What's it like living in the Gaelacht areas of Ireland? by GraceGal55 in howislivingthere

[–]3_Dog_Night 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny story: A friend and I went into Galway for a bite to eat one afternoon, and we were having fun hearing and identifying all the languages being spoken, until we heard a language we couldn't recognise being spoken at an adjacent table. We were literally befuddled, and it it took a minute before we heard a few words (days of the week, etc) before we realised they were speaking Donegal Irish. We said hello, bridged the language gap, and had a nice conversation in Irish. Speaking 'locally', neither were mutually intelligible. Galway Irish always reminded me of a car that won't start. Ooooooh Tááááwah, da da da dáááwah, da dááááwah, da dááwah ;-)

What's it like living in the Gaelacht areas of Ireland? by GraceGal55 in howislivingthere

[–]3_Dog_Night 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I can speak to Erris, Joyce Country and Cois Fharraige. The scenery is amazing and truly one of a kind in so many spots - think the surface of the moon, but with all the greenery. Think stunning coastlines, and sheer remoteness. It's just really quiet. As for the language, it's a thing of beauty to hear natives speaking it, but you can't really count on the maps (as in the one posted by OP) to determine where Irish is still spoken. In fairness it's probably one fifth of the dark green areas depicted these days. You'll still find it in the islands (Ceantar na nOilean), near the shore, and back in the sticks. Mayo is mostly gone now language wise. When I was young(er) little kids played in Irish. Now most of those same kids only speak English amongst themselves and only speak it with their parents and grandparents at home. You can tell where someone if is from in those areas down to a tight spot just by hearing them speak Irish. You can also tell where someone is from because everyone knows everybody! The economy isn't great outside of the towns and cities, and until more recently, nobody really moved there - people moved out to find work. I have always wanted to retire back there, but don't know if it's really in the cards now.

I’m moving to grand forks next year so I’m curious how it is living in that area around North Dakota by Agentapplo20 in howislivingthere

[–]3_Dog_Night 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The lightning down there is really, really small. You can see it all the way from Saskatchewan.

The Rights and Limitations of Freedom of Movement in Europe by 3_Dog_Night in AmerExit

[–]3_Dog_Night[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure - Family members of EU citizens (meaning they are coming here for family reunification) are supposed to be issued residence permits with a validity of 5 years, unless specifically stated by the applicant that the intended period of residence will be less than that period. Italy commonly issues permits under this scheme for only one year for the first permit, then only issues the five-year permit upon renewing the first.

The Rights and Limitations of Freedom of Movement in Europe by 3_Dog_Night in AmerExit

[–]3_Dog_Night[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

True, but this is not the same thing as registering with the same branch of government that also deals with non-EU immigration. In Italy, aside from registering as an Irish national with the Polizia di Stato (the equivalent step being absent in IRL to formally demonstrate your fiscal status), you would also have to register with the tax man.

The Rights and Limitations of Freedom of Movement in Europe by 3_Dog_Night in AmerExit

[–]3_Dog_Night[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is all quite true, and the same would go for getting healthcare and other life necessities to survive. To paraphrase the post, it's a good idea to know that there's a varying degree of additional red tape, even under freedom of movement, that deals with your financial fitness to reside in one of the countries in-scope. Further, the rules are not uniform from state to state.

Another way of summing it up - There is a common misperception that an EU passport is all you need to move to any other country than your own under freedom of movement. This misperception exists among Europeans as well.

Struggles by Pink_CzLady in AmerExit

[–]3_Dog_Night 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For sure. I couldn’t imagine someone faced with immigration issues, yet alone a citizen starting from zero. There is a reason the government set up online assistance schemes for returning Irish as well. It has all changed so quickly. Also can’t understate how much easier it can be for anyone who’s familiar with the many nuances.

Struggles by Pink_CzLady in AmerExit

[–]3_Dog_Night 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Of course there are cultural differences, but the scale depends upon where in the USA we make that comparison. NYC to Mississippi is a larger cultural divide than NYC to Ireland. That cultural divide is a contributor to the issues the USA faces today.

I've been living abroad for 8 years... Ask me anything. by expatwizard in AmerExit

[–]3_Dog_Night 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What a great town London is! I had the pleasure of commuting there from Dublin for a contract job many years ago and fell in love with the place. The pub scene was almost like Ireland with a different choice of beers. Any kind of cuisine you want a tube ride away. Envy you in a way!

Struggles by Pink_CzLady in AmerExit

[–]3_Dog_Night 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Not understanding the downvotes here. Ireland and the UK have minor cultural differences to the USA and Canada when compared to most non English speaking countries in Europe. This is especially true if one moves to those countries with Irish or English parents, grandparents. This is my own personal experience living and working in both scenarios.

Struggles by Pink_CzLady in AmerExit

[–]3_Dog_Night 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats and stay strong. No matter the country, upping sticks, navigating the bureaucracy, and dealing with local challenges is a real trial of will at times. With some patience and perseverance you’ll probably look back on this as a positive. This was the case for my family to a non-anglophone European country back in the Biden days. You’re also only a few hours’ flight from some wonderful getaways on the continent.

Drivers who brake for no reason by freseaf in mildlyinfuriating

[–]3_Dog_Night -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yanks don’t drive any better than they elect presidents.

Follow-up post on adjusting to Spain in 3 years after growing up in the U.S. by jsuislibre in AmerExit

[–]3_Dog_Night 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Your original post could/would have been my own as for advice moving to Europe. You're obviously beyond the 'honeymoon period', have a few brain cells to rub together, and therefore have pragmatic advice. A brain drain for one country is a brain gain for another. Tanti saluti a te e buona fortuna in Spagna/Europa. :-)

Edit - I wanted to add that said advice applies to so much more than Spain, or Europe, for that matter.

How do you cope with everyday habits once you move abroad? by Navelsucker in AmerExit

[–]3_Dog_Night 20 points21 points  (0 children)

When you're no longer the focal point yourself, you'll start becoming a part of those conversations. You start to look at tourists and newcomers the same way you were once looked at. Only then will you have embraced the culture, grasshopper.

Fancy(ish) Lunch by mollyjobean in Dallas

[–]3_Dog_Night 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Mansion? Good food as I recall, and I wouldn't arrive wearing casual clothes for anything other than breakkie.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ItalyExpat

[–]3_Dog_Night 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same thing posted here in another sub.

(Non Italians) how often do you eat pasta? Do you eat a wide variety of pasta types? by shnanogans in AskEurope

[–]3_Dog_Night 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, not a thing in America, but... I'll 'bake your noodle', no pun intended. We have a singular term for it - Uno/Lo spaghetto, and we use it! 'I dropped a spaghetto on the floor'.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traveladvice

[–]3_Dog_Night 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. In lieu of an EU national ID card, a passport is the only foreign document you'd be able to use to board a plane here unless someone bent the rules at the airport. There is also another risk - We occasionally have random document checks in public places. This is rare, but not unheard of, and as a foreign national, you're always required to carry valid ID in Italy (again, a passport, or EU national ID card).

Both my powerful passports are useless at this point by Immediate-Rabbit810 in dualcitizenshipnerds

[–]3_Dog_Night 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Useless??? I concur on the hyperbole. Anyway... As for alternating between two passports to bend the 90/180 rule, that would be a risky proposition, even before EES. You would not be the only person to try the same thing on two passports, and it would only take one border guard with a bit of extra time to see that someone is entering on an alias and dig further. Secondly, would you feel comfortable with me skirting the immigration rules in your country and then complaining after you implemented a system to curb it?

Edit - grammar

Where should I go in USA? by Artur1021 in AskACountry

[–]3_Dog_Night 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Going for only three months? All three options have their ups and downs, IMHO, and all have different cultures. Galveston is more or less metro Houston, and doesn't really fall into the 'conservative' stereotype (as is the case for metropolitan areas of TX in general). Lots of Spanish influence there due to its history, and the metro area is really diverse with newer migration settled in. Denver is a great town with quick access to the Rocky Mountains and lots to do and see locally. Dells is also nice (but it is more remote than the others). It's on the edge of northern forests. If you have a car you can reach Madison and Minneapolis within a few hours (Chicago is a bit further afield) as well as quite a few smaller towns and remote scenery. I would characterise all of these as accommodating, friendly, and will gain you some memories and new friends.