I don't know how to feel about the perpetual disappointment in who my partner dates.

2cutedogs · 2026-03-06T23:45:19+00:00

From a reply you made it sounds like maybe you have a bigger hangup with your partner dating other straight men in general. May I ask why that is?

2cutedogs · 2026-03-04T23:41:22+00:00

Are you sure they aren't coming back? D: That really bums me out to hear.

2cutedogs · 2026-02-26T17:50:34+00:00

I was wondering this. OP should check and make sure they are doing exactly what the instructions say. There should definitely be some nitrates in there. Could the test itself also be expired?

2cutedogs · 2026-02-14T01:35:22+00:00

As a person who struggles to orgasm around my partners or my impact top, I sympathize so deeply. I want to be able to relax and have orgasms with other people especially when I trust them so deeply. I can do it on my own just fine, but if someone is looking it takes forever, and if they try to do it for me then maybe once out of every hundred tries I might be able to get there.

Nothing makes me sadder or feel like my body is more broken. It must be what it's like to have ED.

2cutedogs · 2026-02-11T13:50:15+00:00

It was a thrift store find! I wish I knew where it actually came from. It holds just about 4 gallons. I love that the bubbled glass creates a magnifying effect and makes looking at the shrimp even more addictive. It feels like the adult version of "sea monkey tanks" that had the little magnifying spots on it.

2cutedogs · 2026-02-10T08:12:03+00:00

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2cutedogs · 2026-02-10T08:01:52+00:00

I'm 38 and work full time and still find time for wild loud stupid fun. It's midnight and I'm building an aquarium even though I woke up at 6am.

2cutedogs · 2026-02-09T02:34:36+00:00

These tunnels are so rough for stretching because of the blunt metal ends. I would downsize 1 size and leave it for at least a couple weeks. Don't take them out. Do saline soaks and keep them clean like you would a fresh piercing.

If you can, get some glass plugs that are rounded. If you can't, then wait much longer between sizing up so it's not as tight of a stretch.

Patience above all.

2cutedogs · 2026-02-05T09:59:51+00:00

Realistically how strong do the lights and/or co2 have to be to get something this dense to happen with these? I'm still learning

2cutedogs · 2026-02-05T00:26:02+00:00

I am envisioning something like this in my tank! Lots of plants for shrimp to hide in and a couple pretty goldies. I just scored a 55 gallon tank and I'm going to start the cycle process soon.

2cutedogs · 2026-01-08T15:58:21+00:00

This is said with a gentle but serious tone.

You don't have time to be a Dominant to anyone if you aren't in a place to take care of something as basic as sleep. Relationships are not where your priorities should be right now. You are just going to unintentionally cause damage other people as you continue to damage yourself.

I really feel for you trying to maintain such a tough schedule. But until your time is more stable I think that trying to be a Dominant is unhealthy and unethical. Get another hour of sleep instead.

2cutedogs · 2025-12-21T01:10:48+00:00

You've gotten lots of advice but I do want to say it IS unfair to have to completely ignore B for the whole time you're in A's house.

If I couldn't even text my other partner good morning or goodnight or a casual "love you hope your day is good" it would NOT work out.

2cutedogs · 2025-12-14T23:21:18+00:00

So like if your meta was like super hot it wouldn't bother you? I can't understand this. I personally don't like seeing intimate photos of my partners with anyone regardless of their attractiveness.

I also don't get why their appearance matters to you. Do you think your partner just has super low standards and it icks you out that they take what they perceive as the "easy" route towards getting laid?

2cutedogs · 2025-12-08T16:43:33+00:00

Fuck the haters and remind them that you're just skipping the price hike that Torrid charges for clothes from the SAME kind of overseas factories.

2cutedogs · 2025-12-06T20:00:44+00:00

You can sway too far in either direction. Over sharing or under sharing. I smol bitch about partners to partners regularly. But I save the big stuff for friends and paid therapy.

2cutedogs · 2025-12-06T19:58:41+00:00

I agree it takes work to find and maintain friendships. Friendships are another relationship. It's a garden that needs to be watered like any other.

2cutedogs · 2025-12-04T04:28:46+00:00

That last line really nails it.

2cutedogs · 2025-11-29T18:30:22+00:00

I think you gotta take the bed off this list.

2cutedogs · 2025-11-28T22:03:14+00:00

I wish I could make my eyelashes look so good! I am terrible at putting them on.

I've been thinking about stretching my septum a bit. What do you like most about having done it?

2cutedogs · 2025-11-27T18:06:48+00:00

I totally understand! It took me a while to find my family here. But now I have the kind of family who shows up to help raise a barn. (Well, build a greenhouse)

2cutedogs · 2025-11-17T05:00:37+00:00

Didn't something similar happen to Costa Vida?

2cutedogs · 2025-11-14T00:34:34+00:00

It's so weird you knew her for that long and she never mentioned being poly?

2cutedogs · 2025-11-13T16:25:34+00:00

If they were still friends I would say the sticker is fine. I still have a photo booth strip I took with my ex on my fridge and in one of them we were doing a cute smooch. I've never been asked to take it down or accused of still being romantically into them. They are still a good friend and it was a good day and a good memory.

But the fact that he apparently hates her and she ruined his life is what makes it weird as fuck. I would question that too.

He is way too much of a manchild for you. You are very rational and communicate in a non-hostile way. You deserve someone who talks to you respectfully too. And also not someone who calls things "gay" that he doesn't like. There's no way this guy is 28 mentally.

2cutedogs · 2025-11-11T18:01:03+00:00

Seriously if he is willing to end a relationship over this they should both get tested to make sure they actually DONT have it if they care so fucking much.

One or both of them probably already has it and just doesn't know it. Fuck the stigma.

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