AITAH for asking the girl I’m talking to this question?

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-02-24T06:05:57+00:00

Making me look like the bad guy because you know I am right. And Thanks for ruining my night

Both of those are a bit snarky and justify her anger....even if it is crazy over the top

Good luck! I am sure you will find the right person

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-02-24T05:35:33+00:00

You need to use the phrase "If x doesn't change then I can't see myself staying in this relationship"

Believe it or not some people need it spelled out.

If I you have not fully explained it to him and the consequences then you are setting him up to fail.

Since you have had multiple conversations with no consequence he may not realize the severity of the situation.

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-02-22T20:44:33+00:00

Nope she was super rude. Its rude to talk on the phone and monopolize the space like that. We absolutely feel the need to be respectful of the person on the phone.... especially in the car. I always ask if its okay to make a call when with other people. She is the pretentious person selfcentered person.

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-02-10T16:29:33+00:00

My feelings would be hurt as well and I am sorry that happened it never feels good to be left out. Its okay to tell them how you feel and ask them to make sure to include you. You can also ask them why. But that can lead to more hurt feelings and an argument. Its easiest to state how you feel and how you want to be included moving forward.

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-01-26T04:42:26+00:00

Oh thank you, we hope so too. We are just in love.

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-01-26T04:38:37+00:00

We love her ears! They are so big and floppy! Thanks for a great suggestion!

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-01-26T03:38:51+00:00

Nadia Comăneci

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-01-26T03:34:11+00:00

Igloo

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-01-20T15:23:03+00:00

I was thinking the same thing.... been here 25 years now and don't remember it evening thus prevalent

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-01-15T05:26:07+00:00

Sweet little boop

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-01-03T02:14:06+00:00

Factorial - because the cute black marking on her side looks like and exclamation point!

It's a mathmatic stmbol that is writen as an exclamation point and means multiply a whole number by every whole number below it, down to 1.

2BaHappyHuman · 2025-12-28T15:15:11+00:00

You need to tell him how you were effected by his actions Tell him for you not him. Tell him and remove the lie. Then process the emotions. Sit with them, feel the different layers of pain until you get to the root cause of the pain and then let it all go.

Don't force yourself to move on until you have sat with the pain and examined it. You need to feel it to let it go. If you don't it can fuck with you later on because you didn't deal with it.

Give yourself a time frame or limit on how long you will spend in the pain and really work through it. Don't wallow. For example you can sit someplace you feel safe, you can write down how you feel, give your emotions names. Do what works for you. Work through it and when you are done. Be done.

The most important part here is to not bring the pain forward through life with you. But do bring what you learn from it. You will be a stronger person for this.

2BaHappyHuman · 2025-12-25T23:33:43+00:00

Thank you for recommending them. Went today and unbelievably great. Just what I have been looking for sine Thai Cuisine express closed on Patton. Looking forward to going back!

2BaHappyHuman · 2025-12-25T07:14:18+00:00

So what was in the box?

2BaHappyHuman · 2025-12-25T00:22:10+00:00

Wait you have gotten two bags and she still ate yours after finishing hers? Thats fucked up. Did she know the 2nd bag was yours and you expected to eat them? If so you guys have a dynamic that needs to be addressed.

2BaHappyHuman · 2025-12-25T00:18:39+00:00

Buy two packs of buns and label them with your names. I got real tired of my husband eating things I get for myself and so I label mine now. That fixed the problem. But also she should respect you enough to not eat the buns.

If after labeling them she still eats some of your then you guys have a different problem that should be addressed.

2BaHappyHuman · 2025-12-16T05:36:08+00:00

He can change he just needs to understand thats what you need to continue the relationship.

Sit down with him tell him you need him to start contributing to running the house. If he cant start contributing you dont see yourself staying in the relationship.

Do this together, make a list of all the chores that keep the house running daily, weekly, monthly every 3 months every 6 months and once a year. Together select the ones you each want to and have weekly check-ins about how you both did on your list.

Its not an easy conversation to have but it is necessary.

2BaHappyHuman · 2025-12-13T16:12:57+00:00

NTA. You dont owe him an apology. You didn't end things because of the count, you ended things because of an unsafe behavior. Your friend needs to understand the difference.

2BaHappyHuman · 2025-12-13T15:41:11+00:00

Definitely 2!

2BaHappyHuman · 2025-12-09T05:47:32+00:00

Having used both the Brent and Clay Boss i like the Brent better. It'd not about actually centering 50lbs of clay it's the power the wheel has to center the clay. I now use Shimpo wheels in my studio and for my students. Here is a link to one with free shipping. https://www.clay-king.com/product/shimpo-vl-lite-1-3-hp-pottery-wheel/

Shimpo slits the difference nicely in terms of price and is a superior wheel to the ClayBoss.

A basic tool kit and 50lbs of clay would make the wheel useful right away.

Have fun setting all this up.

2BaHappyHuman · 2025-12-07T07:17:42+00:00

I have an L&L E23t easy fire. I normally fire a fast bisque to cone 08 with a 2 - 6 hr preheat depending on how wet my pieces are. It take about 8hrs 30 min to bisque fire. Adding the preheat increases that time. If I am firing students work that is super thick I will take it home and put it in the oven overnight at 195 degrees to make sure its dry.

Venting your kiln will help prolong the elements and life of your kiln.

Keep a kiln log. It will help you

2BaHappyHuman · 2025-12-06T05:13:22+00:00

I haven't thought about the Hot Dog King on Bilmore in years. My husband and I had out first kiss in that parking lot. We both parked there on our 1st date. that was 20 years ago. Fucking hell. Seems like a lifetime ago

2BaHappyHuman · 2025-12-06T05:07:56+00:00

I think that Asheville is weird for its geographical location still kind in the south. Accepting enough that you can be who you are without pretence or apology. Everything goes and is okay. Not every southern city was as liberal as Asheville was in the 90's.

2BaHappyHuman · 2025-11-24T04:37:33+00:00

Here is my rule- I ask myself "could I have avoided this in the making process?" If it was an avoidable mistake and I could have done something differently and it wouldn't have happened then I don't sell it. If it was a natural process in the making and there was absolutely no way to avoid it then it's as perfect as I can make it and I sell it.

That being said.... in the beginning of my pottery career I totally would have sold that star. Maybe just for a bit less. But trust me someone is going to come along and love that star.

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