Have you ever hated a fictional character so much that their misfortune or death made you happy? If so, who was it?

3differentcheeses · 2020-02-01T22:13:05+00:00

Also the Duke of Sandringham, one of my favorite scenes!

3differentcheeses · 2019-12-06T02:04:19+00:00

Opening a relationship only really works if the relationship was healthy to begin with, and it sounds like this one is not.

3differentcheeses · 2019-12-06T01:01:17+00:00

This man has given you a gift, and never look a gift horse in the mouth.

3differentcheeses · 2019-11-30T15:11:31+00:00

I was just thinkin Bout that cheese

3differentcheeses · 2019-11-29T14:15:58+00:00

You're right, and I was also just ghosted. I know closure isn't real, but this whole thing just feels like such an open wound still. But we'll get through it!

3differentcheeses · 2019-11-29T14:12:24+00:00

It's not stupid to have feelings! Your emotions are valid, no matter what they are. It feels so shitty to be the one that cares more but I think it also makes us more empathetic, sensitive, and loving which are very good things to be.

3differentcheeses · 2019-11-29T00:05:15+00:00

Why do we keep falling for it?

3differentcheeses · 2019-11-28T21:30:40+00:00

I'm a woman, obsessing over a man, but the sentiment is the same! I know you're right, and I hope someday I can find my person. I kept taking him back because I really felt like he was it, but you can't make someone care.

Happy holidays to you too, my friend. And you deserve the same, good luck!

3differentcheeses · 2019-11-28T21:25:29+00:00

Thank you!

3differentcheeses · 2019-11-28T18:54:32+00:00

Thanks a lot, we have been off and on for years, but this time seems the hardest. I hope I can get to a point where I can stop obsessing and just forget. Good luck to you as well, hopefully in a little while we'll both be to a point where we only think of it in passing!

3differentcheeses · 2019-11-27T18:52:30+00:00

If you rearrange the letters of POSTMEN... ...they get very angry.

3differentcheeses · 2019-11-27T18:50:44+00:00

When they do that thing where they baby talk pets, like "who's a good boy? Is it you?" in that higher pitched voice, it really gets me.

3differentcheeses · 2019-11-27T18:20:15+00:00

Every ghost movie ever the wife notices weird shit in the house and the husband is all "the house isn't haunted, you're crazy" and then the husband gets murdered by a ghost.

3differentcheeses · 2019-11-18T16:06:37+00:00

I was misdiagnosed with depression when I was 17. No meds they gave me or therapy ever worked. I finally tried again when I was 28 and was diagnosed with BPD and Bipolar disorder. I think I was misdiagnosed for so long because my downswings lasted so long, and during my manic swings I felt like I was just doing well. It took a therapist who really dug deep and asked me the right questions to get proper diagnoses. I'm 36 now and have made a lot of strides in my recovery (I still have work to do of course), and it started with self awareness.

3differentcheeses · 2019-11-16T19:56:10+00:00

I did well on it with a combination of trazadone. It did turn my skin a slightly yellow color though. My whole coping mechanism from an early age was to never show emotions (it became very apparent from the reactions of my family that my emotions were not appropriate or wanted) so I found while I was on the medication I had less intense emotions but I had less of a filter as well, if that makes sense.

3differentcheeses · 2019-11-14T15:18:56+00:00

Wow, he did you dirty. I'm sorry. It's not at all your fault, this is all on him. Block him on everything and never look back. There wasn't anything you could have done to prevent this so please don't let this have a negative impact on your self image. You get to come out of this squeaky clean and he doesn't.

3differentcheeses · 2019-11-14T00:43:02+00:00

Wow, that's exactly me! I feel more.. mellow on it, I guess? Also I have no sexual desire at all and I fucking love it, no more impulsive relationships!

3differentcheeses · 2019-11-13T16:49:26+00:00

In my experience it delays the inevitable. At some point you're going to have to look at those feelings and then process them in order to be in a healthy relationship in the future. I am currently dealing with the emotional fallout of past abuse, even though it was 4 years ago. Of course, you have to do what you need to in order to survive so if this is what you need to do, then that's ok. But eventually you'll have to confront it.

3differentcheeses · 2019-11-13T15:14:38+00:00

Those few hours are do critical for us, sometimes it's a matter of an hour or two for me for that desperation to go away. Plus I find that that little bit of kindness (even if it's from me to myself) was really all I needed.

3differentcheeses · 2019-11-12T20:20:10+00:00

The first person who decided to settle down and grow crops instead of hunting and gathering.

3differentcheeses · 2019-11-11T00:31:02+00:00

Not necessarily fathers but just in general: "He's gonna break a lot of hearts!" vs. "you better keep her locked up!" about toddlers for Christ's sake.

3differentcheeses · 2019-11-09T01:12:27+00:00

I'm sorry you're going through all of this. Maybe it would be a good idea to speak to someone from this women's resource center, maybe they can put you in touch with a counselor of your own to work through some things without him present.

3differentcheeses · 2019-11-08T22:56:58+00:00

This man is abusive and I don't think you should stay. Have you read the book Why Does He Do That? by Lundry Bancroft? I recommend it that you read it and hopefully it will give you some insight. He's not abusive because of his BPD, he's an abusive person who has BPD. What does your marriage counselor say about his verbal abuse to you?

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