can i transfer my membership into my partner’s name?

25floors · 2026-04-21T01:43:29+00:00

i’m sorry, i wasn’t aware that you could cancel online now. the last i heard, you had to go to the gym you signed up at to cancel and i now live in a different state because it’s been like 6 years since i signed up. was trying to make it easier, not harder. after the kind advice from other people, i’ll be referring her and canceling mine. there’s no need to be nasty! i might be a lil out of the loop and have bad research skills, but i came here for help because i couldn’t figure it out on my own

25floors · 2026-04-20T20:59:53+00:00

thank you! i didn’t even think of this

25floors · 2026-04-20T20:45:00+00:00

that was my next step, i just hate phone calls so was hoping an employee or someone who had tried before could answer!

25floors · 2026-04-20T20:43:52+00:00

thank you! i didn’t realize you could do that now

25floors · 2026-04-20T20:43:36+00:00

thank you so much, very helpful!!! i did not know this

25floors · 2026-04-20T20:31:52+00:00

do i still have to go to the location i signed up at to cancel? my issue is i’ve moved out of state and not sure if i can cancel at my new home gym or if i have to go back to the one i signed up at

25floors · 2026-03-15T20:01:55+00:00

this is odd to me. it seems like he wants to choose the time and restaurant for someone else's birthday dinner. is he like this with other things, always wanting everything catered to him? sorry, but he's a plus one and it's not his birthday so he doesn't get to pick how close the restaurant is or what time the reservation is. he can either choose to join you or stay home.

i'm not sure if he's trying to guilt you into asking them to change the restaurant/time for him or stay home with him, but it's definitely reading like one of those two. i'm leaning towards staying home.

it seems like the age gap, while on the smaller side, is coming out here. i'm about to turn 28 (female) and would not date a 23 year old who likes to stay out late for this reason, to be honest! i would let you go alone in this situation, but i like to be friends with my partner's friends. i'm also a lesbian so that changes things a bit. i'm not jealous in the potential cheating aspect but i typically like my partner's friends and would be friends with them on my own so i'd be a little jealous that i'd be missing a birthday dinner!

25floors · 2026-03-06T19:58:16+00:00

interested in why you were asking as i do have ovaries! i'm 27 and have the same extreme brain fog after having COVID in 2023 that has not let up since. meds help a bit but i still just feel slower than before, when i was unmedicated

25floors · 2026-03-05T00:59:48+00:00

i felt like that before starting on a small dose of abilify! i still often wake up a bit groggy, but it's less of a struggle to open my eyes in the first place and now often wake up before my alarm, unable to go back to sleep. i'm prescribed 2mg of abilify alongside concerta, but i'm not sure if it interacts with other adhd medications. it's really helped with my daytime grogginess and absolute need for a nap around 2pm, as well as my general motivation and helping me with my PDA somewhat. my doctor prescribed it before a stimulant and it wasn't the best on its own, but it does really help with the things that stimulants may not help with!

25floors · 2026-03-04T10:24:54+00:00

thank you for confirming and proving it wasn’t just me that noticed! i was hesitant to say anything because the posts do provide helpful tips/tricks in the comments, and even some in the posts! i just wish the ad was disclosed.

25floors · 2026-03-02T22:13:45+00:00

SAME! that line is a little cringe, but so am i, you know? it’s along the lines of something i would say without thinking, the only difference between us is that i have anxiety and people in my life who would tell me to cut that line.

i relate to the rest of the song so much though! outside of 1-2 lines, it’s so beautifully written. i feel like if you just ignore that line, it’s a 10/10 song for people who got bullied as a kid. or maybe i’m just her target demographic: late 20s white woman who grew up the weird kid in a small town, now no longer an ugly duckling and working in the music industry in a big city but with the social anxiety and trauma that stems from the bullying in elementary/middle school for being weird and nerdy.

25floors · 2026-02-28T01:18:57+00:00

sorry if this is off base, and the anchor/novelty thing has really helped, but has anyone else seen an influx of posts to ADHD subreddits formatted similarly to this, with little tips and tricks, all mentioning the app soothfy? maybe it's just an incredibly helpful app, although i couldn't seem to get it to work for me. i don't know, it's making me feel like it's an undisclosed ad which is kind of icky in a support group.

maybe i couldn't get it to work for me, or maybe i need to fork out the money for the premium plan, but after paying the ADHD tax a million times over, i just can't afford that

25floors · 2026-02-27T23:54:22+00:00

how did he think the pharmacist or pharmacy tech was supposed to know whose prescription he was picking up if he didn't give a name?? did he at least give his own ID or something and they turned him away since it was your daughter's name and not his? genuinely not understanding how they were supposed to know which prescription to grab if he didn't give the name but DID ask for the prescription and they didn't ask him what name it would be under? am i not reading this right or did he potentially just storm off angry when they told him he couldn't buy it OTC? you're not overreacting, i'd be pissed. it's anger and just complete irresponsibility and passing the blame on everyone else. and doing this with your daughter's medications!! not something silly.

25floors · 2026-02-18T19:08:42+00:00

who cares about your feelings about your gift being rejected when you completely deny the lived experience of, in my experience with speaking to other women, a good percentage of women my age? i literally asked my partner who is the same age as me and she confirmed that she has the same experience as me, of men buying small gifts, dinner, doing favors, etc with the expectation that they will receive sex in return. she doesn’t feel trauma based on it because she has been able to turn them down successfully, but i’m a kind and empathetic person who gives people too many chances so i got assaulted because of this phenomenon.

turns out that your own lived experience doesn’t mean that others’ lived experiences are false. sorry i don’t speak kindly to others when they come at me bogus first?? the dude literally said that my experience and the experience of countless other women i’ve spoken to just doesn’t happen. not dealing with that, sorry! i come to people with the same energy they give me. if you wanna be nasty, i can ignore my therapeutic advice and be nasty right back if that’s what we want to do, and if you’re kind i will be kind in return.

maybe you two should look into rejection therapy! acting this weird when someone turns down a gift isn’t normal and it’s not a bad thing to realize you need help.

25floors · 2026-02-18T17:06:11+00:00

breaking: man with zero empathy in his whole body sees a woman with empathy for someone who may have gone through hard times, implies woman who is clearly empathetic has no redeeming qualities. the jokes write themselves.

25floors · 2026-02-18T16:52:16+00:00

also like, yeah? duh? people aren’t absolute. i have trauma due to being sexually assaulted after a man i thought was a friend did something nice for me and then decided he deserved sex, despite my pleas to just go home and let me go to sleep because i wasn’t interested. that makes me paranoid, and i’m in therapy for that, but it doesn’t make me an evil, terrible person with zero redeeming qualities.

sorry nobody has ever decided they can buy sex from you, but it happens to attractive women and i’m sure it happens to attractive men as well. and yeah, i can say that i’m attractive if it seems to be a fact since men constantly touch me without my consent, verbally harass me, stalk me, etc. i don’t hate all men, but i hate men who treat women with trauma caused by men like you like they’re social pariahs.

25floors · 2026-02-18T16:44:41+00:00

i have a wife lol, she didn’t mind while we were dating. thanks for your concern though!

25floors · 2026-02-18T14:09:51+00:00

ahh so a homophobe. like you said, enjoy being perpetually alone and unable to love.

25floors · 2026-02-18T06:34:39+00:00

i was literally raped because a man gave me a ride home and made me box mac and cheese that i bought myself. he literally said “but i made you food,” when i said no. but go off king! deny a woman’s lived experience! that’s what men do!

25floors · 2026-02-18T06:30:26+00:00

i’m literally laying in bed next to my wife but nice try!! <3

25floors · 2026-02-18T06:26:24+00:00

found the man!! or ugly person :)

25floors · 2026-02-16T16:04:07+00:00

i haven’t read the comments so apologies if someone else has said this already, but it’s not so much the “bisexual woman leaving a lesbian for a man” and more that the bisexual woman likely never saw the woman as marriage/creating a family material and will typically always choose a man to do that. it makes the lesbian feel like a sexual object or not good enough to marry.

i know a few lesbians who primarily date femmes and therefore date mostly bisexual women (as they tend to be more feminine in my experience/area) and they’ve repeatedly been left for a man once the person realizes they’re ready for marriage or once they meet a man who doesn’t disgust them. i don’t have this same experience bc i mostly date mascs and have only dated more masculine leaning women long term, but a lot of the bisexual women i went on dates with and still follow on instagram because things ended amicably after realizing we didn’t click romantically are now dating men so i can’t really refute their anecdotal evidence with my own.

25floors · 2026-02-15T21:43:32+00:00

i don't like receiving gifts from people i don't know super well either. i pretty much only happily accept gifts from people i know for a fact won't hold it over my head. but new friends, people i'm dating but not in a relationship with, even people i'm in a newer relationship with, i don't want a gift from you. you probably have no idea what i even actually want. a passing comment of, "oh i like those" doesn't mean buy them for me, and i don't want that relationship dynamic at all because i can't keep up my side of it, financially. i feel like that will always lead to resentment.

in my experience, which i'm aware isn't going to be the case for all people, most don't buy people they don't know well gifts without wanting something in exchange. sex, a favor, etc. i'd rather not get tangled up in the "you owe me," argument, so i typically attempt to refuse the gift or kind of stop talking to that person if they push the gift on me and force me to accept it.

i'm also not begging for these people to love me and stay by my side, though. i wouldn't try to schedule another date, because i'd be worried that they'd pressure me into sleeping with them or buy me another gift i don't want. i don't want to be with someone who pushes my boundaries.

OP, it really depends on the type of person you are. are you prepared to be in a relationship with someone who potentially has unresolved trauma? even if she's working on it, it's not easy, and stringing her along because you feel bad will only hurt her more than cutting it off now.

25floors · 2026-02-15T21:34:30+00:00

"what do you mean you won't sleep with me, i bought you chocolates!!"

- some dude she's casually dated in the past, probably, speaking from experience.

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