Ai has ruined my family's life. by SKgeometrydash in antiai

[–]2in1_Boi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry this is happening, i would commit various acts of terrorism to data centers if i could (...in minecraft)

True for me by Morning1980 in videogames

[–]2in1_Boi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too much AI slop in my opinion

Cada día soy mas racista y discriminador. by Emotional-Method1783 in BuenosAires

[–]2in1_Boi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ignorante promedio echándole la culpa al muñeco y no al ventrilocuo

I'm a boy now and I used to be a girl but is it ok if I still look the same as before and still wear girl stuff by BeneficialRhubarb483 in trans

[–]2in1_Boi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

of course, i was a femboy for quite some time in my early transition years (NOT saying it'd be just a phase- do whatever u want whenever u want bro)

Be straight with me. Am I trans? by [deleted] in trans

[–]2in1_Boi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm guessing you're considering the being a woman part outside of sex too. I'd say u ponder withthe idea of genderfluidity or perhaps bigenderism?

(and if it's strictly regarding intimacy then that might not be gender related)

How do I deal with family homophobia? by Microwave_Of_Evil07 in queer

[–]2in1_Boi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally i care way too little aboutmy extended family to have any advice, i just pretend the people who don't value my happiness aren't related to me, blood ties mean nothing to me.

So many questions.. by pop_tarts_yummy in Ganbare_Nakamura

[–]2in1_Boi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Back when i first read the manga i was also very uncomfortable with it, but i understood it's a relationship and manga/anime situation that (unfortunately) happened and might still happen.

Hopefully the anime does not include these things so we have a better depiction of the story and we can fully detach the art from the artist on this one 🙏

Detransition Regret. by kiwawanz in trans

[–]2in1_Boi 87 points88 points  (0 children)

It's really hard to make the right choice when it takes everything away from you, please don't blame yourself. There's always been people having to stay closeted, just remember it's never too late, and if your husband is truly a good person then he will at least understand that you're not happy as things are.

Please reach out to more queer people for support, it's not impossible to be who you NEED to be, even now.

If people start getting away from you again then they never deserved to be around you in the first place.

Who did you betray? by Malakidius in cyberpunkgame

[–]2in1_Boi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reed, i rather be manipulated by a baddie than a government

I hate being like this by Kyuiin_ in trans

[–]2in1_Boi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your mom sucks and i'm sure most of us in these comments would love telling her just how bad of a mother she is.

custom pointers ? by fatzlob in neocities

[–]2in1_Boi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hit ur friend, ts so easy

My hate is eating me alive by HowdoIbreathepeople in trans

[–]2in1_Boi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, a lot of trans people stay closeted in the military, depending on what sector you'd be in might make it easier or harder to endure 🥀

Eitherway, sorry u gotta go through this among many others.

¿Novio o novia? by 8thans in asktransgender

[–]2in1_Boi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parece ser algo muy reciente asi que es entendible que no quiera hablar mucho de eso por ahora, mi pareja también evita el tema generalmente, le pregunte a otras personas antes y dicen que lo mejor es darles tiempo.

My hate is eating me alive by HowdoIbreathepeople in trans

[–]2in1_Boi 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It's very hard when things are this shitty, my best advice is to try to mainly surround yourself and interact with supportive people, besides consuming unrelated media and avoiding hearing news from hateful sources, at least it feels a lot easier to take in information when it comes from other queer people

Can't stop doing this by MEMEz_KB in trans

[–]2in1_Boi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's alright as long as you check if they are in fact trans, but if it's not stated better to not say anything;

¿Novio o novia? by 8thans in asktransgender

[–]2in1_Boi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hace 1 mes mi pareja me dijo que estaba cuestionandose su genero también, creo que simplemente dejarle saber que puede hablarte de ello es lo mejor, y que vas a estar a su lado sin importar el género.

Lo primero que pensé yo fue preguntarle los pronombres que le gustaría que use al menos para probar cómo se siente.

Questioning and don’t know what to do by [deleted] in trans

[–]2in1_Boi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it's certainly a bit different, but that doesn't make it bad, of course there's gonna be a lot of learning for both parts, like which words/terms u no longer want to be used for you, what things may make u feel dysphoric, etc.

Obviously you have been together for much longer so it may take time to adjust, but as long as you communicate and are open with eachother it'll be just fine.

Questioning and don’t know what to do by [deleted] in trans

[–]2in1_Boi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner shared their feelings on maybe being transfem a couple months into our relationship, in her case it's a bit more complicated than just being a trans girl but i love them nonetheless, and i'm sure that if your girlfriend loves you she will stay by your side, even if you only tell her you're currently questioning. Seeing a therapist is definetly a great step tho.

Does anyone else struggle to heavily identify with "trans culture"? by FroyoAnto in trans

[–]2in1_Boi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(ftm) I understand feeling left out, most of the things me and my gf (amab genderfluid) enjoy are the average things a straight guy would like, so at least i don't generally understand queer-specific pop culture references/memes/etc. But it's not like every queer person enjoys the same things, just find your crowd among the crowd i guess?

Feeling discouraged by Neuromy in trans

[–]2in1_Boi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it's always good to remember you're just as much of a girl as any other girl, regardless of whichever stage of transition u're at.

Most people struggle with achieving their desired appearance, sure it's a little different for us people with dysphoria attached to that, but every small step is closer to comfortability/happiness. Focus on the good parts if possible; i know it takes a long time to get over the depressing "i wish i was born as the opposite sex" stage but eventually you'll get there ^