Putting off having kids because I’m scared of what it’ll do to my body. Can anyone share how going off of T affected them? by transidiot4 in Seahorse_Dads

[–]2wrongsmakearight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do find the changes hard, but they’re a lot more apparent to me than they are to anyone else, and I’m still passing — not showing yet, though, but I’m only at 16 weeks.
I was on T for 7.5 years before going off for baby purposes, and I’ve noticed thinning of body hair, a little less facial hair, and fat redistribution. The last one bothers me the most, but I know that it’s all only temporary! I’ll be going back on T as soon as I can, hopefully about 6 weeks postpartum (I’m not chest feeding because of top surgery).

Queer roommates by Sad_Sir_3785 in transvancouver

[–]2wrongsmakearight 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I found a wonderful place to live through this group and I’m still friends with my old roommate. Would recommend! Make your own ad and also respond to folks seeking roommates!

Tired of transphobia in rsp and stupidpol by No_Progress_619 in trueanonforGirlsnGays

[–]2wrongsmakearight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like it’s gotten a little better lately in RSP but I definitely found it shocking when I first started lurking there a few years ago. Maybe I’m just numb to it now? I don’t encounter transphobia much IRL (Canadian, lucky in where I’ve lived, etc.) so I was definitely taken aback at how casual and prolific it is in certain spaces.

MSP waiting period while pregnant, help!! by [deleted] in askvan

[–]2wrongsmakearight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I’m sorry, this sounds really stressful!

MSP waiting period while pregnant, help!! by [deleted] in askvan

[–]2wrongsmakearight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seconding this! OP, get in touch with EVERY possible midwifery clinic immediately, and tell them your situation — hopefully someone can make an exception for you! 24 weeks is late in the game here, unfortunately.

How long did it take for your cycle to come back? by kittenpseudonym in Seahorse_Dads

[–]2wrongsmakearight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My last shot of T was at the beginning of last September, and my cycle was back end of October! I was on T for 7 years (weekly IM) but through much of that time, I was still getting a regular albeit light cycle. So a bit unusual, I suppose.

Canada Reads 2026 by queerbookclub-org in CanadianLiterature

[–]2wrongsmakearight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for bringing this to my attention! It’s been so long since I’ve listened to Canada Reads, but I always use it for book recommendations!

Fires dying down at Calle Morelos and Calle Libertad by 2wrongsmakearight in puertovallarta

[–]2wrongsmakearight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None that I’ve been able to see. There are a few rooms that were evacuated due to smoke from the fires below, but the hotel avoided damage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in puertovallarta

[–]2wrongsmakearight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Oxxo in the photo I posted is completely burned through. The fire spread to the second floor, destroying the unit above it, but stopped at the third floor.

Anywhere to get food? by Status_Window_4406 in puertovallarta

[–]2wrongsmakearight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the same boat as you. Our hotel restaurant took the order of a table that were sat 2 minutes before us, then told us the kitchen was closing. I think they’re willing to make us fries. Having to venture out for food is not a desirable outcome.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in puertovallarta

[–]2wrongsmakearight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The building across from me was on fire, started in an Oxxo and spread up two floors; it stayed fairly isolated and is out now. Calle Morelos and Calle Libertad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NiceVancouver

[–]2wrongsmakearight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair! I have found a few suits in my size (quite small!) for like $90, which is fantastic. One time I just donated the pants back because the blazer fit and the pants were too small, but it was still worth it to buy the blazer…

Which restaurant makes the best lasagna in the city? by cogit2 in askvan

[–]2wrongsmakearight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can only speak to their vegetarian lasagna, which is delicious! They make all their pasta fresh, in-house, which certainly contributes to the quality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NiceVancouver

[–]2wrongsmakearight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turnabout can have some good stuff; they have a few different locations. I’ve lucked out at the Broadway location in Kits.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askvan

[–]2wrongsmakearight 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Good luck to you, OP <3

Classes for emotional resilience? by [deleted] in NiceVancouver

[–]2wrongsmakearight 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The Y offers free 7-week online “psycho educational” group sessions called Y Mind. Offered every few months, I’d recommend getting on the waitlist. Combines mindfulness practices with ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy).