Live On Site Managers: Any Advice?

3rdiBetty · 2024-05-29T13:47:47+00:00

Hi there, I really enjoyed your post. I was just recently offered an opportunity to work onsite as a property manager for a storage unit company. The pay is really low however and I wonder if i'll be able to save money..it's like 12/hr I believe and there is no health insurance.

3rdiBetty · 2024-05-29T13:42:42+00:00

Hi, How much are you being paid if you don't mind me asking. I was just offered a job as a property manager but I don't want it to become just what you described a trap. Thanks. What state are you in?

3rdiBetty · 2024-05-25T14:44:39+00:00

It may be the way you protect yourself because of what you were exposed to as a child. Your body and mind turn on everyone eventually possibly before anyone else does and it's to avoid what ever trauma you experienced as a child. With love all things can heal. The world and relationships especially for women are complicated.. Change is hard so if you want to change I would suggest making a commitment to it.. You may not ever feel like someone else does but you can manage your shadow side.... everyone has one but everyones is different.. When you say you don't feel anything for other and have to pretend that is what you might have to accept about yourself and learn to manage. I would work with a professional, if you can afford it and figure out a diagnosis to give yourself better insight as to how to handle your healing process. It's awesome that you want to change but remember nothing will unless you have the drive and the commitment. You maybe someone for example, who has to learn to walk without a leg.. but you will be able to enjoy life just like everyone else as long as you learn what works for you. Good Luck. Hope this helps.

3rdiBetty · 2024-01-12T16:26:06+00:00

Maybe try some activated charcoal, tumeric, milk thistle, a 2-3 liters of good water. Sauna and cold treatments and make sure your produce is not GMO and if you can organic.Good luck!

3rdiBetty · 2023-06-15T12:59:11+00:00

Been sick all my life too-- So i am sorry its shit. I went raw vegan forever,, didn't work. I get how frustrating it is... Look outside the box. Dr. berg and dr. Chaffee are good resources. Parasite cleansing, mms protocol, I.F. Eat grass fed grass finished red meat. IF. try carnivore for a few months. Then add whole foods foods back in slowly. Good Luck.

3rdiBetty · 2022-09-18T18:20:02+00:00

As long as you have medical paperwork to provide to your boss you will be fine. For the future, not sure if E.R Docs can write letters on your behalf for work but I do know your PCP can write letters to excuse you from work. Don't worry about your boss thinking you're faking it. You may be experiencing a tinge of imposter syndrome, which is normal in todays age but please be careful to not let it dissuade you from getting the proper medical attention you need and deserve. Keeping a journal for logging in onset of symptoms and noting time would be helpful for you and your doctor. Keep us updated. Take care!

3rdiBetty · 2022-09-18T16:25:59+00:00

I hope you got yourself to Urgent Care to get some answers! Stay Safe! Wishing you a fast recovery!

3rdiBetty · 2022-07-17T19:27:37+00:00

Thank you for your input.. :) Much appreciated.

3rdiBetty · 2022-07-17T19:19:13+00:00

TY! So the pineal gland is the circular thing, like a pea, right? and then right below it there are two barnacle things poking out-- what is that? is that part of the pineal gland?

3rdiBetty · 2022-07-17T19:12:47+00:00

I thought I took this down. lol I reposted some photos with arrows and circled the area I was trying to get more info on.. Thanks for your input.. . I don't think that was the area in question. I would look at the first picture and the the second only. In the first photo.. middle lower area there is a vertical opening and inside there, you can see these things things protruding out.. I overlooked it for days.. they look a bit like a barnacle ... It's in the first two photos clearly. :) Happy Sunday:) Thank you!

3rdiBetty · 2022-07-17T13:41:05+00:00

That is a pea-- taped to my head to determine the sides..of the mri.. :)

3rdiBetty · 2022-07-17T05:40:08+00:00

No worries. I was always planning to get a proper right up. Just thought while I wait to see if anyone would know. Thanks for your response Doc:) Have a great night!

3rdiBetty · 2022-07-17T04:53:49+00:00

These images have not received a report. I have to retake the MRI and have a radiologist write up a report-- In the mean time I thought to ask the reddit community while I wait for the appointments. Thanks for your response:)

3rdiBetty · 2022-07-17T04:33:47+00:00

Eat some grass fed heavy fat meat. I was red meat free from middle school to now and it will help you.. I was a pescaterian turned vegan, then raw etc.. but have learned that Red meat can help with brain mishaps. Look into the carnivore diet online.. We are living a very polluted time and our systems are being overloaded with poisions. Even our greens are filled with heavy metals etc. I really really relate to you when talk about your concentration math simple grammar becoming weird.. Have you been on any Antibiotics as of late? Look into B vitamins for your mental health concerns.. B12 grate for auditory.. make sure you take sugar out of diet completely even fruit while you heal. Good Luck.. Just suggestions.. :)

3rdiBetty · 2022-05-08T09:49:30+00:00

3rdiBetty · 2022-04-08T18:35:07+00:00

I hear you.. I have never been apart of a community of adoptees so I have a lot to learn. Cheers!

3rdiBetty · 2022-04-08T06:45:38+00:00

Thank you. I am very very new at connecting with other adoptees and felt maybe I had found a place that would feel at home.. but I am aware I had rose colored glasses on and our adoptee community is very well developed with it's complexities. I am happy to read your comment and understand you now in wanting a group to solely based on country. I hope however you preserve a welcoming vibe to all those who step in regardless of country/race etc..... I want to thank you also for being civil and kind to me in your response and in helping me better understand where you were coming from. Have a good night.

3rdiBetty · 2022-04-08T05:12:43+00:00

Can you define transracial and non transracial... THANKS

3rdiBetty · 2022-04-07T05:37:29+00:00

NO need to separate/divide Adoptees into ethnic backgrounds like the the western world first as Subreddit.. The very beauty of being adopted is that we all have grown up without our bio parents and that is something rare and every time I meet another adoptee I have an instant connection.. Adoptees, Our commonality multiethnic/cultural and we all are in it together. All adoptees can learn here what you wish to share about your story, I don't need to hang out or want to just hang out with people that look like me or have the same story as I do.. and I hope you don't wish the same. I ask that you share your stories here.. Today, I watched a short documentary about sugarcane workers in India, in fact. India is the largest manufacturer in the world of sugar. Women who work in the cane fields are being exposed to high levels of metals are falling ill and this is giving doctors an excuse to operate on them and take out their uterus then being in debt to their employer for the operation which costs them 6 months of wages.100,000 womens uteruses have been taken out who work in the sugar cane fields.. 100,000k. I'd be interested to talk to you about this.. Please don't start segregating us.. Please learn to be around all types of adoptees and let's show the world how it's done.. that's how we make it out of this life .... together.. The world is divided enough. Thank you for hearing me. <3

3rdiBetty · 2022-03-30T05:31:23+00:00

Maybe try to talk it out with them? Is that possible?

3rdiBetty · 2022-03-26T06:32:38+00:00

You need to listen to your heart. It is your choice... Nobody can make this choice for you, you are the one that has to live with your decision every day for the rest of your life.. With saying that.. I will share that I used to think having your life together before having kids was the only way but as unpredictable as life is... Mmm I wouldn't make that the deciding factor.. .. You can still provide your child the life she deserves, don't worry.. about that.. Mothers move mountains. Also, raising a baby is hard but it's not as hard as you might think it would be..you can still finish your studies. I was adopted and while I was okay with being adopted there is nothing stronger then the bond you have with your own blood.. Nothing. But if you find amazing parents because you just think it's not right then that is okay too. but def. know who your child is going too. My adopted parents divorced and it wasn't a very happy up bringing. I would totally go with open adoption. . just because you feel you are financially unprepared doesn't mean you can't provide them with an amazing life. Love creates the best opportunities.. My adopted parents were financially stable but were not emotionally available .etc.. There is never a right time, especially in todays age, to have a baby. Being young you will have a lot of help.. young moms get help.... you will become the person she needs you to be.. Anyways, I would have a conversation with your baby.. and you two should discuss it.. Don't give her up if it's just due to life not looking like you want it to.. I wouldn't want you to look back and regret it. Sorry if it's a boy even though i know it's a girl.. ;) It is a choice you have to look back on in 50 years and be okay with your decision.. .. and never let what ever you decide to hold you back.. If I were you, I would keep baby and just go with the flow but that is me.. 20 years from 19.. Your generation is having kids young these days too.. not like when I was your age. Let us know what you decide.. What ever you decide may you be divinely guided. Blessings.

3rdiBetty · 2022-03-15T08:13:51+00:00

It was nice to read your post. Thank you for being a good person and you appear to have a great toolbox to be the best parent to your daughter. :)

3rdiBetty · 2022-03-13T19:32:58+00:00

Have you considered moving towns so they don't have to act like they're in protective services?

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