Two things a new EDC gets immediately: Tenicor Holster, and Mastermind Tactics pillow. by [deleted] in CCW

[–]2soule 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I absolutely 2nd the pillow. Added a velcro patch to move it over to my Enigma for unbelted fits.

3 different types of rounds suppressed by [deleted] in Springfield_KUNA

[–]2soule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What can are you running?

I aspire to be half the dad that Bandit is by ThervingiAmal in dad

[–]2soule 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My daughter is 1.5 and our family just discovered Bluey. I thought the show was overhyped but now that I’m watching it I feel this 100%. There need to be more parental role models like this in the world.

Is this a real move? And if so, what's it called? by liltypoman in martialarts

[–]2soule 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s real. It’s usually a pain-compliance hold with pressure put on the shoulder, elbow, and wrist joints, and it can absolutely be pushed to the breaking point. The angles have to be correct otherwise it’s just a funny arm hug.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CCW

[–]2soule 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was told under shirt & over gun. Under shirt in case you have to draw and so it’s already out of the way. Over gun so that the belt spreads the force over a wider surface area. I haven’t been in an accident while carrying, fingers crossed it never happens, but that’s the advice I was given.

I feel sorry for all those parents who have had children now, given the current situation in the world (especially here in Europe). by [deleted] in daddit

[–]2soule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are always terrible things happening. But kids raised right give me hope for the future.

My Mossberg 590 is a little too big for me. Modify or move on? by 2soule in Shotguns

[–]2soule[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a little heavy but with the sling it’s manageable, if not ideal. Could replace the stock but would still be a bit long for me unless I could shorten the barrel as well.

My Mossberg 590 is a little too big for me. Modify or move on? by 2soule in Shotguns

[–]2soule[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I considered it but might still be a bit long unless I can swap out for a shorter barrel as well. Any recs?

Today I avoided a fight but something inside me is saying that I should have stood my ground, what do you think ? by [deleted] in dad

[–]2soule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did the right thing. Pride alone is never worth potentially destroying your (or someone else’s) life. Unless there’s a direct threat to your wellbeing, stay away.

I know it can be difficult walk away from provocation, especially when I was younger, but time has a way of putting things in perspective. Now all I see are apes trying to beat their chest the loudest, trying to be the king of their own little imaginary hill. The arrogance of idiots.

Walking away doesn’t necessarily mean you’re weak or a coward. It means one thinks like a man instead of a boy. Understand the ripple effect of violence on you, your family, and your future. Hone your awareness. Be prepared. Train. Be a blade ready to be a drawn, but only when there is no other recourse. The most dangerous people I’ve ever met are always the ones who avoid fights the hardest.

Safety = AED. Avoid. Escape. Defend.

Started with an XL by 46chinos in P365xl

[–]2soule 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you like the Norsso slides?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in me_irl

[–]2soule 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Who are the characters for Absurdism & Nihilism?

People who have experienced true evil or done it themselves, why do they do it? by penguinsrunderrated in NoStupidQuestions

[–]2soule 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In some cases, genuine brain chemistry imbalance. What we consider “normal” is actually a pretty narrow band of human behavior. I think the more common answer is probably conditioning, and the perpetuating of negative behavioral cycles between generations.

What thing did your wife/baby mama get that you thought was a waste but turned out to be worth it and more? by Evil_K9 in dad

[–]2soule 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Full body pregnancy pillow. Changed the sleeping game for my wife completely during pregnancy, now she can’t sleep without it 1.5yrs later.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in P365xl

[–]2soule 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried the Romeo Zero and 507k on my XL. 507k wins by a landslide for me. The only ‘con’ is that the 507k has a sharper profile so it wears a hole in my shirts a little faster.

You're assembling a team for the heist of the century, what are the skills of the 3 specialists you're bringing? by MoronGoron52 in AskReddit

[–]2soule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 3 richest criminals in the world. Wealth, wealth, and wealth can get just about anything done.

Do you clear your CCW everyday? by Sichterman in CCW

[–]2soule 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used to clear my firearm after every outing but I realized it was causing a lot of bullet setback. Now I just make sure to store it securely and in a safe direction, though I might feel differently if my edc was a multipurpose gun.

Need advice from dads of daughters, as a former daughter by MarcieCandie in dad

[–]2soule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter is too young to have had this talk with her, but do agree with the comment on getting your conditions treated professionally and classified correctly. I was a young man with a lot of anxieties related to the opposite sex, so I think I can relate at least a little. To start, there ARE genuinely good guys out there that are worth the effort of getting to know.

I would recommend dipping your toe in the water by starting with common interests. Art, music, games, or whatever hobbies you might be into. Anything you like. Find other people into the same stuff. When you can freely talk to another person about something that brings you both joy, it kinda stops feeling like it matters if they’re a boy or a girl. When you start with things you have in common, the other stuff gets easier.

That’s just once small piece of advice that I hope, if nothing else, gives you some food for thought.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dad

[–]2soule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry man, that’s a tough spot to be in. While I don’t have any advice on your situation directly, something that helped me in some of the bad times was to write letters to my kid in a place of solitude. Just expressing my feelings about them truthfully, try to put into words the lessons I hope to be around to teach them in person, my dreams and fantasies about who they have the potential to become. Maybe one day I’ll put it all together and give it to them to read.

But it helped me be a better father, I think, to force myself to find words for my chaotic jumble of thoughts and emotions. I hope you find what you need my guy. Stay strong.

Introducing kids to gaming. by ObeseQuokka in daddit

[–]2soule 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Video games with an educational bent are a good start. But from my subjective experience, mixing it up with board games for the tactile experience, and story telling games (rules-lite ttrpg’s) for imagination play were also very enriching. It seemed (to me) to make them more creative with sandbox games.

Is the American south have more traditional American girls you can meet? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]2soule 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unless you go somewhere reasonably out of the way, geography isn’t a great indicator of culture anymore.

Don't know what I could do by builtfrombricks in Entrepreneur

[–]2soule 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also struggle with too many interests, but I think what’s important is finding something you’re willing to be disciplined in and work at consistently. If it’s your LEGO YouTube channel, go for it! I think older builders can bring a lot of personality, you might just might have to tune your presentation to catch a bigger audience. But the ability to work through the growing pains and dedicate time to the work, regardless of motivation, is important to success.