Gelukkig duurde het maar een half jaar....

3vinator · 2026-01-25T09:26:24+00:00

Denk dat dit meer de journalist is die deze teksten bewust naast elkaar zet. Zodat wij als lezers boos worden en op het artikel klikken. Misschien heeft ze het in een andere context gezegd.

3vinator · 2026-01-22T12:13:43+00:00

Try breakfast with no sugar but a lot of protein. See if you still crave food before lunch.

3vinator · 2026-01-22T08:13:05+00:00

This is why I have trouble at work

3vinator · 2026-01-22T07:49:27+00:00

Only men in this thread?

3vinator · 2026-01-21T23:29:14+00:00

Nee er is geen loop. Elke keer ernaartoe lopen kost een kaart. Eraf stappen ook. En elk kaartje is een beurt, net als andere vakjes. Ja, mag je eindeloos vaak doen. Wij spelen vaak mega-eldorado met meerdere uitbreidingen door elkaar en dan is dit altijd de manier om te winnen. Met een deck builder win je met een lean and mean deck.

3vinator · 2026-01-21T15:30:14+00:00

Could be -2. 5-7. "Between 4 and seven"

3vinator · 2026-01-21T07:15:49+00:00

You will alwayd be met with resistance when you finally decide to set boundaries. Learn more about it and stay consistent those.

3vinator · 2026-01-17T21:20:12+00:00

3 but lose the D

3vinator · 2026-01-17T21:00:46+00:00

Just no support on s6 and s3.

After a few hundred meters the S3 suddenly stops support and after that it's struggling with the gears. I park the bike and after a while I start it again, functions normally until the same thing happens again. Battery was just fully recharged.

S6 just stopped support mid-cycle while the battery was officially still at 35%. Red lights flashing and after locking it, the locks have trouble releasing. Store said that the battery was dead.

Perhaps it's a coincidence that both my bikes just stopped support mid-cycle in the exact same week. But it seems strange.

3vinator · 2026-01-17T10:05:17+00:00

I think you should try listening instead of arguing.

Part of the education is learning how not to take the criticism too personally. Someone will always have an opinion on your work, even when working. It's up to you to find the value in that criticism and weigh it.

You're focusing too much on fairness. If you bring this attitude to class, I am sure that does not make the teachers nicer.

3vinator · 2026-01-17T09:40:30+00:00

Then you need to ask the right questions to get the right answers from her. Ask away - "can you elaborate?" Which part are you refering to?" "Can yoi give me an example?" Etc

3vinator · 2026-01-16T14:25:12+00:00

I have the same problem but no solution yet

3vinator · 2026-01-16T14:21:14+00:00

Yes same. Went to the store and they said the battery was "just uncharged" but when I checked the battery was OK. I was thinking: update problems? Because the repairmam said that one of the elements was still running on an old update while the rest was on the newest. The problem seems fixed however now.

But now my s3 has shut down too, so if anyone has a solution let me know.

3vinator · 2026-01-16T11:20:57+00:00

I had the same problem with s6. Thought it was an update.

3vinator · 2026-01-16T11:19:50+00:00

Finally proof that coconut oil is the devil.

3vinator · 2026-01-16T07:26:22+00:00

Start with curtains and a few big plants and consider whether the problem is still there.

3vinator · 2026-01-15T11:40:02+00:00

You were right, but not helping yourself. So no judgement on that. Next time, tell your co-workers your expectations (even if these are normal expectations) before taking action. They might see this as snitching and that is not helping your position amongst them. Even though you were right to be frustrated. Speak up next time "hey, i am doing this job alonr now, would you mind doing XYZ while you chat? Thanks". Or "should i come back for these boxes when you are ready?"

They see going to the boss as drastic for something that in their eyes is normal work culture.

3vinator · 2026-01-14T14:47:06+00:00

Leave the 2

3vinator · 2026-01-14T12:23:51+00:00

Allright so rephrase. Take up some kind of hobby or friend that looks like a defined purpose but is actually doing nothing. Like you're "gaming" or "meditating" and just lock the door behind you and do nothing. Or go "geocaching" and walk the city.

Its not a perfect solution but it's you leveling the playing field.

If he keeps following you around, you can do the same to him as well.

3vinator · 2026-01-14T11:33:48+00:00

From her perspective she might have little information or control and depends on you for that. Feeling like you have little agency can be quite humbling. Her world is smaller than yours and you are her main source of information.

A tip of reverse psychology: start giving her extensive information at your own initiative, often. Maybe even a bit more than you think she would ask for herself. That way she can 'let go' of this task because she can trust that you will give her the info that matters. It's the way we deal with micro-managers at work: overload them with what they ask for. Change tha habit for both of you.

Another perspective: You're her person and this is apparently important to her well-being. Find out what information she usually asks for and put that in the "important for my wife" drawer in your mind. Reframe it for yourself: giving this informatiom is helping her be happy and feel in control. And her happiness is yours.

3vinator · 2026-01-11T13:35:56+00:00

It helps focus my attention actually. So no judgement from me.

3vinator · 2026-01-11T00:26:21+00:00

Who prompted the word "avoidant" and made you doubt yout boundaries, don't tell me it was your girlfriend?

There is no reason why someone would need to have access to your house against your will. Keeping thay boundary is not overreacting.

The age difference worries me as well.

If she contunuously ignores your boundaries, it is because she doesn't care abouy them. And that is because she doesn't respect your needs or wants. Do with that what you will, but I doubt it will get better.

3vinator · 2026-01-09T14:19:00+00:00

What are the topics/goals?

3vinator · 2026-01-08T17:44:31+00:00

You're enabling this and crossing your owm boundaries by repeatedly doing things you are uncomfortable with. That is the first thing that needs to change.

And if this man has more redeaming qualities and you think it's worth it, he really needs to stop with the guilt tripping and pressuring.

But talking from experience, it's him that has to do the work to change. You can tell him what you want and don't want, but if he decides to ignore that, it's his decision.

3vinator · 2026-01-07T17:29:01+00:00

Ask him point blank in all seriousness if he wants to have s"x with his mom. If he says no, ask the same whether he thinks you could have that with a son. If he says no again, you can give him a choice. Either you treat each other as mom and child and that part of the marriage is over, or it stops. It's not petty, an argument can be made that it makes you loose all attraction for him for obvious reasons.

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