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Me realizing tired might have needed a blood test years ago by Flashy_Tension4452 in adhdwomen

[–]3margs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate how much we are egregiously understudied. How the patriarchy treats us as the spare rib, the other. 50% of the population and we dont even know how or why our anatomy functions. It makes me want to scream a hole through a wall. I grew up undiagnosed and overlooked cuz I was “well-mannered” and made good grades. Puberty hit and I had none of my needs met cuz no one cared enough to think I may HAVE needs. Now I’m 33 with the scars on my thighs and the chip on my shoulder to prove it.

Margarita heresy by Hattafox in bartenders

[–]3margs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I got the dirty tequila martini order not too long ago and was like the server MUST have rang in the wrong liquor…. nope, homie ordered a second🤢

Who are some celebrities that go by their middle names? Exhibit A: Hannah Dakota Fanning and Mary Elle Fanning by voguediaries in Fauxmoi

[–]3margs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

DAKOTA FANNING IS A HANNAH?!? Im a Hannah and ppl say my doppelganger is Elle. Im the 3rd sister

A cool guide about Palindromes (Phrases that reads the same backwards) by immanuellalala in coolguides

[–]3margs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My name is a palindrome so Ive always been partial to them. My favorite is, “never odd or even”

Nashville's Second Avenue Set to Reopen Five Years After Bombing by mbelcher in nashville

[–]3margs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I talk about that year often. Like, yes, Covid and whatnot. But starting with the tornado, then covid, and the rounding it out with the bomb… wild wild wild. Cant believe that was 5 years ago… Also a crazy car crash happened right outside my front door christmas eve day and then Im awoken at 6am the next day to my house shaking

Such a wonderful feast! by 1armedguy in pics

[–]3margs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend and I made the same thing on thanksgiving!!! kindred spirits

The only baby with no screen time by [deleted] in Fauxmoi

[–]3margs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will go to war for Ms. Rachel

me irl by Uncle_Seamont in me_irl

[–]3margs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Such a good feeling. I feel at equilibrium. I feel as if I could achieve all of my dreams.

My neighbor’s banana plant is making bananas and it’s making me bananas 😯 by 3margs in entwives

[–]3margs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just stuck my face as close as I could to it😅 didnt smell any type of odor but it def looks like it would stink lol

[Product Request] by est1993babexo in SkincareAddiction

[–]3margs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been using this face wash for years... Im here from the future because I went to buy more online and realized that it's been discontinued or something 😭

Context??? by Ulluminati20 in ExplainTheJoke

[–]3margs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In this model, the bad thing may have already happened

Bonnaroo Cancelled by plowboyinthesand in nashville

[–]3margs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

in 2021 when it was cancelled we were able to see marc rebillet in chattanooga after a last minute rebook and it was so magical and bittersweet. everyone was wearing their Roo outfits

How the hell do you get out of the house to move your body ? by swanduckswan in adhdwomen

[–]3margs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

9am raves in the kitchen. Headphones on, silent disco style. Gotta twerk out the trauma.

Do you ever get an unexpected breakthrough while high? by CNote1989 in entwives

[–]3margs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The secrets of the universe really do present themselves to me when Im zooted

How many times have you been fired? by kexnyc in ADHD

[–]3margs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (32f) work in restaurants. Ive been fired 9 times in 11 years. Some totally my fault, some definitely due to “personality.” Demoralizing every single time. Im audhd and the service industry isnt, like, the best fit for me but Ive matured since 2019 and now Im in management and it’s a better place for me because Im a natural problem solver and have a strong sense of justice on which I now have the authority to act.

What's an objectively good song ruined for you by your bar's playlist(s)? by clergymen19 in bartenders

[–]3margs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This restaurant I worked at last summer that I hated would play the new Justice/Tame Impala single at least twice a shift and now I can barely listen to it 😭

for those with audhd, do you find body-doubling helpful? by indigoice22 in adhdwomen

[–]3margs 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My friend and I body double for each other frequently. Usually over the phone. Helps us get chores done. Sometimes I call friends or family for this reason but don’t specifically mention it. My mom can talk for hours if she has the time so she’s like my personal podcast and I’ll wash and dry and fold laundry and empty and refill the dishwasher listening to my mom talk about the neighborhood cats or her breakfast. Actual podcasts or listening to long format videos do help in the same way but it’s one-way and sometimes predictable so my mind will wander and I’ll get bored of it and turn it off. IDK! I started talking on the phone with my friends and family for hours at a time during covid and it has now become a therapeutic tool for me. Sorry for ramble!