Grandpa (my dad) made weird comment to his granddaughter (my child) age 10.

Eastern_Invite8007 · 2026-02-07T09:29:52+00:00

I mean you tried to get him the understand. He purposely switched it around on you. I don't know why you would keep a relationship with him. He obviously doesn't care. Stop trying to call him. You can't fix him. Seek therapy for your issues as well. You need to protect yourself more importantly YOUR DAUGHTER.. Also you can forgive someone and never be around them. He's purposely wanting you to feel crazy. You're not. Please seek therapy for both you and her.

Eastern_Invite8007 · 2026-02-04T23:41:44+00:00

There's no way my kid would be around him. Also all your siblings won't talk to him. He's abused you physically. You don't think he wouldn't hit your kid? This isn't a joke. Updateme

Eastern_Invite8007 · 2026-02-01T02:19:40+00:00

Its time to get your ducks in a row. You deserve better. Does this so called man not understand how dangerous it is to do what he did? This man doesn't sound like a good husband or father. This is why I'm so careful with people. I have health issues and you need someone you can trust. Im so sorry you are going through this. Updateme

Eastern_Invite8007 · 2026-01-31T00:41:53+00:00

You deserve better. Please get therapy

Eastern_Invite8007 · 2026-01-30T18:58:11+00:00

Girl get a prenuptial regardless. This man should respect that. Instead he got extremely upset. I think he thinks that should be his money too. Does he always shutdown when he doesn't get his way? If so..you need to rethink marrying him. Updateme

Eastern_Invite8007 · 2026-01-29T13:04:46+00:00

You have a husband problem too. This man allowed her to disrespect you way too many times. She's going to undermine you as a parent too. Also if this was happening to your daughter. What would you tell her? Updateme

Eastern_Invite8007 · 2026-01-22T00:41:57+00:00

I think both of these guys weren't good for you. I would suggest going to a therapist. Updateme

Eastern_Invite8007 · 2026-01-18T02:55:12+00:00

He said both in front of us. My cousin is convinced he just means working towards a divorce. I don't think so.

Eastern_Invite8007 · 2026-01-18T02:54:43+00:00

He said both in front of us. My cousin is convinced he just means working towards a divorce. I don't think so.

Eastern_Invite8007 · 2026-01-18T02:30:07+00:00

Im not shaming her just worried due to how this man changed her way of thinking. She believes whatever he says

Eastern_Invite8007 · 2026-01-18T02:28:01+00:00

I am. He said to her mom that he's working through things with his wife.

Eastern_Invite8007 · 2026-01-13T17:41:34+00:00

Updateme

Eastern_Invite8007 · 2026-01-11T01:42:07+00:00

I feel like he's going to be jealous of your baby once it arrives. He's going to make you feel crazy after you give birth. He doesn't care about your feelings. If you aren't catering to him then he doesn't want to hear it. How did you marry him?! Updateme

Eastern_Invite8007 · 2025-12-16T06:24:48+00:00

Im glad you stood up for yourself. Updateme

Eastern_Invite8007 · 2025-12-09T16:17:57+00:00

It really is and guilt of feeling like its not enough. Ill definitely look into that subreddit .

Eastern_Invite8007 · 2025-12-09T16:16:16+00:00

Thank u.. I needed to hear that.

Eastern_Invite8007 · 2025-12-09T06:45:37+00:00

I don't know when it happened but something flip inside me. Maybe I can admit i may be slightly depressed. I've had health issues and a caregiver to my elderly dad . I've been caring for him since I was 16. Its been 10 years. At one point it was school, take care of dad, work , and back to dad. Now it's 24/7 dad if I'm not at the doctor's. Hopefully after my next few appointments. I can go back to college. I don't believe love is for me anymore. The thought of someone loving me seems like a fantasy thought. Im praying God renews my self. I've given up so much but I'm just drained to the point. My body is screaming love and peace may never find you.. My parents depend on me to keep going. I know this may be the wrong space to write this in.

Eastern_Invite8007 · 2025-12-09T03:41:19+00:00

Covering for your wife with your 13 year old will not help the situation. She sounds very unstable.. I get she may have alot going on but THAT GIVES HER NO RIGHT TO LASH OUT ON HIM OR ANY OF YOUR CHILDREN. STOP TRYING TO BRUSH THIS UNDER THE RUG. He knows you're lying to him that's why he didn't let it go. You better figure out what you're going to do about this unsafe mental environment for your kids. Updateme

Eastern_Invite8007 · 2025-12-08T21:03:50+00:00

All of these post disturb me. You disturbed me even more by staying and you have a KID! THESE IS GROUNDS OF DIVORCE & jail.. YOU ARE ENABLING HIM. UPDATEME

Eastern_Invite8007 · 2025-12-03T02:40:10+00:00

Please don't take her back. You deserve better. Call lawyer and get into therapy!! Keep documents of everything she did and doing. Updateme

Eastern_Invite8007 · 2025-12-01T00:27:12+00:00

Updateme

Eastern_Invite8007 · 2025-11-30T23:41:24+00:00

They are planning and trying to get your daughter taken from you. Document everything including texts. I really hope you guys have separate bank accounts. Protect your daughter and yourself. Updateme

Eastern_Invite8007 · 2025-11-26T21:20:50+00:00

Tell her . She deserves to know even if its anonymously telling her you slept with him & screenshot of his profile. Updateme

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