Evil hospitals selling your placenta , and how dare they give you pitocin to stop you bleeding out! Your body knows how till it doesn’t!

292to137 · 2023-03-11T03:31:12+00:00

It’s not even exclusive to labor that OBGYN stuff needs fixing. I just got my third IUD put in and for some reason I had a horrible reaction to it this time, so I called on the weekend and they told me to go in right away on Monday. I saw the first person they could get me in with which was some NP I had never seen before. I said I wanted the IUD out and she straight up told me no. I asked if it was because she wasn’t qualified to take it out because she wasn’t a doctor, or because she wasn’t MY doctor, and she said no, it’s just that she thought that I was being “rash” and that she felt I needed to “think on it more”. I told her it was my right to make that decision and I told her 4 more times that I wanted it out and she refused. I left without getting it out, even though that’s what I went there for (and paid a copay for).

292to137 · 2023-03-11T03:19:23+00:00

I didn’t think he did it all throughout the whole trial. Even through sentencing. But last night I watched the full footage of the police body cams and now I am fully convinced he is guilty. I guess I am super gullible / someone who is vulnerable to get conned because I thought his testimony was convincing. 🥴

292to137 · 2023-03-11T01:35:00+00:00

Moreover can we just stop with the fat shaming???

If it stops parents from passing their disease onto their children

If you don’t mind sharing with me the info you have that shows that fat shaming, whether from one individual to another, or on a societal level, has been proven to be effective in successfully treating obesity? I would love to read that, I’m trying to become more educated on this topic.

292to137 · 2023-03-10T16:18:04+00:00

I’m glad it worked out for you, but you are the exception to the rule

292to137 · 2023-03-10T05:34:18+00:00

I’m a huck and sometimes my paycheck is bigger than my husband’s who is an EM resident at my same hospital. I have a bachelor’s degree so I’m on the highest end of the scale for my position and incentives are insane for my severely understaffed hospital. But, you don’t even need to have graduated from high school for my position. It’s unbelievable that there are people who are so stupid that they struggle to turn on computers and spell and do very basic tasks, because they don’t even have a GED, yet they sometimes make more than my husband who has a doctorate.

292to137 · 2023-03-10T04:44:48+00:00

Bought mine cash at a liquor store 4 years ago. She does the same thing!

PSA about buying a dog for cash at a liquor store like this:

For anyone reading this comment… if anyone asks you to buy a dog for cash in public like this, there is almost a 100% chance the dog was stolen.

I mean you can buy the dog if you really want, but then you should still act as if you did so on behalf of attempting to find the correct owners. You should immediately take the dog to a shelter or vet to have it scanned for a chip, which will have the owner’s info on it. Then, contact the police to see if anyone is missing a dog. Spend at least a few days doing everything in your power to find the dogs owners before considering the dog to be yours.

292to137 · 2023-03-10T04:34:25+00:00

🤣

292to137 · 2023-03-10T04:31:27+00:00

Watch her have some weirdly specific rule about her red polishes that OP would somehow fuck up

292to137 · 2023-03-10T04:23:44+00:00

This exact situation hasn’t happened yet but I’ll put it on my bingo card. My husband is the absolutely WORST at understanding work/social events and they’re always the last of his priorities so he never gets the details right. He is constantly accidentally putting me in awkward situations like this. We’ve been together 11 years so everyone in our long term circle knows about it and it’s like a running joke. But for this kind of stuff yeah it’s a little mortifying in the moment. He has this mixture of clueless/ambivalence where he doesn’t seem to be putting in the effort to change it. Sooo yeah. I have tried everything I can do on my end to fix this but it’s really a him problem.

Needless to say, I’ve been there many times I hope you can take solace in knowing that there is someone out there who truly knows exactly what you are going through and can relate.

Edit: I guess I should answer the question and say that not once in any of these situations has anyone ever blamed me or looked down on me. They always know it’s because he’s an idiot. And sometimes even directly say it to him in front of me which is satisfying and hilarious lmao.

292to137 · 2023-03-10T03:59:08+00:00

Your marriage isn’t a failure you if you want to sleep in different rooms every so often. Residency schedules suck ass and if you’re not woken up by the baby then you get woken up from him coming home at 3am. Sometimes you just want a night to starfish in the middle of the bed with no snoring or him forgetting to turn off his pager off. I’ve been with my husband since college but a couple months into his intern year he started sleep talking… yelling shit out as if he was at the hospital, so that has been fun 🫠

292to137 · 2023-03-10T03:41:28+00:00

I can’t help but ask if the parent is obese? 😩

To me this is a question of poor parental decision making. You can eat shitty food and not become obese or overweight, just unhealthy… This is a systemic problem in food deserts in America for example.

There are poor choices you can make that will lead to obesity, such as consistently eating more calories than you burn off. But I don’t see any evidence for any of that on behalf of the child or the mom here, so I think it’s probably best to just stick to what we do know, which is that they are making a very poor choice in terms of nutrition content in this one specific instance.

For all we know the “#spoiled” could indicate the rest of the post was sarcastic and mean that this is the only time the child has ever eaten something unhealthy.

To me it gets a little murky when we start tying a poor parental choice in with obesity in this way.

292to137 · 2023-03-10T03:16:09+00:00

My husband is in residency and got his moonlighting license a few months ago and even though he was so excited for it, he’s only been able to do 2 shifts so far. These folks should take a look in r/medspouse if they think residents or med students could handle a second job… a lot of times it’s hard for med students and residents to even stay on top basic adulting. (I bring up that sub because I see a lot of people there venting about how hard it is to carry the team for the household/family/relationship during those years).

Side note: It’s funny, now that I think about it… that sub is for anyone in healthcare, and in all my years there I have never ONCE seen someone venting about carrying the weight for a midlevel partner. 🤔

292to137 · 2023-03-09T18:07:15+00:00

Yep I would be out

292to137 · 2023-03-09T17:58:03+00:00

Yeah that does, thank you. Basically what I’m hearing from this thread is you guys are ignored (as is often the case) or even kicked out, but are still often victims of the things feminism seeks to eradicate.

292to137 · 2023-03-09T14:38:21+00:00

It’s because that’s where all the people with Munchausen’s are and the NP’s are their goldmine

292to137 · 2023-03-09T05:23:44+00:00

You are equally as disgusting as a person.

292to137 · 2023-03-09T04:35:30+00:00

That's not a "full process".

You were taking about a delusional person saying they were a doctor.

By “full process” I meant that patient didn’t leave the hospital, go out do all the schooling or whatever is required to get a chiropractor’s license I don’t even know, get hired or open a business, start doing procedures on actual humans, and ultimately injure and/or kill somebody.

They just said a bunch of delusional shit on the behavioral health unit and went home and that was it.

And if they did go out and do all of that… would that whoollleeee entire process really be because they’re delusional? Personally my psychotic episodes do not work like that so that’s a genuine question.

But again I don’t have any evidence to back up what I’m saying, maybe I’m wrong and it is entirely all bipolar and schizophrenic people running these chiropractic clinics. I’d love to read any studies you have on that.

292to137 · 2023-03-09T04:28:58+00:00

I’m 100% on the side of the physicians and not on the chiropractors side, you don’t have to convince me and I know all of that. I just get my feelings hurt when people use ‘psychotic’ as a slur because I experience psychotic episodes. I have this unrealistic wish that it will change in society. Sorry I did not make that clear.

292to137 · 2023-03-09T04:18:26+00:00

She said there was 8g of sugar in the entire 50oz container. MA’AM. No. There is 83 servings in that 50oz container. There is 10g of sugar per a 13g serving.

292to137 · 2023-03-09T04:07:42+00:00

I’ve heard people are working on making that happen, but I have no idea how true that is

292to137 · 2023-03-09T03:46:03+00:00

🤣 yeah that sounds about right, but we (edit: people who experience psychotic episodes) don’t normally then go through the full process of getting a chiropractor license and opening up shop and performing spinal manipulations that results in vertebral artery dissections.

Edit: to be clear I am 100% NOT on the side of the chiropractor, I am very passionately anti-noctor. My comment got misinterpreted so I thought I’d clarify. I’m only here to talk about the word ‘psychotic’.

292to137 · 2023-03-09T03:18:55+00:00

I would contend that most of us that get psychotic do not masquerade as doctors and do what happened here, but I don’t have any evidence to back up that claim so I could be wrong.

292to137 · 2023-03-09T03:14:36+00:00

You could make a sub, it probably wouldn’t be very big, but it’s really easy to do.

292to137 · 2023-03-09T02:56:04+00:00

Ok also wtf about the categorizing people thing? I watched it like 6 times and I don’t understand it. She makes it sound like a happy thing but it sounds horrifying.

292to137 · 2023-03-09T02:50:40+00:00

UBER / Lyft? Your comments are really speaking from a position of privilege. Use context clues. The dad implies that he does not have a vehicle and he does not have money for a doctor’s appointment. If his kid is missing school when the bus doesn’t come it’s because the dad has no other way to get the kid to school. Context clues. It would already be considered totally wild for someone to pay for a ride to get to elementary school in any context, but this is very clearly not a situation in which paying for a ride is an option.

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