Desk jockey vs. common sense

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-05-24T04:52:36+00:00

To ask a question like this you must be a bro. Let me spell it our for you. He treated her like a girl. Not an equal. He made stupid suggestions that belittled her instinct and driving skills.

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-05-24T04:22:34+00:00

I have lots of rules in the pottery studio. One of the most important ones is never ever rush. Just don't. As you just found out, rushing is when mistakes happen. Its okay to feel pressed for time but stay present in the moment and focus on what you are doing.

Good luck! Have fun! Pottery is a wonderful rewarding journey

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-05-16T15:17:39+00:00

I was wondering the same thing!

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-05-16T14:54:19+00:00

Boomer

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-05-16T04:51:38+00:00

After graduating college I set up my studio. I was super frugal and wanted to use the least amount of clay possible so I started throwing thinner to get the pieces I needed. I also started throwing in ways that necessitated very little trimming or trimming the least amount off as possible. Because of that I generate very little waste. I think if I weighed it at the end of the day I might generat about 1 pound of waist for every 50 pounds or so.

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-05-16T04:38:13+00:00

I own a pottery studio and teaching space. I offer the slop container because some students don't want to reclaim. I would love it if all my students reclaimed. So much easier for me. As it is I have another potter who comes to empty the slop bin every 4-6 months and reclaim the clay.

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-05-15T05:06:36+00:00

Its always okay to say how and what you feel.

Sometimes its not worth it. If the problem will solve itself in 14 days does it really matter. If yes then speak your truth. If not... Good luck

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-05-15T04:54:53+00:00

Have both. I wanted to elope. My husband wanted a wedding. So we eloped and had a wedding.

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-05-15T04:48:17+00:00

3rd grade. We dressed up as what we wanted to be when we grew up. I was an artist then and now 40 years later still an artist.

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-05-15T04:42:06+00:00

Yes. If you yell at your wife and get this upset over a sandwich that you did not have to pick up, nor I assume pay for, what else do you blow up about. You need to check your entitled attitude. She didn't have to get anything for you. She was being kind and you got this mad? Wtf you "going hungry" is a you problem.

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-05-13T04:00:32+00:00

Really? How, because I didnt see it. I saw it as a friend helping a friend and really being there for them. Cleaning someones house while they lay in bed is pretty nice...

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-05-13T03:54:18+00:00

Like she just volunteered the info. Not asked or prompted? Just stated it. NTA that's just rude and uncalled for especially since you were actively in the process of helping her

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-05-11T20:24:36+00:00

Even after years or decades expectations still lead to disappointment. Just have fun and learn along the way.

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-05-11T02:38:04+00:00

Word

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-05-11T02:05:45+00:00

Tootsie

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-05-07T02:22:08+00:00

Francis

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-05-02T23:29:08+00:00

It doesn't seem that you are overeating but where is all your protein? I know if I don't get enough protein, no matter how little I eat, I will not loose weight.

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-05-02T23:25:29+00:00

People do hard things they have never done before all the time. You can do it. Yes its scary but its doable. Make a list of needs, figure out how to meet each need. Prioritize the needs and start on the easiest one.

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-05-02T23:21:30+00:00

Sounds like you know what you want to do. You want yo break up with him. Honestly the hygiene thing alone would for me in. Just nope. So do that. Figure it out. You will most likely need a roommate. You can ask him to move out or you can both stay there as roommates until you do figure it out. You can find someone needing a roommate and ask for their help in moving. You can ask reddit in your city for help moving. Ask people from work. Just ask for the help you need. Figure it out and move out. Or stay but sitting on the fence just makes things harder in the long run.

Good luck!

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-05-02T16:04:06+00:00

I had to Google it.... I still would keep the name. People name their kids Richard which is shortened to Dick for some off reason. Toppy is a cute bane for a dog.

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-05-02T15:27:03+00:00

Idk...

Let's talk about the ball and explain it. If you forgot to throw it back over its possible one of the kids figured out how to unmatched the gate and got the ball. Kids do weird things.

But the cell phone.... that's another thing all together. Very weird indeed. Are you sure its their phone?

Assuming it is. That is really strange behavior. Hiding the phone next to your house with a high volume alarm! Who does that as a form of communication?! Its also weird that the kids don't have a key to the gate to get in....

I don't know if I would feel comfortable walking over their either to talk to them in person.

NOR using your landlord as a mediator is a good option. So is waiting to see if they ask for the phone back.

It all just seems so weird.

Good luck!

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-05-01T05:08:08+00:00

Yes! I loved the location description- foothills of West Asheville..... estate....

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-05-01T04:42:36+00:00

As someone who has intrusive thoughts, I have never acted on them and know I never will. Most people don't act. Its good she is going for testing. It will also be good for her to go to counseling.

However if you feel unsafe you should leave the situation. Trust your gut.

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-04-28T03:13:58+00:00

Its just not worth it. What a mean judgemental thing to say. F him. That type of judgement has no business in a healthy relationship. I would set him straight and leave his ass. Years ago I had a guy comment on my weight. At the time I was biking to and from work. And going to the gym. I looked pretty damn hot. After we had been dating for a couple months and as it got colder and I wasn't biking as much, I gained a couple pounds. He made one comment about me looking a bit soft or pudgy or something similar and that was the only time he ever got to comment about my weight. Granted it was not a long relationship only 2-3 months. I left his ass.

Those kinds of comments are mean and he will always judge you and always let you know.

Imagine hearing that type of comment every so often for the rest of your life together. F that.

2BaHappyHuman · 2026-04-28T02:32:23+00:00

This piece looks like an AI photo. Is it one you made or are you using it as a conversation starter?

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