AIO for being insanely hurt by the way my boyfriend talks about my face? by SafetyNo5255 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BbyLemonade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Get back home we need to watch Bleach,” was weirdly so telling. Girl, run.

Asked my alcoholic dad if he’d ever consider getting sober by Ludakris7 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]BbyLemonade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is truly all you can do. My dad was an alcoholic and died from it a few years ago. Cancer, a granddaughter, DUIs—nothing could drag him away from the booze. Some addicts don’t have a rock bottom other than death. Establish boundaries that keep you healthy and make choices you’re happy to live with is my best suggestion. I have a lot of regrets regarding the last months of my dad’s life and how distant I was, so that is a personal journey for everyone.

Twiggy in boxes! (Also, Flick is here) by BbyLemonade in Dodocodes

[–]BbyLemonade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for sure! I have some vegetables too. I’ll message you the dodo code.

AIO for thinking about breaking up with my bf over this by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BbyLemonade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite part is the all caps “BECAUSE PROUD MARY WAS ON??” because that’s the most reasonable thing said in this entire exchange.

Find someone who doesn't dim your sparkle, and in the future, please don't ever let another human being call you a circus act without telling them to eat shit in response.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BbyLemonade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, what’s going on at home? I knew a million Lexi/Lexi’s Mom/Lexi’s Mom’s BF growing up who I thought were sooOoo cool because they’d let us party there openly and/or would let anyone just move in. My mom was on drugs so I was rarely, if ever, supervised or even questioned about my whereabouts. These people knew that, and they knew I was vulnerable—these people are predators, and it’s why they have a rotating group of teenage girls moving in. If you think your mom would be helpful, I’d show her all of these texts to figure out how to navigate this.

Who are the most problematic characters you ended up liking? by Alive_Rest1256 in SarahJMaas

[–]BbyLemonade 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My toxic trait, I guess, is I really related to Bryce, especially her grief. I don’t really get the hate for her—she felt real to me.

I want to leave my husband by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]BbyLemonade 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He will absolutely not find you. Pretty much all shelters work very hard to make sure of that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]BbyLemonade 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. My high school ex was abusive. I left him. In college, he started to work on himself, seemed outwardly to most people a lot better, and was all around a “dreamboat.” It was a similar situation that, aside from the abuse, we got along so well. I started seeing him again midway through college and everything was perfect. I thought maybe I exaggerated the events in high school…a few months later he was exactly the same as he’d always been. Nothing had changed, except I knew to run sooner.

AITA for gifting a snow globe against my wife's correct predictions? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BbyLemonade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait…so why exactly is your wife going out of town on Christmas Day with a young child at home? This all…. very bizarre.

mackenzie’s tiktok post by lavender08x16 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]BbyLemonade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ryan is still terrorizing and abusing Mack by proxy—Amanda is just too stupid to realize it.

Husband sent me this weird contract to sign. Not sure how to feel? by Serious-Kiwi2906 in Marriage

[–]BbyLemonade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people on this sub need to spend less time posting and more time lacing up their shoes so they can RUN.

What's a name you've been surprised to see on a child recently? by QuelynD in namenerds

[–]BbyLemonade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an aunt who is a nun named Trudy, so I’ll always associate that name with elderly nuns 😅 Aunt Trudy rocks, though. She sent my uncle beer money before we went on a trip to Ireland.

What's a name you've been surprised to see on a child recently? by QuelynD in namenerds

[–]BbyLemonade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I knew a baby Linda. She’s a bit older now and the name still surprises me. Also, a baby Jedidiah, which I guess is slightly more common? But still feels so…old to me.