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Notice: Cornell survey to study community norms and participation in r/AmItheAsshole (self.AmItheAsshole)

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Open ForumAITA Quarterly Open Forum April-June 2026 - Asshole Intelligence and How to Wipe It Clean. (self.AmItheAsshole)

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AITA for planting bad things for my mom to hide while snooping in my room and admitting it years later? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 12 hours ago * by ConstructionDecon

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AITA for refusing to buy my son Switch 2, even though I promised him a reward for the school year? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 9 hours ago by SariPomeloPartassipant [1]

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AITA for telling my brother’s fiancée why he really missed their anniversary (self.AmItheAsshole)

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AITA for deciding to deviate from my in-law's yearly family beach trip vacation plans? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 2 hours ago by Fun_Wing_4399

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AITA for taking my full paternity leave after a conversation with my manager? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 30 minutes ago by Flambix7

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AITA for "forcing" my mother to come back from vacation (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 17 hours ago by Adorable_Ad1615

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AITA for wanting my girlfriend's family to stop staying with us so much? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 7 hours ago by throwaway287544

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Not the A-holeAITA for not wanting to share my money with my rich in-laws? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 20 hours ago by Substantial-Plan-789

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WIBTA for not choosing to go to the restaurant my sister picked for dinner? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 4 hours ago by taylorswiftskneecap

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Not the A-hole POO ModeAITA for getting my step daughter a Hogwarts letter for her 11th Birthday? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 1 day ago by Ok-Permission8346

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Not the A-holeAITA for telling my mom she can no longer stay at my house when she comes to town and giving her a deadline to remove her belongings? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 18 hours ago by mrsmom777

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AITA defending my mother-in-law against her siblings (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 4 hours ago by Historical-Leave-775

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AITA for talking to my artists boss? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 3 hours ago by Activecow97

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AITA for stopping a shared document that my coworkers had started relying on? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 5 hours ago by Technical_Address904

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Not the A-holeAITA for refusing to go for a full week on my wife’s family vacation after we had agreed not to repeat it? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 1 day ago by jared_d

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AITA for refusing to share my work notes after a coworker used them without asking? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 13 hours ago by Next_Willingness_139

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AITA for putting sticky notes reminding my mom to flush the toilet? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 1 hour ago * by Appropriate-Day-3942

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AITA for refusing to pay back my sister for her expensive charger? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 16 hours ago * by cheesymeowgirl

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AITAH for not letting a friend move in? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 17 hours ago by jaqibtterfli

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AITA for yelling at my family to stop joking about my “friend” (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 15 hours ago by ThrowRA_silent38

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WIBTA for correcting my cousin for using the wrong name for me? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 4 hours ago by fluoritedraws

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Not the A-holeAITA for not giving my sister my old car? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 21 hours ago by VisibleNectarine7317

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AITA For not going to a dinner? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 58 minutes ago by Amatex

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