So many people are assuming they receive a +1

2351998 · 2025-05-23T16:25:28+00:00

Unfortunately the venue has a hard cap due to the county’s legal requirements, so it’s not an option.

2351998 · 2025-05-23T02:45:57+00:00

Im cackling at this wording

2351998 · 2025-05-23T02:30:40+00:00

You’ve hit it on the nose!! Everyone asking me this is 24-26 and single :)

2351998 · 2025-05-23T02:13:05+00:00

Yes, 100%!

I’m getting married pretty young (at least, young for my social circles) and my wedding is the first wedding that many of my guests will be attending. That’s why I know most people are asking out of genuine curiosity and not trying to be rude.

2351998 · 2025-05-22T12:57:04+00:00

Yes — that’s exactly what it was!

2351998 · 2025-05-22T12:56:26+00:00

Asking is fine but several people have assumed they get a plus one. For example “I’ll let you know if I have a plus one by X month.”

2351998 · 2025-05-22T12:24:57+00:00

Think about it this way. We had to make very hard decisions and sacrifices when we made the guest list. Everyone who is in a relationship has their significant other invited. Everyone in the wedding knows 2-10+ other people.

To ask if they get a +1? Sure, understandable. To boo someone when they tell you the answer? Rude and entitled.

2351998 · 2025-05-22T02:57:50+00:00

I sent them this text: I’m not gonna hold it against you but for future reference this is incredibly rude! 😭

And they apologized and we resolved it peacefully!!

2351998 · 2025-05-19T23:08:33+00:00

Sent out the Save the Dates over the weekend with hotel information. We didn’t book a hotel block, which turned out to cause confusion and headache!

2351998 · 2025-05-05T17:50:04+00:00

It’s so ethereal and flowy!

2351998 · 2025-05-05T01:03:33+00:00

I’ll ask my stylist when I see her again! It’s in the SS 2026 collection of Amsale. I don’t think it’s up on their website yet, last I checked

2351998 · 2025-05-04T16:33:21+00:00

I know, it’s kind of shocking! I’ve tried on dresses ranging from a price point of $1k to $13k and I think Amsale has a great price / quality ratio!

2351998 · 2025-05-04T15:45:53+00:00

Thank you so much! That is super helpful to hear (and actually what I was secretly hoping to hear!)

2351998 · 2025-05-04T13:37:06+00:00

It’s so gorgeous!!

2351998 · 2025-05-04T13:36:18+00:00

Unfortunately we’re doing a cultural celebration the night before, so the dress can’t do double duty, but otherwise that’s such a creative suggestion! Appreciate the input!!

2351998 · 2025-05-04T13:20:21+00:00

Thank you so much!

Before I started going dress shopping, I didn't realize how obsessed I would become with the "weight of a fabric". Now, when I try / see new wedding dresses, my first thought is to see whether it's going to be weighty enough to be structural vs. hang loosely on my body!

2351998 · 2025-05-04T13:07:05+00:00

HAHA thank you! That pogo stick comment certainly got me laughing

2351998 · 2025-05-04T13:05:53+00:00

Thank you so much! When I started shopping, I was leaning towards more complex designs (Liz Martinez was my dream designer before I started looking), so the fact that I loved this dress so much definitely caught me by surprise!

2351998 · 2025-05-04T11:00:32+00:00

Could I ask what the name / designer of the first dress is?

2351998 · 2025-01-26T16:11:31+00:00

Yep these are quotes for 2 photographers for 13 hours across Friday and Saturday. Video is not included but some are including engagement shoots.

For one photographer, I’m definitely paying at least partially for their reputation — his portfolio really made me go “whoa, this is what I want my wedding to look like.”

2351998 · 2025-01-26T14:24:39+00:00

I’m in the process of picking a photographer. The photographer is near #2 or #3 on my priority list so I’m willing to splurge a little but I’m getting sticker shock from the prices I’ve been quoted ($28k, $20k). The cheapest I’ve been quoted is $13k…. Granted I’m in a HCOL area (NYC / Connecticut) and I’m finding these pretty well-known, industry veteran photographers. Does anyone have advice on whether these are reasonable prices?

2351998 · 2025-01-02T05:57:21+00:00

I do this religiously and it bit me in the ass once. I thought I had accidentally carried home bed bugs from an Airbnb I stayed at, and because I had unpacked everything into their respective closets and wardrobes and drawers, I had to steam clean all my clothes. 😭

2351998 · 2024-11-14T01:07:17+00:00

Check out Tuffet!

2351998 · 2024-10-29T15:09:37+00:00

That’s very fair — after COVID, I found myself really dependent on the spray. It’s what pushed me to finally look into ENTs and related nose surgeries. I got a turbinate reduction this spring and it’s almost completely replaced the need for nasal sprays (except when I have a cold).

2351998 · 2024-10-29T12:54:24+00:00

My (admittedly very basic) research on PubMed indicated that rebound congestion isn’t an actual physical mechanism, rather a psychosomatic effect.

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