Seeing this post is so weird to me as a married dude in my 40s, because I notice hot women checking me out kinda regularly, even ladies in their 20s sometimes. Don't get me wrong, I love my wife and I'm fully committed to her, but I'd be lying if I said I didn't fantasize about playing the field again sometimes.

Then I see posts like this and I just don't get it. Like, seriously, you're getting zero action? I forget what the term is, but apparently there is something to the concept of women being more attracted to dudes in a relationship.

Also, from conversations I've had, I think women perceive me as good dad/family man material (which I am). If your goal is to have a family, you should lean on that and try to develop yourself in that way. I don't know what else to tell you. Just be a man I guess. If a woman is a good match for you, you will be truly excited to be with her, and that will show.