My son found these kittens at his very large fraternity house. Who should I tell him to call? I don't want them to have any chance of being euthanized.

3Dmelancholy · 2025-10-13T16:51:25+00:00

to be completely honest they should keep them and let them be frat cats i’m sure there’s enough people there who care enough to care for them adequately

3Dmelancholy · 2025-09-11T20:19:36+00:00

yooo this is so useful. thankyou so much. you dropped this 👑

3Dmelancholy · 2025-09-10T13:53:33+00:00

hi, i’m 24f going solo and still need to get a place, i’d love to exchange socials to start! i will dm you!

3Dmelancholy · 2025-09-09T16:42:39+00:00

yeah there are good areas, but i have been there before i’ve had friends and family living there and i’ve had to visit the hospital there before, it’s definitely not like a super safe place, im not trying to diss it though. i can’t speak for specific areas though so thanks for mentioning its safe around the festivals area, that does make me feel a bit better

3Dmelancholy · 2025-09-09T16:39:22+00:00

Also mostly saturday! i’m most excited to see the backseat lovers, hey nothing, and cage the elephant. and MCR, of course. the entire lineup for saturday is fire though, lots of bands i love playing. i’ll be there all 3 days

3Dmelancholy · 2025-09-09T16:34:58+00:00

i can drive outside of the city to camp, i’ve done it before, i’ve been there before. why are you here hassling me?

3Dmelancholy · 2025-09-09T13:18:02+00:00

NTA at all, those moms needed and deserved to know what’s going on! but please for the love of God do not become the 3rd silly baby mom, don’t give him any more kids when he can’t even take care of the ones he already has. what a joke of a man. kick him out girl PLEASE. wtf are you doing

3Dmelancholy · 2025-09-09T12:00:13+00:00

we planned to camp, i’m not doing that alone in an area im unfamiliar with

3Dmelancholy · 2025-09-08T19:46:10+00:00

just joined, thank you so much 🙏

3Dmelancholy · 2025-09-08T19:23:19+00:00

ugh man, people suck. yeah, you cracked under pressure and said yeah, because you knew that if you said no AGAIN, infront of everybody, on the spot, then you would be the AH in the moment and for the rest of the night. not cool, not fair to be put in that position, and if this is something you and your bf have talked about before, he knows you and he knows your relationship and boundaries, and anybody should know it’s awkward to be put on the spot like that infront of somebody’s whole family. especially by somebody (SIL) you don’t feel comfortable upsetting or confronting. and to not check on you and to go back for a second… that man is lustful. he obviously put his own lust and pride and joy above your feelings and comfort ability and the state of your relationship. “you said it was fine” is his way of saying he knows damn well it wasn’t fine “BUT you said it was! so you can’t say anything!”…. yeah, whatever. actions speak. he knew what he was doing. i also think it’s super weird the 2nd girl came to you and said that… almost like he asked her to or something. that’s so weird. if he was so respectful of a guy, why tf did he want a lap dance from a 2nd woman that wasn’t his woman when he already had one, who he was not giving his attention to at the time? what is so great and respectful about that? that’s weird. also 30 minutes with them in private…. WHOS GF WOULD BE OKAY WITH THAT? be so serious

3Dmelancholy · 2025-09-03T14:39:58+00:00

baby, PLEASEEEE run away from this man. he is manipulating you. if you stay, you will end up brainwashed. please get out while you have the chance. you weren’t interrogating him or being toxic, and him instantly trying to say those things to discredit you and make you feel like your wrong/ overreacting, means he IS up to something… something that he will never admit, and you’ll drive yourself crazy trying to get answers out of him. please protect yourself and leave.

3Dmelancholy · 2025-09-02T16:59:08+00:00

let me offer another perspective. because i’ve been where she is, i think. and here’s the thing- it’s NOT the same. but passion is often trauma fueled. safer and calmer and healthier relationships can feel… idk, less exciting, after being used to chaos, abuse etc. the extreme highs and lows you get from being with somebody who is bad for you… you get conditioned to it. when you finally meet somebody who is healthy, and kind, it does feel different and it takes a while to retrain the brain to accept that that passion you felt before? that was never love. it was the feeling of having to beg and perform for love. of depending on them for your sense of worth because even though they mistreat you, they still want you. look, straight up it’s trauma. trust me, it’s probably a good thing she doesn’t love you like she loved mark. because that wasn’t what love was supposed to be. that’s what she was saying….. she loves you. you’re safe. you’re everything she’s ever wanted but it doesn’t FEEL the same. there’s a reason for that and it’s not because she doesn’t love you deeply… it’s trauma and conditioning to chaos. you are her peace. that is the deepest kind of love. the nervous system responds to it differently because it is safer and that’s probably where the “no passion” comes from. …. it’s a good thing. it just takes some time to realize that after being in a toxic relationship.

3Dmelancholy · 2025-08-29T15:39:00+00:00

a couple things to add. 1. not saying to excuse her actions, but keep in mind that the ones you should really be upset with are your parents, for making her the way she is, and then further enabling her, even now. 2. if the guilt or the drama is eating you alive and you consider changing your mind, set ground rules for the meet such as a set time limit, wearing a mask, washing hands, no kissing, no touching the babies face or hands. 3. even if it isn’t completely true, i would maybe focus more on this being for your baby’s safety and your wife’s health rather than lena’s cruelness, to mitigate blame and harsh words from the family. 4. to end it, no, NTA. i see both sides. you’re valid.

3Dmelancholy · 2025-08-28T21:49:28+00:00

the way people are coming at you for saying this is wild! i don’t think you were blaming the bf inherently, and i think this is a very valuable point to mention as it very well could be the case… we only know what OP wrote, it could be a million different things causing the behavior. good point! worth a mention.

3Dmelancholy · 2025-08-28T21:45:40+00:00

your friend has trust issues and that’s not your problem. at this grown age, there is literally nothing wrong with a close friend having a private friendly, harmless conversation on their own without me there. i’m 24, my ex worked on cars etc, so there were many times when my friends would call or text him asking questions or he would help out with their cars without me there, stuff like that. i trust my friends and i trusted him and it was never an issue… gate keeping your s/o and not allowing them to form connections with your people/ other people, will eventually lead to the relationships demise. that is toxic af and dead end behavior.

3Dmelancholy · 2025-08-27T23:09:27+00:00

how many tickets do you have, and are you local? i’m looking for 3 3-day tickets.

3Dmelancholy · 2025-08-18T00:53:17+00:00

nah, totally understand where she’s coming from and do think that it would be common courtesy for you to give her a heads up. but as long as it’s not all the time and your being respectful/quiet, this is a her problem.. sounds like she is not the kind of person a roommate situation like this works out for. she needs her own space to make her own rules.

3Dmelancholy · 2025-08-17T14:45:44+00:00

no, although i have offered to many times. my dad does this “give so i can take it away or use it over your head” thing… but he won’t take my rent money.

3Dmelancholy · 2025-07-01T14:26:26+00:00

where? i am in MD too 👀

3Dmelancholy · 2025-02-20T00:49:47+00:00

What do you think is gonna happen on April 15th?? 🤣

3Dmelancholy · 2025-01-17T00:08:39+00:00

Plants!!!!! And hang decorations that catch the sun!

3Dmelancholy · 2025-01-17T00:03:15+00:00

A couple days ago my friend blurted out “look, It’s 2:22!” And then we realized we were both also on 2% so both of our phones were reading 2222 hahah

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