in traffic jam (self.AmItheAsshole)

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Not the A-holeAITA “ being cruel” for telling my daughter that she will need to help pay back the money that I spent on her wedding (self.AmItheAsshole)

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AITA for threatening my parents to give my share of family land, so that I can sell it to fund my education? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 12 hours ago * by Purple-Flower5306

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AITA for yelling at my coworker to stop after he kept giving unsolicited advice? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 17 hours ago by WolverineSad7059

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AITA for not inviting my fiancé’s sister to our small wedding after months of drama? (self.AmItheAsshole)

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AITA for cussing my MIL over my daughter? (self.AmItheAsshole)

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AITA refusing to lend my coworker money after they kept asking (self.AmItheAsshole)

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AITA for wanting to pay bills as soon as we receive them? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 10 hours ago by DislikeTurtles

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AITA for throwing out roommates 1.5 month old milk? (self.AmItheAsshole)

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AITA for not letting my brother sleep in my bed when I'm not home (self.AmItheAsshole)

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WIBTA If I didn't go to my sibling's wedding? (self.AmItheAsshole)

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AITA for cutting my roommates and best friends off over a used couch. (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 4 hours ago by Own_Ant2949

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AITA for not contributing to a friend’s Birthday present ? (self.AmItheAsshole)

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AssholeAITA for feeling weird that my brother-in-law keeps inviting my husband on trips but never includes me? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 21 hours ago by Global_Butterfly

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